Hutu ga ma'aurata. Lokaci don jin daɗi, raba, soyayya. Lokaci don zurfafa idyll, romance, so.
Samun hutu don ma'aurata shine lokaci don barin aikin yau da kullun, gano sabbin wurare, dandana wasu dandano, gano duniya. Kuma kuma sake gano wanda kake so. Amma kuma yana iya zama don raba ƙari.
Abin da wasu ga hoton aljanna a duniya, ga wasu kuma yana iya zama gidan wuta guda. A ƙasan duka duka akwai yanayin dangantaka. Ba daidai bane a sami takamaiman sabani, don a sami nesa.
Ididdiga yawanci suna nunawa karu a cikin yawan saki da ke zuwa cikin faɗuwa. Ga wasu kwararru, wannan yana da asali ne saboda gaskiyar cewa alaƙar da ke jawo matsaloli tun bazara kuma suna ƙoƙarin warware su ta hanyar yin hutu tare, yawanci suna samun sakamako kishiyar hakan.
Bada lokacin bazara, nisantar kanka daga rayuwar yau da kullun, raba lokuta masu ban sha'awa da daren mahaukaci, yawanci yakan zama balsam. Amma in dai babu mai ƙarfi zai ci gaba a cikin mambobi biyu na dangantakar, "ruɗi" na jin daɗin rayuwa ya ƙare yayin da bikin ya ƙare.
Abin da ya fara mummunan ya ƙare da kyau?
Yawancin ma'auratan da suka tafi hutu tare matsaloli a tsakanin su, sun dawo tare da ma manyan matsaloli.
A matsayinka na ƙa'ida, akasin haka ma yakan faru: ma'aurata masu ƙarfi, waɗanda suka sadaukar da kansu ga haɗin kai, a ƙarshen kwanakin hutu da annashuwa, suna kallo sabunta har ma fiye da soyayya.
Amma kowace doka tana da togaciyarta. Kamar dai yadda ake samun fashewa, haka nan a lokacin hutu ana iya bayarwa abin sha'awa ga ma'aurata, shawo kan wasu rikice-rikice na musamman.
Idan kun gabatar da wannan bazarar kuna da hutu kamar karshe neman taimako don kare dangantakarku, kada ku yi kasala kafin ku shiga yaƙi. Yi shiri sosai, zaɓi wuri cike da soyayya kuma ku cika kanku da ruɗi.
Tushen hoto: Logistsarin Masanan Ilimin Rayuwa Malaga / Fasahar Zamani