Iindaba ziyaqhubeka zisongamela. Yonke imihla ikhona amatyala amatsha abethwayo. Nangona ingumbandela ocekiswayo ngokwandayo, abasetyhini abaninzi bahlala bethe cwaka, kwisangqa esibuhlungu abangenakuphuma kuso.
Iiprotokholi zisekwe ukunceda abantu ababethwayo. Kodwa kusekho ukuphathwa gadalala iidolophu ezincinci, ezilalini, apho isithethe, iintloni, ucalucalulo kunye noluntu olufanayo lwenza kube nzima kumabhinqa abethwayo ukuxela imeko yabo.
Injani inkqubo yoxhatshazo?
Ngokwesiqhelo uxhatshazo alunakho konke ukusukela ekuqaleni, kodwa lonyuka kancinci kancinci. Yintoni eqala ngo izithuko, ukuthotywa okuncinci, ukuhlala wedwa okuthe ngqo nakweyiphi na usapho okanye inethiwekhi yoluntu, Inani lemiboniso liyanda, ixesha ngalinye linoburharha obukhulu.
Kwisigaba sesibini ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni kuvela.
Indawo yabasetyhini yahluka kakhulu. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuthethelela kumkhamo omkhulu okanye omncinci wokuziphatha kweqabane lakho. Inkxalabo yoomama malunga nokungahluli abantwana babo kutata wabo nayo ixhaphakile.
Ukunceda umfazi obethwayo
Ukuba sidibana nabasetyhini abahlukunyezwayo, into yokuqala ekufuneka siyibhatalile yeyethu Uluhlu lodweliso. Ngokwesiqhelo amagama abo, izijekulo kunye nokuziphatha kwisifundo banika umbono wokudideka. Njengoko simamele kufuneka ukucacisa ibali yowasetyhini ophethwe gadalala, kunye nokuzama ukunciphisa eyona ngxaki iphambili (ukuxhatshazwa), kwezinye izinto eziqwalaselwayo.
Isikhalazo
Yonke indawo siva abantu besithi kufuneka uxele. Kodwa akusoloko kulula, phakathi kwezinye izinto kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba Umfazi ophethwe gadalala kufuneka aqhubeke nokuhlala neqabane lakhe, Oko kukuthi, kulowo ufumana impatho-mbi Imvakalelo kunye nenyani kukuba, kude nokunciphisa ukuphathwa gadalala, kunokwandiswa nangakumbi.
Nangona isikhalazo sibaluleke kakhulu, inkxaso iyasebenza Kumfazi ophethwe gadalala, kwinkampani, kukhuseleko, kwaye kuthintelwe ukuba yedwa kwakhe ngamaxesha onke. Kuya kufuneka athathe isigqibo, ngaphandle koxinzelelo, amanyathelo aza kuwathatha.
Imithombo yemifanekiso: Imizuzu engama-20 / Isikhokheli ebomini