cuckolding It is an unusual practice until a few years ago. It is a consented fact where infidelity exists, where it makes it look like something that should not be practiced between couples. Even with all the consequences, it is an experience that many psychologists are recommending in couples therapy in order to fan the flame.
When couples have long relationships and cannot give themselves any more respite in their passion, they seek to break the monotony. Among your possible exits seek to meet third parties and thus give yourself pleasure to rekindle that passion.
What is cuckolding?
In a few words, cuckolding is a consented practice in a couple to being able to maintain relationships with a third person y after being able to tell the experience or even let observe that moment.
To practice it, mutual consent must be agreed upon, including There will only be sex and no feelings towards the other person. Nor will it be carried out on a regular basis, but rather punctually or sporadically.
When cuckolding is performed, the other person will be present at the moment that their partner has sexual relations or, later, they will tell how the experience has been with hairs and signals. The goal is to find that kind of excitement to keep the flame alive.
What is achieved with cuckolding?
The goal is power raise the flame in the relationship between couples. They look for external stimuli, but in this case focused on eroticism and desire with sexual encounters. Each couple seeks their own sensations and it can vary between seeking pleasure in the forbidden or experimenting in how to observe that the other person is enjoying it.
Most practitioners they see this practice as something punctual and not as a fact that they do on a regular basis. Some psychologists in couples therapy see as an example the man within the couple and daring to visualize his wife having extramarital relationships.
On the one hand, they are consented, so he encourages her that it doesn't matter if they break social norms, but, on the other hand, it is visualized as a 'cuckold'. However, the issue of infidelity is in full control, he is not observing what is forbidden as something bad and at the same time is enjoying this activity.
Which on the one hand: observing or imagining the woman having sexual relations with another person can seem humiliating; on the other hand: those who practice this humiliation for it goes unnoticed, since it becomes something tremendously erotic.
What are you looking for specifically?
- Generally, practicing cuckolding is born in part from the thinking of men. At this time they are not dominated, but rather they want to dominate the situation. It is when they decide when and at what time they will be deceived.
- It may also derive of the practice of masochism. It is not that they really like the practice of masochism in all its variants, but rather that they use cuckolding as one of the alternatives, since they feel humiliated in part.
- There are those who observe the woman as a hypersexualized object. In this case she is being preyed upon and desired by another man, while on the other hand she knows that she only has one man in mind, that she has only one 'owner'.
- Others have taken this practice to mask their bisexuality, since several cases have been seen in the experience of cucklonding. In theory, they don't really enjoy watching the woman enjoy sex with another man, but rather watching the man enjoy the sexual act.
Are there limitations with this practice?
Generally yes there are limitations. Before trying cuckolding it is important that the couple talk about what it can have repercussions when it is put into practice. Both have to be honest that this will be to fuel the passion and that it will be just to enjoy and avoid possible problems in the future.
Communication must always be established between the two, it is vitally important to make everything clear. The rules that are generally established is that sex with third parties will only be sex. In no case will it generate emotional intimacy with whom he practices his relations. In any case, there is always the possibility that this could happen, it is a risk that must be assumed. Or that the other person can not finally bear this type of extramarital relationship.
Therefore, and within the usual, it is that jealousy should not appear, nor in the long run any reproach or any type of claim. It is logical that, if finally this supposes more problems than benefits, it will be necessary to put an end to this experience.
However, everything that surrounds us on this subject can become very disparate. Those who practice it in a libertine and conscious way know what they are doing. They do it out of necessity and watch as they practice it like a fetish.