Wakhe wazibuza ukuba kutheni kukho amadoda lawo isuti Ilingana njengeglavu ngelixa abanye befumana iibhegi kuyo yonke indawo? Ewe, ihanger inento eninzi yokwenza nayo, kodwa ngesiqhelo impendulo ikwiisuti ezilungiselelwe. Kule nqaku sichaza ukuba kutheni kufuneka ukhethe iisuti ezilungiselelwe ngaphezulu kwezo sele zenziwe:
Los iilokhwe ezenziwe uku-oda bafezekisa ukulunga okugqibeleleyo, into esele yenziwe ayinakufaneka ngokutshintsha ngokuziqhelanisa nomzimba nobume bethu.
Xa sisiya evenkileni, kufuneka silungiselele izinto abanye basikhethele. Kwelinye icala, kwivenkile yokuthunga, sinokukhetha eyona siyithandayo phakathi kwamakhulu amalaphu akhoyo.
Ayingawo onke amadoda alunga uhlobo olufanayo lwesuti. Kuxhomekeke kulwakhiwo lwakho, i-intshi okanye njalo apha naphaya kunokuthetha umahluko phakathi kokungxola okanye ukujonga kwiinjini. Iisuti ezilungiselelwe zivumela indoda nganye ukuba inxibe isuti kumlinganiso ofanelekileyo womzimba wayo. Enye into esetyenziswayo ukulungelelanisa Kule meko kukuba iyanelisa kwaneyona nto ikhethekileyo, into engenakwenzeka ezivenkileni kuba isebenza ngokuhambelana.
Iisuti ezilungiselelwe zihlala ixesha elide, njengoko zenziwe ngezinto ezisemgangathweni ophezulu kunalezo zisevenkile. Kananjalo akufuneki silijongele phantsi iingcebiso malunga nokuhlamba rhoqo abasinike kona, kunye nendlela echanekileyo yokugcina. Konke oku kwenza iisuti ezilungiselelwe ziphume ekuhambeni kwexesha. eyongayo ngakumbi ngaphezu kwezo sele zenziwe.