Mhlawumbi kubo bonke ubomi bakho uye wadibana nomntu obhinqileyo kwaye awazi ukuba ungayisingatha njani le meko. Umfazi onomsindo kunzima kakhulu ukuphatha. Kuya kufuneka wenze umsebenzi obalulekileyo wengqondo ukuze ulawule umsindo wakhe.
Ke ngoko, nantsi imikhombandlela yokulawula umfazi onomsindo:
- Uthintelo lubalulekile. Ke ngoko, ukuba sele uyayazi loo ntombazana kwaye uyazi ukuba angaphendula njani, yimamele kakuhle phambi kokuba abe nomsindo kwaye uzame ukungathethi izinto ezinokukhokelela ekubeni abe nomsindo kwaye enze mandundu imeko.
- Musa ukuba nomsindo. Ukuba wenjenjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuwubuyisa umsindo wakho kwaye apho kuya kuba nzima ukulawula imeko. Uya kuhamba enomsindo kwaye bobabini baya kugqiba ukukhala! Kwaye ndiyakuqinisekisa, uya kukhwaza kakhulu kunawe.
- Zivume iimpazamo zakho. Ukuba uyazi ukuba uyaphosisa kule ngxoxo, yivume ngaphambi kokuba izinto zibe mbi. Musa ukuba neqhayiya kwaye uvume iimpazamo zakho.
- Thatha elakho icala kwingxoxo. Oku kuya kumzolisa kwaye kuye elunxwemeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi ukuba uyayenza ukuzola imeko, kodwa isimo sakho sengqondo asizukuyeka ukumfanela kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akafuni kuphosakela nawe.
Inqaku elilunge kakhulu, kodwa kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ukuba ubeka okuninzi kwicala labo xa benomsindo oku kunokubangela ukuba bathathe amanyathelo anokuba neziphumo ezingakumbi kamva. ke ngelo xesha eyona nto intle kakhulu kukuthoba imimoya kancinci kancinci. ukunqanda iingxaki kamva
Amagqabantshintshi amnandi kakhulu
Ilula kwaye ithe ngqo ... ..Akukho nto ifanelwe kukulawulwa yinto entle, into ephosakeleyo ukuphakamisa ilizwi lam kum, malunga namazinyo ama-3 ayawa, …… ..Xoka, Inyaniso kukuba ndiyamthanda umfazi wam kwaye ndiyanyamezela ngayo yonke into Ulawula ekhaya kwaye ndicinga ukuba kungcono ngaloo ndlela, bye.
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Kude kube lapho ubulungile compa, =)
Molweni, ndifuna uncedo, nceda, ndinokuzinikela kwam kule manyano, intombi yam yazalwa, engaphezulu konyaka, ingxaki yam kukuba umfazi wam akakhuliswanga ngabazali bakhe ngesiqhelo, mdala kunam Iminyaka emi-5 yomehluko kwaye ndinabantwana bodwa kokunye ukuzibophelela, usapho lwam alukwamkeli ukuba ndikunye naye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, sihlala sixabana ngayo nantoni na, ndithetha naye ndizama ukuba yinkxaso ngandlela zonke, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha andisasebenzi ndibenamandla okuqhubeka naye lento andiyifuniyo hlukana nentombazana yam kunina isencinci. andazi ndithini