Rayuwar mutane biyu cike take lokuta masu kyau da sauransu ba yawa. Idan akwai kauna da kuma sha'awar gaske don ci gaba, dole ne a yi ƙoƙari don hana mummunan lokaci daga zama ƙarshen.
Dole ne mu ɗauka cewa rikice-rikice tsakanin ma'aurata galibi ba makawa. Tambaya ta asali ita ce sanin yadda za a fuskance su.
Lokacin matsala tsakanin ma'aurata na faruwa, abu na farko shine gano su. Kodayake yana iya zama ɗan raɗaɗi, lallai ya zama dole. Wannan aikin yana buƙatar ma'auniBa batun ɗaukar matsayin zargi bane idan ƙari ne, kuma ba a cika shi da ƙarin girman kai ba.
Da yake da tunani a kan raunin maki, mataki na gaba shine zana shirin ƙarfafa su. La takaici da murabus Waɗannan sharuɗɗa biyu ne waɗanda dole ne a maye gurbinsu da sadaukarwa da kuma shirye-shiryen canza abubuwa.
Ya fuskanci rikicin ma'aurata, soyayya, sadarwa, girmamawa da haƙuri
"Loveauna tana cin nasara duka". Ana ɗaukar wannan ƙa'idar azaman cikakkiyar gaskiya, kodayake kawai soyayya ba ta yin mu'ujizai. Akwai wasu abubuwan da dole ne su kasance a cikin dangantaka don ta iya rayuwa tsawon lokaci.
La sahihan sadarwa da tattaunawa dalilai ne masu mahimmanci. Zai zama ba shi da amfani a adana abubuwa saboda tsoron cutar da ɗayan ɓangaren ko kuma saboda wani dalili. Dole ne mu sadarwa kuma mu faɗi abin da ke damun mu, koyaushe a cikin tsarin girmamawa.
Yawancin rikice-rikice sun biyo baya saboda ɗayan biyun yana damuwa da wasu bangarorin ɗayan, amma a lokacin da yake faɗar da shi, aikin yana da alama ya fi karkata zuwa ga mutum fiye da aikin, wanda ya haifar da haifar da sabon ɓacin rai da kawar da mafita.
Lokacin da Inuwar rabuwa ta kunno kai, galibi akan sami matsayi biyu masu sabani: wanda yake son kawo karshen tarayyar da wanda ba ya so.
Duk wani rikicin mutum na iya samun mafita. Abin da ya dace shi ne a yarda a same shi.
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