Ngubani ongakhange azive kwilifu elikhulu lolonwabo, umnqweno wokuba kunye nomnye umntu kwaye ungene emanzini kulolo thando, lubizwa ngokuba luthando. Xa idangatye lihamba umnqweno awulawuleki kwaye iindlela kunye neendlela ezifunwayo zokukholisa loo mntu. Ngaba xa ujonge Umdla ophambili wokubhala izincomo ezintle.
Iimvakalelo zethu ngowona mdlalo ugqibeleleyo Vumela yonke into esiyithandayo ihambe, ubuncinci yile nto iboniswayo intle. Bathumele kuloo mntu sithanda kakhulu siya kubazalisa ngeemvakalelo kunye nezincomo, Yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokumenza ancume.
Ukuncoma okuhle
Bhala amabinzana amahle uncoma umntu omthandayo inokuba yindlela yokuncoma. Kukho ukuncoma kuko konke ukuthanda, ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nemibala, yiyo loo nto kufuneka Ukwazi ukuba kufanelekile ukuba yeyiphi efanelekileyo ukutolika ngexesha nendawo efanelekileyo.
Ukwazi indlela yokusebenzisa ukuncoma okuhle kusinika imeko yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu, yindlela yakudala kwaye Lelona nyathelo lilungileyo lokuqalisa ubuhlobo obuhle okanye ubudlelwane. Ukuyisebenzisa akuyi kukushiya ungakhathali kwaye ukuba nguwe odala ukuncoma, iya kukushiya kwezona nkumbulo zilungileyo. Ukuba ungathanda ukufumanisa, ukuba abafazi banenye indlela yokujonga amadoda, funda apha elinye inqaku.
Ukuncoma kwezothando
Yindlela enomdla kakhulu yokubonisa uthando lwakho, kuba ngokubanzi olu hlobo lwamabinzana ngaphandle kokuncoma isenza sithulule lonke uthando lwethu. Uthando esivakalelwa lulo mntu lubonakaliswa zezi ntlobo zamabinzana acengayo. Ungabaxelela buqu okanye usebenzise iinethiwekhi zentlalo, Ewe, uninzi lwazo luza nemifanekiso enamabinzana othando afakiwe ukuyenza ibe yeyentsusa ngakumbi.
Singakwazi ukwahlula ukusuka olona lukhulu, Los Iimvakalelo kwaye zinomdla, nangona zisekho ngokwenene eyona yona itshizi, Kodwa ungalahli ithemba, kusekho abantu abasayithandayo. Apha sicebisa ukuba ukuncoma:
- Ukuphupha ngawe bendinesityhilelo, ngoku ndifuna undenzele umngxuma entliziyweni yakho.
- Into endiyiva ngayo ngawe inkulu kangangokuba, ukuyigcina, ndingadinga enye indalo.
- Kuzo zonke iintyatyambo, eyona intle yirosi kwaye kuwo onke amabhinqa, ungoyena mhle.
- Ukuba amehlo akho ebeyintolongo kwaye bendingumgcini wentolongo, ndingathanda ukuba libanjwa njani.
- Kuzakufuneka undifunele kude xa siphinda sidibana, kuba ndiza kuba semafini.
- Ungahambi ngoku sendiza kuba lusizi, kwaye uyayikhanyisa imini yam.
- Ndinqwenela ukuba ndiyinyembezi kuwe ... ukuze ndizalwe emehlweni akho, ndikhangele izidlele zakho, kwaye ndife emilebeni yomlomo wakho ».
- Ndikuthanda ngaphezu kukamama, kwaye ndiziva ukuba ndiyona, kuba wandinika ubomi kwaye uyabuthabatha kum.
- Kuya kufuneka undithengele isichazi-magama. Kuba okoko ndakubonayo, ndandingenakuthetha.
- Into endiyiva ngayo ngawe inkulu kangangokuba, ukuyigcina, ndingadinga enye indalo.
- Undibuzile ukuba kutheni ndikuthanda ndingakwazi ukukuphendula. Namhlanje ndiyaqonda ukuba uthando lwenene alunakuchazeka, lunokuvakala kuphela.
- Ndikuthanda kakhulu, ndifuna yonke into nawe. Yiyo loo nto ndiphambana xa ungekho kunye nam.
Ukuncoma okufutshane kunye nokuhlekisayo
Yiyo leyo bayakwazi ukuhlala bencuma, kwaye kukuba uburharha uhlala unomdla kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke ukuthandana. Vavanya bonisa uthando lwakho ngononophelo oluchukumisayo, Ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba yeyona ndlela yokunqoba umntu.
Ukuhleka kuvelisa imvakalelo yentlalontle kunye nolonwabo, Ukuba usebenzisa olu hlobo lokuncoma ukuba injongo yakho kukudlala ngothando, uya kubona ukuba inika njani iziphumo ezilungileyo. Singafumana ukuncoma ngokuthelekisa okuhlekisayo kunye neengqungquthela zobugcisa, kodwa zizonke imnandi ngothando.
Ukuncoma okufutshane kunelangatye labo. Zifutshane kodwa zibhalwe ngesiphelo esithe ngqo kwaye oko kukuthi ngamagama ambalwa into ethile inokufikelela intliziyo yomnye umntu. Apha sikubonisa ezinye zezo zincomo zimnandi:
- Ukuba umhle xa uvuka, ndifuna ukulala ubusuku nobusuku kunye nawe.
- Esibhakabhakeni iinkwenkwezi ziyakhanya, kwaye apha eMhlabeni Abafazi abahle.
- Amehlo akho ayintsasa yam, umlomo wakho ubusuku bam kunye nomzimba wam ubomi bam bonke.
- Ndiyakufundela okanye ndiyaphangela?
- Vuka ndicinga ngawe, ulele ndiyaphupha ngawe, umhlaseli weengqondo
- Awuyi kuyikholelwa, kodwa kwimizuzwana engamashumi amathathu eyadlulayo ndandiyintsomi!
- Njengoko uTarzan angathanda ukuba njalo, ukusuka kwisebe uye kwelinye, ade afike ebhedini yakho.
- Ntombazana, kufuneka uphawule umzimba wakho kuba ngezo curve nangaliphi na ixesha umntu ubulawa.
- Banoyolo abanxila, kuba baya kukubona kabini.
- Ndiyakufundela okanye ndiyaphangela?
- Okwakho, ndiza kunyukela ezulwini ngebhayisekile ndize ndehle ngaphandle kweziqhoboshi ».
- "Akukho mbongi ziliwaka kwiminyaka eliwaka engabuchaza ubuhle bakho."