ʻO ka haʻi ʻana i kekahi āu e makemake ai he ʻano a i ʻole he ʻōlelo i ʻōlelo ʻia pēlā. Akā no kekahi hiki ke lilo i mea paʻakikī no ka mea, ʻaʻole lākou ʻike pehea e hōʻike ai i ko lākou mau manaʻo pololei. Hiki ke paʻakikī no ka mea aia kekahi poʻe ʻike ʻole i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu.
A ʻaʻole wale ia pehea e haʻi aku ai i kekahi makemake iā ʻoe, akā ka manawa e hai aku ai ia lakou. Hiki ke paʻakikī i ka pilina pili aloha, inā ʻaʻole hoihoi hou nā ʻano i mālama ʻia makemake ʻoe e hele i kahi ʻoi aku. ʻO ka manawa hea ka manawa kūpono e haʻi aku ai i kou aloha?
ʻO
Pehea e haʻi aku ai i ke kanaka makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe?
ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e haʻi aku ai i kahi āu e makemake ai iā ʻoe e hoohana ana i ka oiaio a no keia hana ana he alo a he alo. Me ka kānalua ʻole ʻo ia ke ala ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ke aloha e ʻōlelo ai a hana ole ma ka palapala. Hoʻohana nui mākou i nā ʻoihana pūnaewele a hiki ke lilo i mea hana a me kahi mea hana e hiki ai ke ʻōlelo i nā mea āpau. ʻAʻole paha he ʻoiaʻiʻo ka haʻi ʻana i kekahi makemake iā ʻoe.
ʻOiai ʻaʻole like me ia, ʻo ka mea i kākau ʻia ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo ʻana i kekahi mea me ka manaʻo ʻole a me ka manaʻo ʻole, ʻoiai ua puhi ʻia nā ʻōlelo e ka makani. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e like me kā mākou i hōʻike ai kino a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka manawa. ʻOiai he mea maʻamau ʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo i ka wā e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai ʻoe i kahi mea like, ke ʻōlelo nei ʻoe mai ka puʻuwai.
Ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he mea nani loa hana ʻia nā ʻoluʻolu nui I ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻohe pane no ka mea ua maʻi lākou i ka ʻōlelo, akā ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo nei au iā ʻoe ʻaʻole ia e hoʻohiwahiwa.
Nā ʻanuʻu maʻalahi e haʻi iā ʻoe
Pono ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea nani i kou noonoo a paʻanaʻau. ʻAʻole e hele wale ka ʻōlelo mai kēlā mau huaʻōlelo maʻalahi, akā e hoʻonani ʻia me kahi mea nani e pono e hoʻohui ʻia.
No ka hana ʻana i kahi manawa poina ʻole a noʻonoʻo, pono ʻoe e nana i kela kanaka ma ka maka a mālama i kahi kūlana hoʻomaha, ʻoiai eia mākou e hoʻomaka nei e hoʻohana ka olelo waha ole. ʻAʻole ʻoe e huli i kou alo a ʻaʻa paha i kou mau lima, ʻaʻole paha he ʻoiaʻiʻo. Inā lawa kou hilinaʻi me kēlā kanaka hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi kokoke loa iā lākou, ʻoiai me ke ʻano liʻiliʻi o hoopa aku i kekahi wahi o kou kino.
E hōʻalo i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ʻano huaʻōlelo a i ʻole nā huaʻōlelo e hoʻololi i ka ʻike, ʻike ʻakaʻaka paha ka memo i kekahi kanaka. Pono e komo i ka manaʻo a me ka mana e hoʻoili ʻia ma ke ʻano kūʻokoʻa.
Mai hoʻohana i ka hakakā nui o nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole he kamaʻilio maikaʻi e hele ai i ka pahu nīnau. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo kūpono, ma ke ʻano hōʻuluʻulu a mau e hele pololei i ke kiko. Inā hoʻonani ʻoe i nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai e ʻōlelo, e nalowale paha ʻoe i ka hilinaʻi o ka mea āu e makemake ai e haʻi ma ke ala.
Pehea e haʻi aku ai i kekahi makemake ʻoe iā ia ma ka leka
Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau mau i kou ʻano a me kou ʻano i ka wā e hui kino ai ʻoe a i ʻole ma ka leka. ʻO ka maʻalahi a me kēlā me kēia lā ʻO ia ke ala maikaʻi loa ʻaʻole e hoʻonui i ke kūlana, ʻaʻole makemake ka poʻe i nā pilikia a i ʻole nā pilikia.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka e haʻi i kahi āu e makemake ai me "Aloha wau iā ʻoe" a i ʻole "Aloha wau iā ʻoe" no ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi kūlana paʻakikī a he pane ʻino. Pono komo me nā huaʻōlelo nani, emojis a me nā mea a pau āu e manaʻo ai e makemake paha ʻo ia, a ma ka hopena, e hoʻolauna i ka huaʻōlelo "makemake nui wau iā ʻoe", ke hoʻopau ʻoe i ke kamaʻilio.
Pehea e pane ai ma hope o ka haʻi ʻana aku i kahi mea āu e makemake ai
He wahi ʻike koʻikoʻi kēia, no ka mea, ʻo ka mea ʻē aʻe i ʻike ʻole i ka hana. Akā ma kēia hihia pehea e hana ai ke kanaka e hoopuka ana i ka memo, no ka mea ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ʻoe ka pane kūpono.
Mai hoka Inā ua pane ka mea ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe me ka maikaʻi ʻole a ʻaʻole like i kou manaʻo like. He mea nui ka nānā ʻana i ka mea āu i ʻōlelo ai ʻaʻole ia he lokoino, akā he mea kupanaha. Eia kekahi, ʻo ke kanaka ʻē aʻe pono ʻoe e mahalo makemake kekahi e kaʻana like i kona mau manaʻo.
ʻO kāu mau pane maikaʻi loa Hiki iā lākou ke "hoʻomaikaʻi no ka hoʻolohe ʻana iaʻu", "ʻaʻohe pilikia" a ʻaʻole hoʻohana i nā mea e hōʻino ai ʻoe e like me "ʻaʻohe mea i makemake iaʻu" a i ʻole "Ua ʻike wau hiki ke hiki kēia". Mai manaʻo hewa e hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo, e kōkua kēia ʻenehana iā ʻoe e hoʻoikaika i nā pilina e hiki mai ana i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi.
Inā like ka manaʻo o ka mea āu i makemake ai, pono ʻoe e mahalo nui a hoʻolauleʻa i kēlā manawa ma ke ʻano o ka hoihoi a me ka oluolu. ʻO ka manawa kēia e kaʻana like i nā mea a pau āu e manaʻo ai ka hoʻomaka o ka pilina a me ka leʻaleʻa. I mea e ulu a ikaika ai nā mea a pau, pono ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i nā mea āpau me ka ʻole o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kekahi mea a me ka mālie.
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