Ukuba unobudlelwane obuzinzileyo kunye neqabane lakho, usenokuba ungene kwixesha lokuzonwabisa ngakumbi. Isiqhelo, usuku nosuku lenza idangatye liphele. Umsebenzi okanye isikolo sinokungakuvumeli ukuba wonwabele amaxesha ngokuzeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba unike iqabane lakho inkcukacha kwaye ubabonise indlela onwabe ngayo ukuba kunye nabo.
Kule nqaku siza kukunika iingcebiso malunga ungalothusa njani iqabane lakho. Ngaba uyafuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane obuhle nobunomdla? Apha sikuxelela iinkcukacha ezininzi 🙂
Khumbula ukuba kutheni eliqabane lakho
Umbono wokwabelana ngobomi bakho bonke nomnye umntu yinto entle kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba nzima ukuba wena kunye nomntu ohlala naye akusoloko nivana kakuhle. Kuya kubakho iimpikiswano, amaxesha amabi (ahlala ekhona), kodwa oku akufuneki kukuthintele ekumboniseni isizathu sokuba ukhethe ukuba naye.
Akukho sidingo sokulinda imihla enje ngeentsuku zokuzalwa okanye izikhumbuzo. Ingcaciso nje xa ungalindelanga ukuba iya kuba yelungileyo kuni nobabini. Kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba kanye njengokuba sithanda ukuphathwa kakuhle, kufuneka senze njalo nakomnye umntu. Ke, Akucebisi ukungahoyi iqabane lakho.
Ngezi ngcebiso zilandelayo uyazi ukuba ungothuka njani iqabane lakho nangaliphi na ixesha.
Yiza nesidlo sakusasa ulale kwaye uthumele imiyalezo emnandi
Kubonakala ngathi yinto eqhelekileyo yothotho kunye neemovie kodwa yinkcukacha entle. Cinga okomzuzwana ukuba kufuneka uvuke kwakusasa uphume ebhedini (ngokulunga kwayo) ukulungiselela isidlo sakusasa nokunxiba. Ukuba wenza iqabane lakho isidlo sakusasa, uya kuba ulungiselela eyona nto ayithandayo, Uya kuligcina elo xesha kunye nomzamo kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, uya kulifumana kumntu omthanda kakhulu.
Le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuzinikela kwiqabane lakho ukuba umthanda kangakanani kunye nenkuthazo oyidluliselayo ukuqala kwakhe usuku nosuku. Kwabo banqongopheleyo kwimali, le yinkcukacha engadingi nkcitho ingaphezulu kwaye akukho nzame (iyonke, kuya kufuneka uzilungiselele ngokwakho isidlo sakusasa).
Xa usiya emsebenzini, isimanga asikapheli. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuvula iselfowuni uza kubona umyalezo omxelela yonke into ukuba uyamthanda, umxabise kwaye uyixabise imizamo yakhe. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa nendlela akonwaba ngayo kunye nendlela onethamsanqa ngayo ukufumana umntu onjengaye. Le nkcukacha iya kuwugqiba umdlalo kwaye iwenze ukhanye ngolonwabo.
Ezi nkcukacha ziindleko eziphantsi ngokupheleleyo Kwaye ndithembe, inokukunceda kakhulu.
Amanqaku ezothando kunye nosuku lokuphumla
Yothusa iqabane lakho xa livela emsebenzini. Beka amanqaku apho uthetha izinto ezintle kuye kwaye, emveni koko, umxelele ngento ekufuneka eyenzile ukufumana isipho esikhethekileyo onaso kuye. Njengoko ufunda amanqaku, ukwazi kunye nolonwabo kuya kwanda ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba umenze alibale zonke iingxaki zomsebenzi kunye noxanduva.
Ngexesha lokufika kwam esiphelweni Uya kubona ukuba isipho luhlobo "losuku lokuphumla." Olu suku lusebenzela ukulibala zonke izibophelelo kunye nezinto ezimbi kwaye uzinikele. Kungaba lixabiso eliphantsi okanye ukutyala imali ethile. Inketho yokuqala kunokuba kukulungisa ibhafu enamanzi ashushu kunye namagwebu amaninzi. Ungayihombisa ngamakhandlela, ioyile enuka kamnandi, into yokuthambisa kunye neglasi elungileyo yotywala obuthandayo.
Oku kukodwa kuya kukwenza ukhululeke kwaye ulibale malunga nazo zonke iingxaki zakho, nokuba yeyure ezimbalwa. Olunye usuku kukutyala imali kwi-spa okanye kwiseshini yokuthanjiswa. Isekethe yokuphumla kwi-spa ene-sauna kunye nejacuzzi ayibizi kakhulu kwaye lukhetho olufanelekileyo lokuphumla.
Ungalothusa njani iqabane lakho ngeenkcukacha okanye ngesidlo sangokuhlwa
Isidlo sangokuhlwa esenziwe nguwe ngumnwe omkhulu. Lungiselela isitya esithandayo seqabane lakho okanye jonga iresiphi yoqobo kwi-intanethi Kwesi sicwangciso, kubalulekile ukuba ube nexesha ukusukela, okukhona izitya zinobunkunkqele, kokukhona lixesha elininzi lokulungiselela. Ukuba awulungelanga ukupheka, ungammemela kwisidlo sangokuhlwa kwindawo ayithandayo kakhulu okanye kwindawo yokutyela ekhethekileyo okanye yothando. Oku kuyakwenyusa ngokucacileyo ixabiso lesidlo sangokuhlwa.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ukuzama ukulungisa into ethandwa liqabane lakho kuhlala lixabisa ngaphezulu kokuhlawulela isidlo sangokuhlwa esibizayo nesitofotofo. Ekupheleni kosuku, ukugcina into, sonke sinokuhlawula isidlo sangokuhlwa kwindawo yokutyela kwaye singabantu ababini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzama ukulungiselela isitya esityebileyo, esikhethekileyo nesizinikeleyo yinto eyenza umahluko.
Unokwenza isidlo sangokuhlwa ngokwakho kwaye uthenge iinkcukacha. Izipho zezinto eziphathekayo zinokungabi zezona zibalaseleyo, kodwa into enjalo ihlala iluncedo. Ukuba unayo imali ungamnika i-jewel exabiseke ngakumbi okanye, ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, ufuna ukugcina izixhobo zokudubula ezinzima ngamaxesha afanelekileyo, ungasoloko unika iintyatyambo, isilwanyana esifakiweyo okanye ilekese.
Khumbula umhla wokuqala kwaye wenze ialbham yefoto kuwo
Akukho nto injenge khumbula umzuzu onomhla wokuqala. Thatha iqabane lakho liye kwindawo apho uye wamanga khona okokuqala ukukhumbula amaxesha okuqala kunye nento oyenzileyo ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Nje ukuba ukule ndawo, uyakube ulungiselele i-albhamu entle ngazo zonke iifoto ezifanelekileyo ozithathileyo ngalo lonke ixesha nikunye. Esi sipho asihlali nje okomzuzwana njengabanye esele sibonile ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kodwa sinokunceda ukuba neenkumbulo ezandleni xa zifuneka okanye zifuna ukukhunjulwa.
Ezinye iinkcukacha zinokuba nosuku kunye ukwenza ikhekhe okanye iswiti, umnike uhambo, enze ubugcisa obunikezela into entle kuye, umnxeba olula wokumkhumbuza ukuba umthanda kangakanani okanye ubusuku obuthandayo obunokuba ziinkcukacha ephawula umahluko kwaye uvuselele ilangatye.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso zikunceda ukuba umangaliswe njani liqabane lakho.