Ubomi babantu ababini buzele amaxesha amnandi kunye nabanye hayi kangako. Ukuba kukho uthando kunye nomnqweno wokwenene wokuqhubela phambili, kufuneka kwenziwe iinzame zokuthintela ixesha elibi ekubeni liphele.
Kuya kufuneka siyicinge lonto iingxaki zomtshato zihlala zingenakuphepheka. Umbuzo osisiseko kukwazi indlela yokujongana nazo.
Xa iingxaki ezimbini zenzeka, into yokuqala kukuzichonga. Nangona kubonakala ngathi kubuhlungu, kunyanzelekile. Lo mthetho ufuna ibhalansiImalunga nokuthatha izikhundla zokumangalelwa ukuba zininzi, kwaye ayizaliswanga kukuzibaxa.
Ukuba engqondweni i amanqaku abuthathaka, inyathelo elilandelayo kukwenza isicwangciso sokubomeleza. La ukudana nokuyeka umsebenzi La magama mabini ekufuneka athatyathelwe indawo kukuzinikela kunye nokuzimisela ukutshintsha izinto.
Ujongene nengxaki yesibini, uthando, unxibelelwano, intlonipho kunye nomonde
"Uthando loyisa konke". Lo mgaqo uhlala uthathwa njengenyaniso eyiyo, nangona luthando kuphela olungasebenziyo ngemimangaliso. Kukho ezinye izinto ekufuneka zibekhona kulwalamano ukuze luphile ngokuhamba kwexesha.
La unxibelelwano olunyanisekileyo kunye nengxoxo zizinto eziphambili. Ayizukunceda nganto ukugcina izinto ngenxa yokoyika ukwenzakalisa elinye iqela okanye esinye isizathu. Kuya kufuneka sinxibelelane kwaye sixelele oko kusikhathazayo, kuhlala sikwisikhokelo sentlonipho.
Iimpikiswano ezininzi zilandela ngenxa yokuba enye yezi zinto zimbini ikhathazwa yimicimbi ethile yenye, kodwa ngalo mzuzu wokuthetha, isenzo sibonakala sijolise ngqo emntwini kunakwisenzo, esiya kuthi ekugqibeleni sivelise isithsaba esitsha kwaye sisuse isisombululo.
Xa Isithunzi sokwahlukana sisondela, kuhlala kukho iindawo ezimbini ezingqubanayo: lowo ufuna ukuphelisa umanyano nalowo ungafuniyo.
Naluphina ungquzulwano lomntu lunokuba nesisombululo. Into efanelekileyo kukuba uzimisele ukuyifumana.
Imithombo Yomfanekiso: QTopLife / Ithiyori Yengqondo