'Be passive' has its literal definition. is that person who remains inactive, letting everything around him act and happen without his intervention. In other words, its definition has been transferred to attitudes related to the relationship as a couple. In this case, a liability is attributed to the person with passive sexual activity, to which he participates indifferently in bed.
Therefore, being active and passive has its nuances. The person who stays active in bed is the one who plays the whole game and the person who is passive is the one who allows himself to be penetrated. There are opinions that two people who participate in bed are already 'active' regardless of who exercises penetration or has to be penetrated.
be passive
be passive it is synonymous with being submissive, in sexual jargon is the person who remains passive while the other person participates in penetration, whether vaginally, anally or orally, which is called active. It does not matter who uses this term, since it can be a person of any sex, gender or sexual orientation
The person who remains passive is assuming the role of passivity, who prefers an inactive sexual position and allows the other person to adopt a sexual position which is called 'versatile'.
couples are believed to in homosexual relations they maintain this type of act. Where one of them always maintains that passive attitude and the other the active role. But many men believe that this belief is totally wrong, since they are assigned the same pattern as a couple between a man and a woman and therefore dismantle this theory.
When one person lies still in bed and lets the other act is labeled as 'passive'. It does not mean that from the beginning to the end it is the one who is in a submissive attitude, but that can later take action. However, there is no need to be afraid of being passive in bed, you can enjoy sex quietly while in this position and know how to participate in the game.
To be active or passive?
The sexual act is a form of total exploration when two people want to participate in a game of communication and participation about the love they feel. Though it doesn't have to be love, but it is an enjoyment and pleasure, where the synchronization between two people cannot go unnoticed.
The role of 'be top or bottom' is an effect where each person in a sexual act he has to assume either of the two roles. It is an exercise that has to be divided into two parts, at least that is what is intended.
the sex game begins with the exploration of their bodies, where the preliminary game is enjoyed and it is specified what is desired at that moment and what is it that you don't like. It is letting go. When the exercise is taking color is when many couples prefer to reach penetration. Usually one of them is the one that lies down and passively enjoys the other. At this moment is when you have to enjoy and get carried away by the moment.
Many couples maintain the active position because they always want to have a clear mission, and it is give pleasure without recess. At the same time that the active person positions himself, he is giving pleasure, but it does not mean that he is not enjoying himself. He also has fun with caresses soft, other times intense, with kisses... and where the other person can also participate (even with penetration).
When a person try to give pleasure to another can result much more pleasant, since trying to stimulate the other person can be exciting. Are you one of those people who likes to give pleasure or to receive it?
When you're passive and you want a change
In order to have an active life and a full sexual activity, we must clarify that the diet of your food It has a lot to do with your lifestyle. Whatever type of sex you practice, you have to include in your food high fiber foods. This component benefits the colon and is just what you need to always keep it clean.
Act quickly. reduce fat intake and especially when they are saturated. The body and the head will appreciate limiting the intake of this substance. This will be noticeable because it will help you to be more active and the body and intestines will be much cleaner.
take care of yourself It is very important, whether you are a woman, a man or of any sexual orientation, if we have an active sexual life, we must be clear that hygiene is also important. And to this, adding what we have mentioned, a good attitude to be able to be active in bed. If you like to know more about these topics, you can read more about “The best pre-sex games to practice with your partner”.