Momwe mungadziwire ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondani

Momwe mungadziwire ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondani

Maubwenzi ambiri pitani kudera lamisala, Ndipo ngakhale anthu awiri adakhazikitsidwa kale ngati maanja, pali kukayikirabe ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondani. Kusatsimikizika kumatha kubwera ngati cholumikizira chakhazikitsidwa pakati pa anthu awiri. Nthawi ingadutse ndipo mmodzi wa iwo perekani zochuluka kuposa momwe mumalandirira.

Nthawi zonse timafuna ulemu wopanda malire ndi chikondi, ngati sichikuwonetsedwa ndipo ubalewo sukuyenda patsogolo, mwina ndi bwino kupereka mfundo yomaliza. Koma tikhoza kulakwitsa? Kodi mungadziwe ngati wokondedwa wanu amatikondadi? Yankho ndi inde, pali zambiri zomwe zingatifotokozere bwino mfundo zosatsimikizika zonsezi, ndikuti tikuwonetseni kenako.

Chinsinsi chodziwa ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondani

Kudziwa ngati munthu amakukondani ndi nkhani yowunika ndi ena mwa zizindikiro zomwe amakuwonetsani tsiku ndi tsiku. Mosakayikira "chochita ndichofunika mawu chikwi" ndipo mnzanu akuyenera kufotokoza zambiri mwazomwe tanena pansipa:

Amakuwonetsani chikondi chake tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo safuna kukusinthani

Munthu amene amakukondani, ndikufuna kukhala nanu tsiku lililonse. Kuphatikiza apo, samangokuwuzani kuti amakukondani, koma amakuwonetsani tsiku ndi tsiku mwa kufuna kukhala nanu ndikusamalirani. Chikondi chimawonetsedwa ndi ntchito osati ndi mawu, Amakulandilani monga momwe muliri ndipo sangakakamize chilichonse mu chibwenzi kuti china chake chisinthe momwe mumakhalira.

Momwe mungadziwire ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondani

Zimakupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu apadera ndikukumverani

Munthu amene amakukondani komanso amakukondani onetsani ulemu ndi ulemu. Mudzazindikira kuti amatha kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu apadera, kuti ali ndi zambiri monga kukugwirani padzanja, kukutsegulirani chitseko chagalimoto ndikumvetsera mwatcheru. Ngati amalipira chidwi, amatenga nawo gawo pazokambirana zanu, Akufunsani ndikukupatsani upangiri wabwino kwambiri. Zambiri ndikuti adzakuwonani mokhulupirika m'maso ndikugwedeza mutu mukamayankhula, chifukwa akadali ndi chidwi ndipo safuna kutaya ulusi wazokambirana zanu.

Amakulemekezani, amakutetezani ndipo sawononga ulemu wanu

Pali malingaliro atatu omwe amayendera limodzi, munthu amene amakutetezani mudzakhala amene Safuna kuti muzipanikizika ndi mavuto kapena kuti musavutike. Ulemu ndi mikhalidwe ina yomwe munthu aliyense ayenera kuyisunga, ndipo pachibwenzi ndi gawo lofunikira.

Ngati mnzanu amakukondani akuyenera kukulemekezani munjira iliyonse: mumalingaliro anu, malingaliro anu komanso monga munthu. Mfundoyi ndiyofunikira kulumikizana nayo osawononga ulemu wanu. Ngati pali kusiyana kwa malingaliro, ayenera kulemekezedwa ndipo sayenera kukuchititsani manyazi pakusankha kwanu pamaso pa aliyense, ngati atero, ndichifukwa chakuti sakukondani kwenikweni.

Momwe mungadziwire ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondani

Ganizirani ntchito zambiri limodzi nanu mtsogolo

Ngati amakukondani kwambiri, ikuphatikizani m'mapulani ake onse ndi ntchito zake zamtsogolo. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti chisankho chilichonse chiyenera kupangidwa ndi kudziyimira pawokha, koma ngati mufunanso kuphatikizira mnzanuyo pazomwe mukufuna, ndiye kuti muli ndi kuwonetseratu koyerekeza ndi inu komanso ngati banja. Zina mwazomwe mukuchita, mungafune kukhala pansi padenga limodzi, kupanga mapulani, kapena kukhala ndi ana.

Amakuthandizani, amakuthandizani komanso amakhala ndi chidaliro

Chithandizo ndichinthu chokongola kwambiri muubwenziAmatha kunena kuti amatikonda, koma ngati sakuwonetsa chithandizo ndi chithandizo samatikonda ndi chidwi chachikulu. Awiri omwe amakhala pansi pa denga limodzi, kapena kukhala ndi ana, amatha kudziwa izi atadalira ntchito zapakhomo ndi mavuto.

Kapenanso ngakhale ali achichepere ndipo akupanga zisankho zofunika komanso zazikulu, winayo akuwonetsedwa ndi chidaliro chachikulu komanso chidwi. Kudalira ndi zina mwazinthu zopumira, ngati khalidweli kulibe timatayika muubwenzi chifukwa silimapindula ndipo amakhala poizoni. Kusatekeseka ndi kusamvana kumayendera limodzi ndikusadalira omwe muli nawo kapena kuwona kuti sakonda mtundu waubwenzi womwe muli nawo, kumabweretsa osakhala ndi maziko abwino muchikondi chanu.

Momwe mungadziwire ngati wokondedwa wanu amakukondani

Amakuphatikizani m'mapulani ake onse

Momwe tawonera kale za munthu amene amakukondani akufuna kukhala nanu nthawi zonseNgakhale simuyenera kulola kuti chikhale chokhazikika. Koma ngati tili pachiyambi cha chibwenzi titha kuwona kuti amasintha zomwe amachita ndikukhala wokha pangani mapulani ambiri kuphatikizapo inu muzochita zawo.

Ufulu ndi zina mwazogulitsa, popeza ndi imodzi mwazidutswa zomwe ziyenera kumangidwa muubwenzi ndipo ngati zasungidwa kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka lero, zili ndi zikhalidwe zabwino kwambiri kwa anthu onsewa. Munthu ayenera kukula momasuka ndikuti mnzanu sayenera kukhazikitsa zopinga. Ndi njira yokhayo yomwe sipangakhale zokambirana zoyipa komanso kuti munthu akhale ndi ufulu wonse kukhala aliyense amene akufuna kukhala.


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