When having sex with a person it is essential that the evening is anticipated with a nice entrance called "prelims". We know the practice of sex when there is intercourse, but we refer to have something preliminary, an entrance with its maximum emotion before the penetration.
If the couple is in a quiet atmosphere It will always be much more relaxing to start with the preliminaries, where we can relate them to a small game of gestures and caresses that will incite what comes after.
What are the preliminaries?
El prelude or preliminary It is that which precedes a thing. If we put the preliminaries within the sexual game, we will define it as the preheating before the introduction to intercourse.
During the preliminaries both people they enjoy the caresses, the kisses and stimulate all the sensitive areas so that the excitement rises. Some couples use sex or erotic toys to experience new sensations.
The fact of having a fun space before sexual practice It is something that they like, but not everyone is in favor of practicing it. This entry will be related to the personality type of the couples and even with the appetite to make it last just a few minutes or a long time.
Women are very assiduous to this practice, since for her it is important to have a great genital arousal. It is not known if it is associated with her affective sexual education, so her claim goes accordingly. That is why I always they are more playful, affectionate and sensual.
Instead, some men they do not need sexual games, their genital arousal is sufficiently prepared for action, they have much more focused concentration, although there are facts and likes for everything.
How are the preliminaries?
There is a great diversity of maneuvering this time. everything will depend of love, desire and sensuality, From here on, any movement will follow the creativity of each person.
The preliminaries can be anything from a simple glance to a few simple caresses Before reaching penetration there may be oral sex, kisses and testing of erogenous zones with the hands or with the tongue.
How long can a preliminary last? The answer is very simple, all that is desired and how far you want to let your passion go. What is considered a satisfactory and fulfilling sexual relationship is when intercourse has finally taken place and orgasm has been achieved. It should be noted that in many of the preliminaries you can reach orgasm without any problem.
Ideas to excite a woman in the foreplay
The area where sex is going to be practiced must be calm and appetizing, with dim lighting and a comfortable bed. The preliminaries can be prepared when the rush does not matter, beginning to take off their clothes and caressing each bit of skin that is left bare. gotta do it without haste and using sensuality in every moment.
The will of many men is to make the woman feel comfortable and excited. It does not matter how to get it and dedicate the time it takes. can be started with some caresses or a sensual massage, the important thing is to enjoy the body and let yourself go. There are many on the market body oils with different aromas, there are even those for edible use to end up licking your body.
The basis of all preliminaries is kissing. You can start with kisses on the lips and mouth, always hot and wet. You can also kiss some areas such as the ears, the nape of the neck, the neck, nipples, etc. Y ending with the erogenous zones and of great interest, which can be left for last. oral sex It is for many couples something essential before having intercourse.
For couples who practice a lot of foreplay there are also many other ideas. You can break the routine by using sweet and erotic foods such as cream, strawberries and chocolate. All accompanied by caresses and kisses.
And for couples who go much further, touching can be extended with a repertoire of sexual games. Some will use the bondage game (being submissive) to let themselves be a sexual slave, even using the whip. But many others use their sex toys to be more complete, such as vibrators or clitoral stimulators or anal masturbators.
Creating this kind of foreplay is know and explore the body of the loved one. We must not ignore this moment because it is a way of playing with all the senses of the body. If you have respect and fear of it, the best thing is to try it to break the fateful taboos and make others also know our body. For many couples, this game is synonymous with not going to the point, but rather giving one more extra pleasure before reaching intercourse.