How to surprise your partner in bed It is one of the initiatives that we propose for new couples who want to bring novelties, or for couples who want to innovate in their monotony. When a couple is established for the first few years, there is no problem having sex more often, but as the years progress, that desire naturally decreases.
Having little sex in a relationship is not synonymous that love is diminishing, but that routine life makes we fit into a uniform model or lifestyle. Do not wait for everything to remain the same, now is the time to surprise your partner with some of the ideas that we offer you.
Offers a different place with a sexual atmosphere
It can be quite a surprise, where you can create an unusual environment where sexuality hints. Generally, sexual encounters tend to happen spontaneously, but preparing a different occasion from time to time is quite a surprise.
Use sexy lights, where the candles can be the protagonists. A light bulb or dim colored LED light also works. The candles they can also be scented, but failing that you can use a mild scent with a vaporizer or incense. You can also provoke the moment with a soft, pleasant and instrumental music.
Use clothes to give sensuality
You have to play with your imagination and there is nothing better than doing it visually. You don't have to go into action in underwear, but you can act in sexy and provocative clothes. There is nothing more provocative than wearing clothes that suggest, if you also do not wear underwear, much better.
Give a massage
Before getting into the action, make your desire soar with a sensual massage. It begins with soft and delicate caresses, to calm down the moment. Then she slides her hands with a firmer massage where the intensity is noticeable.
Our recommendations, start with gentle touches with your hands and then increase the intensity sliding nails over bare skin. That will make his skin stand on end, given the intensity, you can also draw patterns with regular shapes. As you choose how to provoke, you can go to action, using your hands in your intimate area.
Start having sex without forcing the scene
Whoever has the initiative has to take control of everything. For this he has to do the other person gets naked and start working the moment. Everything must start calmly, a relaxing environment has been created, you use smooth movements and then you use your imagination to start calmly to give way to desire.
Try new sensations
One of the adventures that can work is the use of a blindfold, as long as the other person allows it. It is one of the most exciting scenes, since the sense of sight is omitted and it is very stimulating.
- try to do that the other person lies on the bed, without clothes and with the blindfold.
- Then it starts to gently caress her body, so that the other senses are triggered. Also use your tongue to formalize those caresses.
- Use objects other than hands, such as delicate feathers, ice cubes or sweet food. These erotic moments have always been associated with chocolate, cream and exotic fruits.
- Lubricants also work wonders, even sex toys can be used to complete the whole practice. To go much further, you can tie your hands (you can use handcuffs), while blindfolding, so the dominant moment becomes more exciting.
Use various spaces in the house
It is another possibility that works. There is nothing better than having sex at home, because it inspires more confidence and comfort. Encourage your partner to have sex in inconducive places, such as in the kitchen or on the sofa.
You can even having sex in the bathtub or under a shower, being the bed the second place to finish off the scene. The idea is to change places to make each moment different and make it special.
Start with a different morning
If you like to surprise with something different, it is not a matter of offering a simple kiss in the morning. Although it is a taboo subject oral sex at first hour of the morning works like a charm. It will be quite a surprise! Accompanied by soft caresses and kisses between the legs.
The edging technique
Do you know this technique? It is not a new fad, but it has been given a particular name. Consists in having sex and having absolute control of the orgasm. It is a way to make sex last much longer, it is erotic, quite an achievement, where you will be able to reach the climax and enjoy it with more pleasure. Therefore, it does not consist in arm wrestling with someone who can endure more, but in discovering and lengthening all new sensations that are controlled and reaching a much more powerful orgasm.