ʻO ke aloha ʻana i ke kanaka ka mea i lilo i pilikia nui loa no nā kāne o kēia mau manawa. A ʻo ia nō, ʻo ka mea maʻamau āu e hana ai, me he mea lā ke hoʻonāukiuki nei ʻoe i ke kaikamahine āu e makemake ai e launa. I kēia mau lā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke komo i loko o ke kaikamahine e like me kāu maʻa mau. Hoʻāhewa ʻia nā kānaka āpau i kahi mea liʻiliʻi. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo lākou ka mua e ʻōlelo ua hoʻopili mua lākou e like me ma mua. Eia mākou e aʻo aku ai iā ʻoe i kekahi mau maʻalea e aʻo ai pehea e komo ai i kahi kaikamahine.
Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike pehea e aʻo ai pehea e komo ai i kahi kaikamahine, ʻo kēia kāu pou.
ʻO
Ke kaiapuni a me ʻoe
Ma waena o nā loina e ola nei me nā hoaaloha e hele pū me ka poʻe hoa aloha e ʻimi holoholona inā ʻike ʻoe i ke kaikamahine. Loaʻa iā ʻoe he mau pia e lilo i kou hilahila a hilahila ʻole. Nui nā kāne i hele i ka pā e nānā i ka pā holoʻokoʻa. Ma laila lākou e kālailai ai i nā kaikamahine i hiki ke hoʻokuʻi iā lākou e hoʻomākaukau i kahi kamaʻilio a kamaʻilio me ke kanaka. Hoʻomaka ka nui o nā kamaʻilio me ka maʻamau "hana ʻoe i ke aʻo a hana paha" a i ʻole "he nui kāu ma aneʻi". A laila ulu ke kamaʻilio i kekahi mau hoʻomākeʻaka hou aʻe a hoʻopau maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha.
I nā manawa he nui e hoʻi wale ʻoe i ka home no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻokau i ka manaʻo o kekahi wahine. Mālama mau ka hōʻole ʻana iā ʻoe i lalo iki, a manaʻo ʻoe e ʻoi aku kou laki i ka manawa aʻe. ʻO ia kekahi o nā ʻaoʻao optimistic o ke kanaka ʻaʻole e palaho. ʻAʻole ia no kāu hana pololei a hewa paha, akā ua hewa kekahi mea i ka hoʻolālā. Ke mele ʻana ʻoe me kahi kaikamahine aia he mau kaukani mau ala e hōʻino ai i kēia kūlana. A ʻo kēia lā hōʻeha nā wahine i ka mea ʻole.
E hōʻike ana mākou i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i kākau ʻia e nā wahine e aʻo pehea e komo ai i kahi kaikamahine.
Nā ʻōkuhi no ke aʻo ʻana pehea e komo ai i kahi kaikamahine
Nānā maka
Nui nā poʻe e huikau ka maka maka me ka hana hoʻomāinoino. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hana i ka huina caesarean holoʻokoʻa e nānā a puni ka lumi āpau, akā e ʻimi i ka nānā o kahi kanaka kikoʻī. ʻAʻohe mea makemake e like me hoʻokahi kanaka o ka nui. Ma ka liʻiliʻi e nānā i hoʻokahi kanaka no kahi manawa kūlike. Eia nō naʻe, mai nānā aku he stalker ʻoe ʻaʻole kū i ka nānā ʻana i nā manawa āpau. ʻO ka nānā pilikino ʻana a me ka minoʻaka liʻuliʻu e holo pono ana. Inā ʻoe e nānā cheeky hiki ke huehue.
He hauʻoli loa ʻoe ke ʻike ʻoe he "kamaʻilio" iki kāu me ka wahine āu e nānā wale nei me kou mau maka. ʻAʻole hoihoi ka hele ʻana mai kekahi wahine i kekahi wahine ʻē aʻe.
Mai ʻimi i kahi inu
ʻO kahi hewa i loaʻa i nā kāne ke kono aku lākou i kahi wahine i ka inu e hiki ai ke kamaʻilio pū me ia. Nui a hewahewa nā wahine i ke kono ʻia ʻana mai no ka mea nānā wale lākou i ka pō holoʻokoʻa me ka manuahi. Eia nō naʻe, hoʻohālikelike lākou a ʻōlelo lākou ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo maikaʻi. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi iā ʻoe. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e aloha, ma ka liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole e ʻeha kāu ʻeke. Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e kono i ka wahine āu e makemake ai e launa me kahi mea inu, mai manaʻo ʻoe i kahi mea i ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana. ʻAʻole ʻoe e kūʻai i kahi hui akā kahi mea inu. Manaʻo nā kāne he nui i ke kūʻai ʻana i kahi mea inu a me ke kono ʻana i ka wahine e ʻae iā ia e kamaʻilio pū me ia.
