Umhlobo onenzuzo Ligama esele livela kwisichazi-magama solwimi lwesiSpanish. Intsingiselo yawo yaziwa ngokukodwa ngokunikwa amaxesha esiphila kuwo kunye kuthetha ukuba nobudlelwane nomhlobo, kodwa ukugcina ukuzinikela okuncinci kunoko kuthandana.
Intsingiselo enikwe olu hlobo lobudlelwane kukuba unokuba ngumhlobo wam kunye nelungelo lokuchukumisa. "Sadibana, saba nexesha elimnandi, sonwabile kwaye ukuba kukho nantoni na esiya kulala, kodwa kude kube ngoko kwaye akukho nto" Esi sisindululo sobudlelwane bobuhlobo.
Ingcaciso yabahlobo
U-Amigovios lelinye lamagama esinawo ilifa kwamanye amagama american. Sinokukhumbula ezinye ezifana ne-papichulo, i-barbecue, i-poncho okanye inkunkuma. Ukuba eli gama likhona, kungenxa yokuba le ngcamango ikhona ngokwenene.
Ngaba yindlela entsha okanye indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane, apho kuqheleke kakhulu ukuyibona phakathi kwabafikisayo. Ekuqaleni kwamava abo kubudlelwane obunobuhlobo kunye nalapho kukho umnqweno wesini, abakayazi indlela yokwenza ipateni ekhonkrithi yento abayichaza njengobudlelwane, kwaye ngale ndlela. ngenye imini bakunye kwaye abanye abaninzi abekho.
«U-Amigovio: lubudlelwane obungekho sikweni, ngaphandle kwekamva kwaye ngaphandle kokulindela.«
Izithintelo zabo zimbalwa, bafuna nje yonwabela ngoku ngenkululeko epheleleyo kwaye bafumanise abantu abatsha kwihlabathi ekufuneka balifumene. Uninzi lwaba bantu abanakuthatha ubudlelwane obunzulu, kodwa abaninzi abanakucinga ukuba ngabahlobo nokuba ngenxa ye ukuzinikela okuncinci okugciniweyo.
Bekuya kuba yingozi ukuba omnye wabo ebenako wela umgca wobuhlobo kwaye unokuthandana. Kule meko kufuneka thatha uxanduva lokuba bobabini bazive befana Kwaye ungawaphuli loo mqobo. Olu hlobo lobudlelwane aluvumelekanga kwaphela kubantu abafuna ukugcina yonke into phantsi kolawulo, abanobuqili kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into enomona.
Ngawaphi amalungelo akhoyo kubahlobo
Kukho iimpawu ezininzi ezijoliswe kubahlobo. Kwaye ayisosivumelwano sokuba bazalisekise okanye basayine kwileta, kodwa enye ye Amanqaku agqama kakhulu kukuzinikela. Umtsalane ukhona, oko kuyabonakala, bayathandana ngokwasemzimbeni, bayonwabile kwaye babelana ngesondo manqaphanqapha okanye rhoqo.
Ngaba kukho ukusondelelana? Unokuthi ewe kwaye awukwazi. Njengomgaqo jikelele, xa ubudlelwane bukhululekile, loo nkalo ayinakuba nomdla kubo, umntu ngamnye uya "kumqulu wakhe", kodwa xa bebonana ukuhleka nokuzonwabisa akuyeki.
Kodwa ubuhlobo bunokubakho Kaloku, kwabo singabantu. Olu phawu lunokuvakala ngokuhamba kweminyaka. Umfana oneminyaka engama-20 sele eqala ukuba nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nabaphi na abahlobo bakhe kwaye ukuba songeza ukuthanda koku, baya kuba yimixube emibini eqhumayo. Ukuba sithetha ngobudlelwane kunye nokuzinikela rhoqo uthando kunye nombono wokwabelana ubomi kubonakala nomntu onezicwangciso zekamva.
Xa uqala ukugcina olu hlobo lobudlelwane "nomhlobo", abantu abalugcinayo baya kuhlala benalo kulula kakhulu ukwenza olu hlobo lwekhonkco. Imbono yakhe ngobomi iya kuba kukuzonwabisa, ukudibana nabantu abaninzi, ukuhamba kunye nokwenza izicwangciso zokuzonwabisa.
Ngaba le meko inokugcinwa ixesha elide?
Ayingabo bonke abantu Ngaba banokuba nalo olu hlobo lobudlelwane?. Unokuba nabahlobo, kodwa ukudlulisela loo mvakalelo kwisondo kuthetha ukuba ezinye iinkalo zinokugqithwa. Kukho abantu abathandanayo okanye abanomona abangakwaziyo ukugcina le nkululeko,
Mhlawumbi omnye wabo unokuqalisa ukwakha ubuhlobo ngesondo, kodwa inokuba nzima xa umbono wokwenza iiprojekthi okanye ukuziva ezinye iintlobo zeemfuno wenza ukuba kungabi nasiphumo.
Ngaba kufuneka kusekwe izivumelwano? ekuqaleni kolu hlobo lobudlelwane? Ubuhlobo badalwa ngokwemvelo kwaye ngoko ubomi babo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo kakubi kwenza ukuba umntu akrokre ukuba iwonga labo kufuneka ligcinwe ngolo hlobo. Oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kubakho abahlobo abafuna ukwenza izinto zicace kwasekuqaleni ukuze kungabikho ukungavisisani.
Ukususela ekuqaleni, ukuba uthotho lwemigaqo lusekwe ukugcina olu hlobo lobudlelwane, okanye luxoxiwe ngenxa yokuba akukho nto inokubugcina, ngoko. kukho uhlobo oluthile lokulalanisa esusa le meko.
Ngokumalunga nobume bokugcina obu budlelwane kwixesha elide, kunokucingelwa ukuba iyaphuka ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kukho abantu kuyo yonke into, ke le ngongoma ayinakugxininiswa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ekuhambeni kwexesha, enye yezi zimbini ayikwazi ukuyinyamezela loo nto beka ubudlelwane bakho nenkululeko epheleleyo, kuba ngaxa lithile kuya kufuneka umangalele elinye iqela uhlobo oluthile lweenkcukacha. Kwenzeka ukuba amabango angenziwa, umzekelo, oko umntu akwenzayo xa bengekho kunye. Kwaye kuyaqondwa ukuba kukho ukuncamathela kunye nokuzinikela. Xa ungasafuni ukuqhubeka nale, akufuneki kubekho ngxaki ekupheliseni olu hlobo lomdlalo.