Uma unobudlelwano obuzinzile nomlingani wakho, kungenzeka ukuthi ungene esikhathini se-monotony eyengeziwe. Okuvamile, usuku nosuku kwenza ilangabi liphele. Umsebenzi noma isikole kungenzeka kungakuvumeli ukuthi ujabulele izikhathi ngokugcwele. Kodwa-ke, kuhlale kuyisikhathi esihle sokunikeza umlingani wakho imininingwane bese ubakhombisa ukuthi ujabule kangakanani ngokuba nabo.
Kulesi sihloko sizokunikeza amanye amathiphu woku ungamangala kanjani umlingani wakho. Ngabe ufuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano obuhle futhi obuthandekayo? Lapha sikutshela imininingwane eminingi 🙂
Khumbula ukuthi kungani engumlingani wakho
Umqondo wokwabelana ngempilo yakho yonke nomunye umuntu uyinto enhle kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, kungaba nzima uma wena nomuntu ohlala naye ningahlali ndawonye kahle njalo. Kuzoba nezimpikiswano, izikhathi ezimbi (zihlale zikhona), kepha lokhu akufanele kukuvimbe ekumboniseni isizathu sokuthi kungani ukhethe ukuba naye.
Akunasidingo sokulinda izinsuku ezifana nezinsuku zokuzalwa noma izikhumbuzo. Imininingwane nje lapho ungalindelanga ukuthi izolungela nina nobabili. Kumele sikhumbule ukuthi njengoba nje sifuna ukuphathwa kahle, nathi kufanele senze okufanayo komunye umuntu. Ngakho-ke, akunakuphakanyiswa ukungamnaki umlingani wakho.
Ngalezi zeluleko ezilandelayo uzokwazi ukuthi ungamangaza kanjani umlingani wakho nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Letha isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni bese uthumela imiyalezo emnandi
Kubukeka njengokufana okujwayelekile kochungechunge namabhayisikobho kepha imininingwane enhle. Cabanga umzuzwana ukuthi kufanele uvuke ekuseni uvuke embhedeni (ngendlela enhle ngayo) ukulungiselela ibhulakufesi futhi ugqoke. Uma wenza umlingani wakho isidlo sasekuseni, uzobe ulungiselela lokho akuthanda kakhulu, Uzomsindisa ngaleso sikhathi nomzamo futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzokuthola kumuntu amthanda kakhulu.
Le yindlela enhle yokunikela kumlingani wakho ukuthi umthanda kangakanani nesikhuthazo osidlulisayo sokuqala usuku nosuku. Kulabo bethu abaswele imali, lokhu imininingwane engadingi izindleko ezengeziwe futhi akukho mzamo (kukonke, kuzofanele uzilungiselele ngokwakho ibhulakufesi).
Uma uya emsebenzini, ukumangala akukapheli. Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuvula iselula uzobona umyalezo omtshela konke ukuthi uyamthanda, umazise futhi uyazise imizamo yakhe. Hhayi lokho kuphela, kodwa nokuthi ukujabulisa kanjani nokuthi ube nenhlanhla engakanani yokuthola umuntu onjengaye. Le mininingwane izowuqeda umdlalo futhi iwenze ukhanye ngenjabulo.
Le mininingwane izindleko eziphansi ngokuphelele Futhi ngithembe, kungakusiza kakhulu.
Amanothi ezothando nosuku lokuphumula
Mangaza umlingani wakho lapho efika ekhaya evela emsebenzini. Bhala amanothi lapho usho khona izinto ezinhle kuye, bese yena umtshele ukuthi kumele enzeni ukuthola isipho esikhethekile onaso kuye. Njengoba ufunda amanothi, ilukuluku nenjabulo kuzokwanda kuze kufike ezingeni lokuthi uzomenza akhohlwe zonke izinkinga zomsebenzi nezibopho.