Ua kuhikuhi kekahi o nā wahine e pono ʻoe e hana i ke kono ma ke ʻano he ʻano hoihoi ʻole me ka ʻimi ʻole ʻana ma mua o kahi "mahalo." ʻO kēia ka hōʻailona e haʻalele nā wahine e haʻalele iā mākou e kono maoli iā ia.
ʻImi e kōkua i ka mea lawelawe
Hiki i ka mea lawelawe ke lilo i mea kōkua maikaʻi loa e haʻi iā ʻoe i ka mea a ka wahine kikoʻī e inu nei. ʻO ka mea lawelawe ka mea hiki ke haʻi i ka mea a ka wahine kikoʻī e lawe nei a pā i ka māka me kāu kono. Wahi a kekahi o nā wahine i kākau i nā ʻōlelo paipai, "ke kanalua ʻole, ʻaʻole e hōʻeha kekahi kīʻaha aniani i kekahi mea." E like me kāu e ʻike ai, ua ʻōlelo lākou i kēia manawa wale nō ʻaʻole maikaʻi ke kūʻai aku i wahine i mea inu e kamaʻilio pū me ia. Eia nō naʻe, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me ka mea lawelawe, kuhikuhi iā ia i kahi mea sparkling. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, He honua kēlā me kēia wahine a ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike inā hiki iā ʻoe ke makemake iā ia a i ʻole ʻole.
Ka noʻonoʻo ʻana pehea e komo ai i kahi kaikamahine
E like me kā mākou makemake e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa, hiki nō paha i kekahi ke hoʻopau i ka lawelawe ʻana iā ʻoe. Aia kekahi mau wahine e nānā hou aku i kou ʻano, kou helehelena, kou minoʻaka, kou lole, kou palekana, kou lauoho, a pēlā aku. E hāʻawi nā poʻe ʻē iā ʻoe i ka manawa kūpono e hoʻolauna ai iā ʻoe iho a e ʻike ʻia nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e nānā no kekahi kaikamahine ʻoiai ʻoe e ʻike maikaʻi e pili ana iā ʻoe iho.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka wahine pū kekahi. I kēia mau lā, he mahalo ʻole i ka wahine. Kēia hana i ka flirting 'ana i kūpono a me kēlā kilokilo i hala i ka wā i hala. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, ʻo nā wahine ka hopena i ke komo ʻana i nā kāne no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne ke hana i kekahi mea me ka manaʻo ʻole e like me ka stalker. ʻO ke kūlana a mākou e kū nei i kēia lā, ʻano kaumaha aʻoiaʻiʻo nō naʻe.
Ma mua, hiki i kahi mea hoʻohanohano ke kī i ka hilahila o ka wahine. Eia nō naʻe, i kēia mau lā, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manaʻo o ka malimali, me he mea lā ua lilo ia i mea hoʻonāukiuki maikaʻi loa e huhū ai ka wahine. ʻO kekahi o nā wahine i kākau i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ke aʻo ʻana pehea e komo ai i kahi kaikamahine i ʻōlelo penei: »ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo nā hoʻomaikaʻi nui ʻole ka ala maikaʻi loa e haʻalele iaʻu. Hōʻoluʻolu loa lākou.
I ka hopena, hoʻomanaʻo he ʻaʻole hoʻokahi. Inā ʻaʻole makemake ke kaikamahine e hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio me ʻoe, ʻaʻole ia he hūpō no ka makemake ʻole e hana pēlā. E hoʻi hou e ʻike i kahi kaikamahine ʻē aʻe e hoʻopūʻiwa iā ʻoe ʻaʻole hoʻi e ʻimi i kekahi. E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ka maikaʻi e pili ana iā ʻoe iho ka mea ʻoi loa o ka honua. E lilo iā ʻoe iho i nā manawa āpau, ʻo ka mea makemake e ʻike iā ʻoe e hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i aneʻi a i ʻole ke kūlike ʻana ke ʻōlelo ʻoe.
Lana koʻu manaʻo me kēia ʻike ʻike ʻoe i kekahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pehea e komo ai i kahi kaikamahine.
E lilo i mea mua e wehewehe