Sele sixoxe ngobudlelwane be ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Isuka Hombres con Estilo Sithe asiyikholelwa le nto, kuba amaxesha amaninzi-ukuba akusoloko kunjalo-ubudlelwane budidekile kwaye sinokuphulukana nobuhlobo.
Abahlobo abaninzi besini esahlukileyo benza into efanayo nakowuphi na umthandi: baya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya, batya isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye, babukele iimovie behleli esofeni, njl njl. Ngoku, kwenzeka ntoni xa uye walala naloo mhlobo wakho? Oko kunokuba kuhle kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba uziva ulungile ngayo okanye ukuba sele unemvakalelo ngaye.
Isenokuba kukukhaba okuhle ukuqala ubudlelwane, kodwa kumaxesha aliqela, ukulala nomhlobo kunokubangela olunye uvakalelo, olona luqhelekileyo kukuzisola. Oku kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukugcina ubudlelwane obunobuhlobo naye okanye ngenxa yokuba ungafuni ukuba nento enzulu naye. Ke, umbuzo omkhulu uvela apha ... kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuze yonke into ihlale njengakuqala kwaye kungabikho namnye kuthi odidekileyo?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukuthetha naye, yamkele into eyenzekileyo ekuhleni, kodwa ngaphandle kokuveza iimvakalelo ezingalunganga. Ngale ndlela, akazukuziva esetyenziswa, kodwa ngokunganiki mdla kakhulu kwinto eyenzekileyo, akasayi kukholelwa ukuba yinto engaphezulu kunaleyo ibiyiyo. Emva koko, zama ukwenza isileyiti esicocekileyo, umbize ngendlela owawukwenza ngayo ngaphambili kodwa kuphela ngokwenza njengomhlobo.
Isitshixo esibaluleke kakhulu ekuqinisekiseni ukuba nisengabahlobo emva kwesondo ayilali kunye kwakhona. Yinto enye "ukwenza impazamo" kube kanye, kodwa yenye into ukuba yenzeke kabini okanye nangaphezulu. Kulapho into iya kudideka ngakumbi kwaye ungaphulukana nayo.
Enye into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni kukuba uyeke ukumcinga ehamba ze okanye ukhumbule umzuzu eniwuchithe kunye. Kuya kufuneka wenze kwaye ucinge ngokungathi awuzange umbone eze, njengesiqhelo ngokusemandleni. Elinye iqhinga kukuqhubeka usenza izihlobo ezifanayo neziqhelekileyo owawunazo ngaphambi kwesondo. Ukuba beniza kudanisa kunye, qhubekani nisenza. Ukuba badibana usuku olunye ngeveki bephunga ikofu, ndaqhubeka nokwenza njalo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ungenzi nantoni na enokuchazwa gwenxa.
Enye yeendlela zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo zamadoda kukudubula ujongene nemeko engathandekiyo. Sukutshintsha. Umxholo wobusuku besini uza kuza kwiincoko ezininzi, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka unyamalale. Kuya kufuneka uyithethe kwaye umxelele ukuba uyamthanda nje njengomhlobo olungileyo kwaye awufuni kuphulukana naye. Nyaniseka umxelele indlela oziva ngayo nendlela oziva ngayo.
Ngoku, njengoko abantu basetyhini bunzima kakhulu, akukho nto yale nto ndikuxelele yona ngasentla inokwenzeka. Ukuba iiveki okanye iinyanga zidlulile emva kwesehlo kwaye ekuphatha ngokungathi ulisoka, akaqondanga ukuba awufuni nto inothando naye. Ke, kule meko kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ubuhlobo buya kuphela kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba bube kwimeko embi. Kwaye uzilungiselele nantoni na ayenzayo kuwe… abafazi abanentiyo banokuba mbi!
Ukhe walala nomhlobo wakho? Wenze njani ukuba bafuna ukugcina obo buhlobo?
Inqaku libonakala libhaliwe ngumfazi !!! Kwenzeka ntoni ke xa sifuna ukuqhubeka nokwabelana ngesondo kwaye kwangaxeshanye ubudlelwane bobuhlobo? Kwabaninzi, ubudlelwane obunjalo bunokuba bobona bufanelekileyo. Kubonakala kum ukuba bacebisa ukuthintela umnqweno oqhelekileyo umntu onokuba nawo kubahlobo.
Ngaba ungathanda ukuba intombi okanye udade wakho aphathwe ngolu hlobo? Cinga ngcono!
Molweni zihlobo, ndiyanixelela ukuba kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye ukusukela ngo-Agasti bendinento efana nomhlobo weminyaka ndinobudlelwane naye
Ngapha koko, nathi siphume njengesibini kodwa yonke into ibibhidekile kwaye okuchasene noku kuphuma apha ndimxhomile kwaye ngoku ndiyinto engekhoyo ngaphandle kwakhe, kodwa ekugqibeleni iyakususwa, ndingacebisa ukuba Andizange ndilale ngesondo okanye ukuba unanye kuphela ukusukela ngoko yonke into iyabhideka kwaye ekugqibeleni sobabini siyasokola kuba asisengabahlobo njengakuqala kwaye ngenxa yesizathu esinye okanye esinye esingaphaya kwesini nam ndiye ndaqala ukumthanda, kungcono xuba izinto kwaye ube nobuhlobo obahlukileyo kulonwabo.
Ewe, bendinetshomi.ebendithanda kodwa bendingafuni uJada naye, inyathelo elihle. Sigqibe ukuyenza ngenye imva kwemini. Kwaye kwenzeka ngamanye amaxesha kwaye ndigqibe yonke into. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwentombi yam ngoku siyazingela kwaye sihlala ngokonwaba uMuhammad
Ndilele nomhlobo wam, kodwa unaye umfana athandana naye (nangona endixelele ukuba ebhedini ayimonelisi, ndimnike ubusuku bothando ukusuka ngo-00: 8 kuye ku-14: XNUMX kusasa / kushushu umhlobo wam, kodwa ke sayolala ke ngo XNUMX:XNUMX pm ndaya endlini yam / ngengomso ndaziva ndonwabile / ngaxesha lithile ndajongana naye ndamxelela ukuba ndifuna into e serious naye and uyala ngalo lonke ixesha, uyandilahla , kodwa une-iceberg ecaleni kwakhe andiqondi kwaye ke ufuna ukuba ngumhlobo wam, kodwa yeka ubuhlobo obunqabileyo endinabo esithetha ngesondo ngamanye amaxesha, ngaphezulu, ndinaye egumbini lakhe kwaye akahambi ze kodwa uhlala ebeka iziqhoboshi, bayandicebisa, kuba inyani ndiyiphila esihogweni.)
Ewe eli nqaku belilihle bendinomfazi ngamaxesha obhubhane kodwa belilungile kwaye kulandela ezi ngcebiso sele sithandana kwaye sinonyana endleleni