Tinogona kutaura nezwi iri seimwezve chitaridzi che katarogu maitiro epabonde ehupenyu hwemunhu. Demisexuality ishoko risinganyanyo zivikanwa iro iri kutanga kushandiswa muvanhu vazhinji pavanenge vaine imwe mhando yekusangana pabonde kune mazwi akatowedzerwa.
Tinoziva heterosexuality, bisexuality, ungochani uye asexuality semazwi ane chekuita nekukwezva kwepabonde, kune vanhu vevakomana kana vakasiyana pabonde kana kunyangwe vasina kukwezva kwakazara. Ndokusaka kune vanhu vatove vakanyorwa nezwi rekuti demisexuality, Vanobvuma kuve vanokwezva asi neimwe nzira yekurega basa.
Tsananguro yehukadzi
Demisexuality iri izwi rakatogadzirwa kubvira 2006, sekureva kweNetwork yeAsexual Dzidzo uye Kuonekwa (AVEN), uko inomiririra munhu anonzwa uye anokwezva pabonde kune mumwe munhu, asi chete uye chete pasina kutanga kugadzira chisungo chakadzama chepfungwa akananga kumunhu iyeye.
Rudzi urwu rwevanhu vari munzira yekuve asexual, Kana zvisiri, imhaka yekuti vanogona kupedzisa hutano hwavo, asi vachigara vachiumba chisungo ichi uye chine hukama.
Izvo zvinonzwisiswa kuti chokwadi ichi chinowanzo simbisa kuti kune vanhu vazhinji vane rudzi urwu rwekunzwa, ndiko kuti, ivo vanonzwa kukwezva kwekukwezva, asi iyo inofanirwa kusungirirwa kune ako ehukama zvisungo. Ichokwadi ndechekuti ichokwadi, asi vanhu vane hukama hwepabonde vanofanirwa kuve nefomu zvakanyanya kusimba uye zvepamoyo kuchengetedza hukama.
Hunhu hwake mukudzika:
Kazhinji havanzwe chero mhando yekukwezva kune chero murume, kunyangwe sezviri pachena anogona kufarira chero munhu. Asi munyaya yenyama inyaya yemubvunzo kwavariZvichida ndicho chinhu chakava navo muhupenyu hwavo hwese, kana pamwe hupenyu hwavo hwakaita kuti vafunge chiito chakavabvisa nenzira yakadaro.
Pamhedzisiro yese iyi, hapana imwe inogona kururamisa parizvino kuti rudzi urwu rwemunhu runogona kunzwa sei. Kazhinji munhu uyu haanzwe kukwezva pasina rudo. Pakutanga kuona ivo havakwanisi kunzwa chishuwo chepabonde, kunyangwe kana munhu uyu achirova kana akanaka. Manzwiro ako anozowedzerwa nekufamba kwenguva, mukati memunhu iyeye, nehukama hwepamoyo pakati pezviviri uye panogadziriswa nyaya dzese kuti dzive nani, padanho remweya.
Nekureva izvi ndinoreva kuti kana munhu wacho achienda kure nekuda kwechimwe chinhu chakakosha, wekusangana pabonde haazomusuwa zvakanyanya, Pamwe chidiki chisungo chaakange akabata chinotonhorera zvakare.
Izvi hazvireve kuti munhu uyu anosemeswa nenyaya yebonde, unogona kunakidzwa uri wega pabonde sekuita bonhora kana kuona zvinonyadzisira. Pamwe pano unofungidzira mamiriro ezvinhu aungade kuudza munhu waunofungidzira.
Kuchena kwehupombwe kana hutano
Iwo ari maviri kunyangwe mazwi, ane akaenzana uye anodzoreredza mhedzisiro. Iyoyo nzira imwecheteyo yekudaidza uyu munhu mhando.
Ivo vanhu vari hafu pakati pepabonde neexexuality, sezvo bonde isiri yako sosi huru yekuchengetedza hukama pakutanga pakuona. Izvo zvakare hazvinyanyo kupesana nechido chenyama, nekuti vanogona mune ramangwana kuchengetedza huwandu hwepabonde nemunhu waunoda, asi nguva dzose padanho rakaderera, nekuti hachisi chishuwo chake chikuru.
Kuti unyatsoitsanangura maererano neAVEN, hafu yevakapindura vaigovana mukunzwa kusava nehanya nehukama pabonde, nepo imwe hafu yakaramba iine hunhu, chete 16% vakanyombwa zvachose nechero kuita bonde.
Hukama hwako hwakamira sei?
Vazhinji vanhu vanonzwa mhando yekukwezva kubva panguva yekutanga, zvichikonzera kuve nehukama hwepabonde nenzira inotevera. Madhimoni haite saizvozvo Zvakaoma kwavari kutarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu aya kana vasingazive mumwe munhu.
Kana mhinduro yakanaka kune mumwe munhu ikamuka, zvinogona kutora nguva yakareba uye kunyange makore kuti unzwe kukwezva pabonde kekutanga. ivo vanozoona kumuka kwavakaita nekufamba kwenguva kana nehupenyu hwavo.
Mhedziso isu hatigone kunongedza zvine mutsindo mataera ese uye maumbirwo nezve zvido zvepabonde. Chete mazwi atozivikanwa uye aripo ndeawo anonzwisisika kuti vanhu vazhinji vanogona kufukidza, nekuda kweyavo akajeka akaumbwa uye chaiwo kuita zvepabonde.
Nezve kuratidzwa kwekupedzisira, zvinogumiswa kuti kune hunhu vanonzwa kukwezva uye chishuwo pakuona kwekutanga, vamwe vandinoziva kudanana zviri nyore, dzimwe dzinenge dzichinyanya kusarudza, uye vamwe vasingazonzwa kukwezva muhupenyu hwavo hwese. Munhu wega wega akasununguka kunzwa uye kuona kwavo kwakasiyana pabonde. Munhu wega wega akasiyana, asi izvi hazvireve kuti ivo vanofanirwa kuverengerwa sevari nani kana vakaipisisa kupfuura vamwe vanhu vese. Izvi zvinokuita iwe wakasarudzika munhu uye ndosaka Iwe unofanirwa kunzwa wakasununguka nezvebonde rako.