Ngesikhathi ngifika ekugcineni Uzobona ukuthi isipho siwuhlobo "losuku lokuphumula." Lolu suku lusebenza ukukhohlwa zonke izibopho nezinto ezimbi futhi uzinikele. Kungaba izindleko eziphansi noma ukutshala imali ethile. Inketho yokuqala kungaba ukulungisa ubhavu ngamanzi ashisayo namagwebu amaningi. Ungayihlobisa ngamakhandlela, amafutha anephunga elimnandi, ukhilimu othambisa ingilazi enhle yotshwala obuthandayo.
Lokhu kukodwa kuzokwenza ukuthi uphumule futhi ukhohlwe ngazo zonke izinkinga zakho, noma ngamahora ambalwa. Olunye usuku ukutshala okuthile endaweni ye-spa noma yokuhlikihla. Isifunda sokuphumula e-spa esine-sauna ne-jacuzzi asibizi kakhulu futhi siyindlela enhle yokuphumula.
Ungamangaza kanjani umlingani wakho ngemininingwane noma ngesidlo sakusihlwa
Isidlo sasebusuku esenziwe nguwe sithinta kakhulu. Lungisa isidlo esithandwa umlingani wakho noma ubheke iresiphi yangempela online. Kulolu hlelo kubalulekile ukuthi ube nesikhathi esithile kusukela, lapho izitsha zinaba kakhulu, isikhathi esiningi esidinga ukulungiselela. Uma ungapheki kahle, ungammemela esidlweni sakusihlwa endaweni ayithanda kakhulu noma indawo yokudlela ekhethekile noma yothando. Lokhu kuzokhuphula ngokusobala intengo yesidlo sakusihlwa.
Hlala wazi ukuthi ukulwela ukulungiselela okuthile umlingani wakho akuthandayo kuhlala kubaluleka ngaphezu kokukhokhela isidlo sakusihlwa esibizayo futhi sikanokusho. Ekupheleni kosuku, ngokugcina okuthile, sonke singakwazi ukuthenga isidlo sakusihlwa endaweni yokudlela futhi sibe ngabantu ababili. Kodwa-ke, ukulwela ukulungiselela isidlo esinothile, esikhethekile nesizinikele yinto eyenza umehluko.
Ungenza futhi isidlo sakusihlwa uwedwa futhi uthenge imininingwane. Izipho zezinto ezibonakalayo kungenzeka zingabi zizinhle kakhulu, kepha into efana naleyo ihlala ilusizo. Uma unemali ungamnika ubucwebe obubaluleke kakhulu noma, uma kunalokho, ufuna ukulondoloza izikhali ezisindayo ngezikhathi ezifanelekile, ungahlala unikeza izimbali, isilwane esigxishiwe noma uswidi.
Khumbula usuku lokuqala bese ulwenzela i-albhamu yezithombe
Akukho okufana nalokhu khumbula umzuzu obenosuku lwakho lokuqala. Thatha umlingani wakho aye lapho waqabula khona okokuqala ukukhumbula izikhathi zokuqala nokuthi ube yini ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Uma usukuleyo ndawo, uzobe usulungiselele i-albhamu enhle enazo zonke izithombe ezifanele ozithathe sonke isikhathi enibe nindawonye. Lesi sipho asigcini nje ngesesikhashana njengakho konke esesikubonile kuze kube manje, kepha singasiza ukugcina izinkumbulo zikhona lapho zidingeka noma zifuna ukukhunjulwa.
Eminye imininingwane kungaba ukuba nosuku ndawonye ukwenza ikhekhe noma okuthile okumnandi, ukumnika uhambo, ukwenza umsebenzi wobuciko onikezela okuthile okuhle kuye, ucingo olulula ukumkhumbuza ukuthi umthanda kangakanani noma ubusuku obuhle obunothando bungaba imininingwane lokho kumaka umehluko futhi kuvuselele ilangabi.
Ngiyethemba lezi zeluleko zizokusiza wazi ukuthi ungamangaza kanjani umlingani wakho.