Okwangoku, umsebenzi omkhulu uyenziwa ukufezekisa ukulingana ngokwembeko yabo bonke abantu abane- zesondo, nokuba yintoni. Nokuba bayathandana, bathandana besini esahlukileyo, bathandana besini esahlukileyo kwaye bathandana ngokwesini, inkanuko yesini ibhekisa kubantu esitsala kubo kunye nabo sifuna ukuba nobudlelwane bezesondo kunye namaqabane.
Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela yonke into ofuna ukuyifumana malunga nokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo kunye nokwahluka kwayo.
Ukuqhelaniswa ngokwesondo ngokwesini
Ukuqhelaniswa ngokwesondo kunento yokwenza nomntu onomdla kuye kunye nomntu ofuna ukuba nothando naye, iimvakalelo kunye nobudlelwane bezesondo. Kwahlukile kwisazisi sesini. Ubuni besini abuhambelani nokuba ngabaphi abasebenzi ekufuneka ubatsalile kwaye kodwa ungubani. Oko kukuthi, isazisi sakho sesini kukuba uyindoda okanye ulibhinqa. Ukuqhelaniswa ngokwesondo ngubani okutsalayo. Oku kuthetha ukuba I-transgender uziva ukuba isondo owabelweyo sahluke kakhulu kwisini osichonga. Ukuba gay, lesbian okanye bisexual ayifani nokuziva ngathi umfazi ezelwe yindoda.
Ukuqhelaniswa ngokwesondo kunento yokwenza nomntu ofuna ukuba naye, ngelixa isazisi sinento yokwenza nokuba ungubani.
Iindidi zokuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo
Masibone ukuba zeziphi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zesazisi ezinxulumene nokuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo:
- Bonke abo bantu batsaleleke kwisini esahlukileyo bathathwa njengabantu besini esahlukileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba ungumfazi kwaye utsalwa yindoda, ungumfazi owabelana ngesondo.
- Abantu abatsala abantu besini esifanayo bahlala bebonwa njengabantu abathandana besisini esinye. Kubafazi abathi batsala abanye abantu basetyhini abaziwa ngamagama abathandana namanye, ngelixa amadoda atsalelekileyo kwamanye amadoda aziwa ngegama lesini.
- Abantu abanomdla kumadoda nabasetyhini bazibiza ngokuba ngabasetyhini.
- Sinabo nabo banomdla kumathuba ohlukeneyo esazisi, nokuba yindoda, ibhinqa, i-intergender, i-transgender, i-intersex, phakathi kwabanye kunye banokubizwa ngokuba ngabantu abathandanayo.
- Abo bantu bangaqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo ngesini sabo sokuziphatha ngokwesondo banokuxelelwa ukuba banokuthandabuza kuba ngabantu abanomdla.
- Okokugqibela, sinabo nabo bangaziva naluphi na uhlobo lomtsalane wesini nakubani na kwaye baziwa njenge-asexual.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba baninzi abantu abangaziva bachongiwe okanye bamelwe yiyo nayiphi na yale mabhile. Kwaye kukho abantu abathi abayithathi into yokuba mababandakanywe kwileyibhile okanye kulo naliphi na iqela elithile. Abanye bakhululekile kuhlobo oluthile lweelebheli kodwa hayi ezinye. Ekupheleni kosuku, ngumntu ngamnye ogqiba ukuba yeyiphi na ilebhile ekufuneka ichazwe kuyo okanye ukuba mayingachazwa.
Yintoni i-asexuality kunye nekota queer
Eli gama liguqulelwa kwiSpanish njenge-cuir kwaye liguqulelwa njengqabileyo. Ingabandakanya izazisi ezahlukeneyo zesini kunye nezesini ngaphandle kwesini esahlukileyo kunye ne-cisgender. Kwixesha elidlulileyo eli gama lalisetyenziswa njengesithuko okanye ukona, nangona nanamhlanje lisacaphukisa abanye abantu. Ingakumbi kwabo bakhumbulayo ukuba elo gama lalisetyenziselwa ukwenzakalisa ngaphandle kweenjongo ezilungileyo. Abanye basebenzisa eli gama ngokuzingca ukuzazisa.
Ukuba uza kubhekisa emntwini, musa ukusebenzisa igama elithi queer okanye into elilingana nayo, ubuncinci ukuba uyazi ukuba lo mntu uchonga ngelo gama kwaye akanangxaki. Xa uthetha ngomntu kunye nokuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo, kungcono ukusebenzisa amagama asetyenziswa nguloo mntu. Ngale ndlela, siqinisekisa ukuba asizukumthuka okanye simkhubekise umntu othethiweyo. Into ebonwa kakuhle kukuba umntu ubuzwa kuqala ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwehlelo alukhethayo.
Ngokubhekisele kwi-asexuality, ngabo bangatsalanga mntu. Banokuthatha umzimba womntu ukuba ubenomtsalane okanye banqwenela ukuba nobudlelwane kwezothando, kodwa abanamdla wokwabelana ngesondo okanye ukuzibandakanya kwizenzo zesondo nabanye abantu. Abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye bathi ubungqingili abunanto yakwenza nobukho beqabane. Kwaye kukho ubudlelwane obuninzi obunamalungu banomdla wothando omnye komnye kodwa abanamdla wokulala kunye.
Eli qela labantu linokuchongwa njenge-gay, lesbian, bisexual okanye heterosexual kuba bengaziva mnqweno wokwenza ezo mvakalelo ngendlela yesondo kodwa ngendlela yothando. Uhlala eqonda ukuba uneemfuno zeemvakalelo njengabanye. Ke ngoko banobudlelwane bezothando kodwa abanamdla kwisini. Indlela yabo yokusondela kwabanye okanye ukusondelelana ayenziwa ngesondo.
Kukho abanye abantu abangatsalwa luthando okanye ngubani Abafuni ukuba nobudlelwane bezothando kwaye baziwa njenge-arromantic. Kuya kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba abanye abantu abathandana nabantu abanesondo banokuba nomtsalane okanye banqwenele ukwenza imisebenzi yesondo kunye nabanye kunye ne-masturbate. Kwelinye icala, sinabo bangevanga kwaukubakonwabisa. Kuqhelekile ukuba nabani na ahambe ngamaxesha xa engafuni ukulala ngesondo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ube ne-asexual. Ukongeza, kufanele ukuba kukhunjulwe ukuba ukuba ngumntu owabelana ngesondo akufani nokungatshati. Ukungatshati sisigqibo esinokwenziwa ngabantu kwaye akunanto yakwenza nawe ukuba ungubani ngokwemvelo.
Kuya kufuneka sithembele nakwezokuziphatha akusoloko kufuneka ichazwe ngokwemiqathango yazo zonke okanye kungabikho kwanto Endaweni yokuba kukho ukubonwa okupheleleyo okususela ekubeni ngumntu ofumana ukwabelana ngesondo phambi kwabanye ukuya ekubeni ngumntu ongenamdla wesini komnye umntu. Kolu hlobo lwabantu akukho nto isebenza kakubi kodwa kukho utyekelo lokungafuni ukulala ngesondo. Kukho uphando olubonisa ukuba umntu omnye kwabali-1 ngabantu abathandanayo.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ngolu lwazi unokufunda ngakumbi malunga nokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo kunye neempawu zalo.