Amabhinqa anesa ngqondo yesithandathu okanye amandla okuqonda xa indoda iwathanda ngokwenene. Kodwa kukho amaxesha apho ukuba intuition inokudlala iqhinga kuwe, ngakumbi xa kukho loo ngxolo yempambano ngakuye engasivumeli ukuba sibone ngakumbi. Musa ukulahlekelwa iinkcukacha, kuba sibonisa Iimpawu zokuba indoda ikuthanda ngokwenene, ukukwazi ukutolika ngokuqiniseke ngakumbi into ethile engabanga zigqibo.
Ujongene nezi ntlobo zeempawu, kufuneka uhlale uyazi ukuba Ezi ntlobo zeempawu zinokubhidanisa. Indoda inokuziva ingakhuselekanga ngenxa yayo nayiphi na imeko kwaye inokubangela ukuba oko ikusasazayo kugqwetheke. Ngoko ke, sinokufunda nini indoda iyaqhawuka xa ithanda umfazi, okanye kutheni indoda iyamphepha umfazi emthandayo. Sade safumana iimeko apho zikhona iimpawu zokuba uyakuthanda, kodwa akayi kuvuma.
Iimpawu zokuba indoda ikuthanda ngokwenene
Akukho nto icace ngaphezu mamela indoda ekuthandayo kakhulu, kodwa kukho iimeko apho isenza sithandabuze le meko. Oku kubonisa ukuba unomdla kuwe, ufuna ukukwazi, kodwa into yokuba uthe inokuba ngamazwi kuphela kungekhona iinyani. Xa uthandabuza, siya kuhlalutya iinkcukacha kunye neempawu ukuthembela ngakumbi kwithuku lethu.
Uyakwamkela kwaye unika ingqwalasela eninzi
Xa ekujongile akalahlekelwa zinkcukacha. Ngonaphakade zininzi iimpawu ezibonisa ukuhlangana kweemeko. Unokukunika ingqwalasela eninzi, ukuvunywa, ukunyamekela, ukuthambisa ... konke oku kubonisa ukuba unomdla kakhulu kuwe. Ngaphandle koko, nikela ingqalelo ekubeni nobubele kangangoko, Unobubele kakhulu, uyakudumisa kuzo zonke iinkalo kwaye usoloko enomdla kakhulu kumazwi akho.
Kuhlala kukho uvalo
Lo mqondiso uyasebenza kakhulu, ukuba ucinga ukuba uyindoda ekhuselekileyo, uya kukwazi ukujonga indlela ngexesha elithile kufuneka ube novalo. Ukuba uyaqaphela indlela athandabuza ngayo, uba yingcinga, uphazamiseka ekuhambeni kwakhe ... ngokungathandabuzekiyo ziyimpawu ezivumela ukuba sibone ukuba usengozini othandweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda anamandla, kubonakala ngathi akazibonakalisi iimvakalelo zawo, kodwa xa ejongene nemeko enje, kutyhila ukufumanisa iinjongo zakhe.
ufuna ukuchitha ixesha nawe
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, obu bobona bungqina bubalaseleyo, Nanini na xa ekwazi, uya kuzama ukuchitha ixesha lakhe ekhululekile kunye nawe. Umnqweno ongenakuthintelwa wokukufuna uya kuqala ngokukhangela ithuba lokukubona, usele utywala, ube kufutshane nawe.
Xa ekubeka phambili ukukhangela kwakho, xa ubona ukuba uyindoda exakekile kwaye ufuna ukufumana elo xesha, unexesha elininzi lokukhulula, kodwa uphezu kwayo yonke into. Ziyimpawu ezixabisekileyo, ufuna ukukubona kwaye abe naweJonga ukudibana kunye nokuthandana.
Ukuma komzimba kunye nezijekulo
Kwakhona lolunye uhlobo loxabiso, ekubeni izijekulo zakhe kunye nokuma komzimba wakhe zonke zingumqondiso. Ukuba unomdla, unokujonga ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ezicacileyo zokuba uyakuthanda kwaye yintoni anokuxelela yona ndiyasixabisa esi sikhundla ngcono. Xa umzimba wakhe ujikela kuwe rhoqo, xa engqiyama kuwe, xa elinganisa izimbo zakho, njengokuchukumisa iinwele zakhe, xa ejonga kakhulu emlonyeni wakho, uyakuphuza ebunzi. Ziya kuhlala ziyimiqondiso ecacileyo.
Kwiincoko soloko ujonga izinto ezininzi ezifanayo
Kwiincoko njengezibini nihlala nizama ukumazi umntu. Kufuneka zama ukufikelela kuye ngovelwano kwaye inyani yokuya ezantsi kwaye ujonge izinto ezihambelanayo kungenxa yokuba inomdla kakhulu kuwe.
Ngexesha lomhla kubonakaliswa iimvakalelo ezininzi, apha kufuneka uqaphele xa efuna ukufumana zonke ezo ngongoma ezifanayo, uphi umbulelo ngokukwazi kunye nomdla wokuthatha inxaxheba kuyo yonke into oyenzayo. Ingcamango kweli nqanaba dibanisa inyani ukuba inokuba sisiqingatha sakho esingcono kwaye uqhagamshele ngeemvakalelo.
Abahlobo bakho nabantu obathandayo bayakwazi
Xa abahlobo bakho okanye usapho lwakho besazi ngawe, luphawu oluhle.. Amadoda akakukhuthazi ukuxela iinkcukacha zabo ezisondeleyo kwaye isibakala sokuba bekwenza oko kungenxa yokuba banomdla kakhulu kuwe. Qwalasela le nkcukacha, kuba kuthetha ukuba ucinga kakhulu kwaye ufuna ukwabelana ngendlela ophila ngayo nabantu abakujikelezile.
Indlela yokusabela kwezi ntlobo zemiqondiso
Umbulelo yeyona mpendulo. Ukuba indoda ikuxelela ukuba iyakuthanda, kufuneka wenze ngobubele kwaye uzive unombulelo. Xa imvakalelo ibuyiselwa ungaphendula nayo "Ndiyakuthanda Nam", nisoloko ninokuthobeka kwentliziyo. Le ndlela yokuyibonakalisa inokwenza omnye umntu azive elungile, ngaphandle kokufuna ukumkhubekisa okanye ukuba kukho izenzo eziyityhefu. Ukusuka apha, kufuneka ucinge ngokunengqiqo kwaye ungalindeli nantoni na enokukwenzakalisa, kodwa kunokuba ulinde yonke into eza kuza, yiza ngokuzolileyo.