Uninzi lwamadoda lukholelwa ekubeni ukukhulelwa kuchaphazela kuphela abasetyhini kuba ingabo abanomntwana ngaphakathi kodwa ... uthini ukuba bendikuxelele ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyasichaphazela nathi? Hombres Con Estilo ikuzisa iindaba zakutshanje ngayo.
Ngokophononongo olwenziwe kwifayile ye- EUnited Kingdom, Ootata ekujoliswe kubo bahlala befumana ngaphezulu kweekhilogram ezintandathu ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwabafazi babo. Banengxaki yokutshintsha kweemvakalelo, uxinzelelo kunye nokunye ukuphazamiseka.
Bayatyeba kuba banesidalwa ngaphakathi. Thina, ngenxa yobumbano namaqabane ethu. Nokuba kunjani na, inyani kukuba xa kukhulelwe abasetyhini ayingabo kuphela abatyeba. Uphando lwase-UK luveze nje ukuba ikamva abazali bahlala befumana malunga ne-6,35 kilos kwi-avareji ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kwapapashwa iphephandaba El Mundo.
Uphando olwenziwe yinkampani KwiPoll kootata abangama-5 25 base-Bhritane, ityhile ukuba ama-XNUMX% wamadoda athi atya kakhulu ngelixesha ukuze amakhosikazi abo angaziva kakubi ngokutyeba kwabo. Ingxaki kukuba oku kufakwa kweekhalori eziphezulu kuvela ikakhulu kwiimveliso ezingenampilo.
I-pizza, ibhiya, itshokholethi kunye nokutya okuqhotsiweyo zezona zinto zixhaphakileyo kubazali bexesha elizayo, ekwabonisa ukuba amaqabane abo ababhinqileyo ababalungiselela ukutya okukhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Esinye isizathu sokuba amadoda ekhule nesisu kungenxa yokuba kwezi zinyanga zilithoba bahlala bedla isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye namaqabane abo kude nekhaya kunakuqala. I-42% yabo baphononongiweyo bavumile ukuba baya kwiivenkile zokutyela ngakumbi ukuze basebenzise ixesha ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe kwaye batshintshe ubomi babo.
Uphononongo lubonise ukuba i-20% yamadoda ayibazi obu bunzima de iimpahla zabo ziyeke ukubakhonza kwaye kufuneka bahlaziye ikhabethe labo ngeempahla zooyise kumanani abo amatsha.
Nangona besola kakhulu abantu basetyhini ngokuzuza kwabo ubunzima, inyani kukuba emva koko akukho nto bayenzayo ukulahla iiponti ezingaphezulu. Ngokutsho kophando, ngutata omnye kuphela otya ukutya emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe, nto leyo eyenzeka kubo bonke oomama.
Ukongeza ekutyebeni ubunzima, kwizifundo ezininzi kubonisiwe ukuba ukukhulelwa kukwaphembelela amadoda, athi abe namaxesha okutshintsha kwemozulu, uxinzelelo kunye nokunye ukuphazamiseka.
Ngoku uyazi ukuba ukuzisa umntwana emhlabeni akuyi kukuzisela uxanduva olukhulu kuphela, kodwa kunye neekilo ezimbalwa ezongezelelweyo 😉
Umyeni wam ukude kakhulu kum kwaye ndiziva ukuba akazikhathazi ngokukhulelwa kwam okanye abantwana bethu bangomso, ndingenza ntoni ukuze le meko ingaphazamisi imeko yam yengqondo ...
Molo ndinguIsmael, kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ndinombuzo, umfazi wam uneenyanga ezine nesiqingatha ekhulelwe kwaye sohlukene phantse iinyanga ezimbini, kwenzeka ntoni kukuba ndive ukuba okoko ndamitha itshintshile kakhulu kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndimyekisile ukufuna ukusukela ngemini enye ukuya kolandelayo kwaye andazi ukuba kutheni ndimthanda kakhulu. Abanye abantu bandixelele ukuba into eyenzekayo kukuba xa indoda iye kuba ngutata kwaye umntwana abe ngumntwana, bahlala becinga ukuba bayekile ukuthanda umfazi, kwaye inyani yile, andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni mna, nabo bayandixelela ukuba ndiyibethile into yokumitha kodwa andazi ukuba mandithini ngalento okanye iphele ndifuna ukuchitha ukumitha nomfazi wam kodwa ndiziva ngathi andinakumelana naye.
Molo, ndinguYahaira, kulungile, kwenzeka into efanayo kum, ndineenyanga ezi-5 ndikhulelwe ekuqaleni, umyeni wam wayevuya kuba siza kuba ngabazali, kodwa ngoku ndiziva ngathi sahlukene, silwela nantoni na kwaye uziphethe kakubi kum ngamanye amaxesha! Abazala bam bandixelela ukuba inokuba kungenxa yokukhulelwa ukuba iyamchaphazela naye. kodwa andazi ngenene! kwaye andazi ukuba ndenzeni! Ndikhathazekile kwaye ndikhathazekile andifuni ukuba sohlukane.
Ewe ndiyathemba ukuba umntu uza kusinceda ekusombululeni amathandabuzo!
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Yahaira!
Molo, ndinguMiguel, intombi yam ikhulelwe kodwa ndiye ndabona ukuba ndisisitabane.