Xa umntu obhinqileyo ekuxelela ngezinto zakhe, kungenxa yokuba ukuthembana kunye nobuhlobo bakhe abuphelelanga, kodwa kunoko iinjongo zakhe endodeni ziyimpawu ezicacileyo ze injongo kunye nokuqwalaselwa. Luphawu olucacileyo lokuba uyayonwabela inkampani yakho kwaye unokuzithemba okukhulu. Inokuba ngumtsalane ngokweemvakalelo okanye ukuba iinjongo zakho ziyadala umqondiso ocacileyo wentabatheko.
Ukuba ufuna ukufumana okuninzi malunga nomntu wesifazana oxelela ngezinto zakho, kuya kufuneka ufumane ngeempawu ezicacileyo afuna ukukubonisa zona. Ihlabathi elididayo lomtsalane kuye kwafuneka ukuba buza kumabali amaninzi kwaye kufuneka ukhulelwe ulwazi oluthile kwi-intanethi. Ungafumanisa njani ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uyakuthanda okanye akathandi okanye zithini iinjongo zakhe, kuya kufuneka ufumane ngokusebenzisa ukulandela iifom kunye namandla zikubonisa ngale mizekelo ilandelayo.
Xa umntu obhinqileyo ethetha nawe ekuxelela izinto zakhe
Zininzi iindlela zokuseka incoko, umntu obhinqileyo Ungayenza ngokobuqu okanye ngeendlela zonxibelelwano. Ukuhlalutya indlela umfazi athetha ngayo nawe, ungalahli iinkcukacha zaluphi uhlobo lweempawu anokukuthumelela zona ngendlela yokuqala incoko okanye indlela yakhe yokuthetha.
Abasetyhini abanomdla bakhupha uburharha novuyo xa bethandana. Xa owasetyhini ekuthanda ukuthetha kwaye eziva ekhululekile phakathi kwakho, indlela yakhe yokuthetha iyoyika kakhulu, uhleka rhoqo kwaye i-blushes. Ayizukukhathazeka, kungenxa yokuba iziva imnandi. Uya kuqaphela ukuba uyathanda ukuthetha kwaye Gcina ulwimi oluvulekileyo, imilenze neengalo zabo ziya kwandiswa kwaye luphawu olucacileyo lomdla wabo kuwe.
Zininzi iinkcukacha ezilungileyo ngaphakathi kwencoko nomfazi. Uya kuhlala ejonge kuwe kwaye engayeki, akanakukunceda xa eziva enconywa. Umdla wakhe mkhulu kangangokuba akazukukuxelela nje izinto zakhe, kodwa uya kukubuza imibuzo emininzi engayeki. Ngale ndlela, awuyi kubonisa kuphela onke amakhubalo akho, kodwa ngemibuzo oya kuyibuza uvavanyo lwengqondo kubuntu bakho. Ufuna ukwazi ulwazi oluninzi malunga nawe.
Indlela yakhe yokuthetha ngokutyibilikayo kwaye uvalo luyabonakala
Qhubeka nomgca wokuqhubeka ubuza, incoko inamanzi kwaye ikhululekile ukuba uzive ukuba akakruquki kuwe. Unomdla kakhulu kwincoko yakho, endaweni yoko, ukuba akathethi kakhulu kwaye yonke into eyenzekayo iya kuba luphawu olubi. Qaphela uvalo lwakhe, ukuba udlala ngeenyawo kwaye uzichukumisa kakhulu, iya kuba luphawu olucacileyo lokuba akaphumli kuba uyakuthanda
Xa umfazi ekuxelela izinto zakhe kwaye enza ngokubhaliweyo
Indlela ye Imiyalezo yemidiya yoluntu Ifikile kwihlabathi lethu amashumi eminyaka ngoku. Ngenxa yeemeko ezahlukeneyo, kukho abantu abangasondelanga kakhulu ukuba kunye kwaye abanye, ngenxa yokuba benendlela enkulu yeemvakalelo, bayayisebenzisa. Abasetyhini banomdla wokubhala kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kwaye kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba uhlalutya nini kwaye njani bakuxelela izinto zabo kwaye Benza njani.
Zininzi iinkcukacha ezenzekayo xa umntu obhalela umfazi. Ukuba uyenza rhoqo kwaye ihlala ixesha elide, ikunika imiqondiso emihle kakhulu yokufuna ncokola nawe kwaye uhlale usondele. Kuya kufuneka uhlalutye ukuba iziphelo zezothando kwaye ayinguye umntu othe phithi bubudlelwane obunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokungaphezulu.
Umfazi ofuna ukuthetha nawe kwaye unomdla iya kukubhalela imiyalezo emide neenkcukacha, nkqu neenkcazo ezithile zezinto azenzileyo imini yonke. Enye inkcukacha kuxa, ngaphandle kokugqiba inkcukacha, usaqhubeka nokukhangela abanye qhubeka uthetha ngayo nantoni na. Umfazi ongafuni kuthetha akazukubonisa nkcukacha kwaye kuya kuqaphela ukuba baziva benyanzelekile ukuba baphendule.
Laa mfazi uzama ukuthumela imiyalezo kwaye uyenza rhoqo okanye bhala izicatshulwa ngokulandelelana ukuya kwizihlandlo ezibini. Inokuba inzima kakhulu okanye ayinakukhathaza kuba nawe unomdla kakhulu.
Xa loo mfazi ekubhalela kwaye uyenza kakuhle, apho kuninzi ukubonisa kwaye uziva. Uya kwinkathazo yokwenza izivakalisi zangaphambili. Kuquka oonobumba abakhulu okanye iimpawu ezineenkcukacha ezininzi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ude aye kwingxaki ye isidenge ngathi yintombazana kuba izithembile. Ukuba unomdla kakhulu, uya kufuna nokwabelana ngeengoma, amaxesha, incwadi, amabinzana abhaliweyo nawe ... eya kukuxelela okuninzi ngobuntu bakhe.
Isaziso ukuba usebenzisa ii-emoticons kakhulu, kuba luphawu olucacileyo lokuba ufuna uyazi ngenene indlela aziva ngayo. Abantu abasebenzisa kakhulu lwakho bafuna ukuthetha kwaye baya kwingxaki yokwenza incoko ebhaliweyo ibe mnandi.
Ungathandabuzi ukuba indlela yakhe yokufuna ukuthetha nawe, nokuba ibhaliwe okanye ibhaliwe, iya kuhlala ivavanywa. indlela yakhe yokuhamba, ngenxa yobukrelekrele bakhe kwaye ufuna kangaphi ukuyenza. Ukuba zonke ezi zinto zidibene, nokuba ezinye zichaziwe, ngokuqinisekileyo kungenxa yokuba ufuna ukufumana ingqalelo yakho, wazi ngakumbi ngawe kwaye akuxelele ngobomi bakhe.