Uma ungomunye walabo abanomlingani futhi uhlose ukumshada, ungacabangi ukuthi ukulungiselela umshado kuyinto yabantu besifazane. Amadoda nawo kufanele enze isinqumo sokuhlela izinto kwazise futhi kungumshado wabo. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukucabanga ukuthi yonke imizamo oyitshalayo izokhokha ngosuku olubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukufunda ulungiselela kanjani umshado.
Kulesi sihloko sizokutshela izinyathelo okufanele uzilandele namathiphu amahle kakhulu wokuthi ungalungisa kanjani okuhle.
Lungisa ikhalenda
Okokuqala kukho konke ukwenza ikhalenda lokugcina ngayo yonke imisebenzi ozoyenza. Kubudlelwano ekubalweni okubalwa kabi kakhulu. Into yokuqala ukwazi nokukhetha uhlobo lwemfashini ozofuna ukuba nayo. Kunezindlela ezahlukahlukene zokulungiselela umshado ngokuya ngokuthi uzogubha ini. Umkhawulo usondelene ngokuphelele nabashadile futhi kufanele uchaze ukuthi uluhlobo luni lwesibopho ofuna ukuba nalo. Mhlawumbe isinqumo esibaluleke kunazo zonke sinquma ukuthi kufanele ube nomkhosi wenkolo noma owomphakathi.
Esimweni lapho kunqunywa khona ngomshado wenkolo, kubalulekile ukuxhumana ne-archdiocese yedolobha ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti nompristi wesifunda. Lubekwa kanjena usuku lomshado. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umcimbi womphakathi usungulwa, kufanele uye ezinkantolo ukuze ukwazi ukucacisa zonke izidingo nezinqubo zomthetho zokwenza umcimbi.
Lapho lesi sinqumo sesenziwe njengabashadikazi, kuphawulwa usuku nesikhathi somshado. Kumele futhi kuchazwe uma kuyisixhumanisi esisemthethweni noma esingahlelekile. Uma lokhu sekusunguliwe, into yokuqala okufanele yenziwe ukudala uhlu lwezivakashi oludumile. Lesi yisidingo esiyisisekelo lapho kukhethwa noma kukhishwa izikhala ukuze zikwazi ukugubha idili futhi, futhi, kusungulwe isabelomali.
Isitayela somuntu siqu sokufunda ukulungisa umshado
Okokuqala kunakho konke ukuchaza isitayela somuntu siqu esivumelana nawe. Kungashiwo ukuthi ukuxhumana phakathi kwalaba bobabili kuyenziwa edolobheni, emaphandleni, esimweni sesimanje, sothando, esidala, njll. Ngokuqondene nezinto ozithandayo, ukuba wusuku lwakho, ukuhlela ngendlela othanda ngayo. Imishado eyiqiniso kunazo zonke yileyo ekhombisa ingqikithi yangempela kamakoti nomkhwenyana kuyo yonke imininingwane elungiselelwe.
Ungachaza ubuhle bobuhle bomshado ngokuba ngowokuqala ezintweni okufanele uzihlelele. Zonke izinsizakalo nemininingwane kulo lonke idili lase-Iran maqondana netimu ebikhethwe ngaphambilini. Kubalulekile kuphela ukucabanga ngokuthanda kwakho ukwazi ngokunemba okuphelele uhlobo lomshado oluzotholwa.
Isabelomali esitshaliwe yisici esisondelene kakhulu kulo mbhangqwana. Ukugwema isimanga esingajabulisi ngomzuzu wokugcina, kubalulekile ukuchaza isabelomali ukuze sikwazi ukulawula ukusetshenziswa kwemali isiyonke. Lo mbhangqwana ungenza uhlu lwezinsizakalo futhi izindleko eziningi kulowo nalowo wabo ukwenza lula ukusesha nokwandisa imiphumela.
Lapho isabelomali sesikhethiwe, indawo yomcimbi nedili kufanele igcinwe. Uma sikhethe umshado ongokwenkolo, uvame ukugcinwa ngaphakathi kwethempeli elingcwelisiwe njengesonto noma i-hermitage. Endabeni yomshado womphakathi, kubalulekile ukukhetha indawo yomphakathi lapho izobanjelwa khona. Noma iyiphi indawo ingalungela ukuthi umfelandawonye ube idili. Le yindawo lapho iningi lezivakashi lizosebenzisa khona usuku lonke. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthola indawo emnandi ehambisana nengqikimba esungulwe ngomshado.
Ungakhetha ukuqasha i-cocktail emi, i-buffet noma idili elihleliwe elijwayelekile. Ukuhlobisa kuyisici esibalulekile umakoti nomkhwenyana abaningi abangasazi. Futhi ukuthi izimbali zidlala indima ebalulekile ngalolu suku. Ngenxa yale mininingwane emincane ungaphinda wenze isimo somlingo esingenakulibaleka. Amanye amathiphu wokufunda ukuthi ungalungiselela kanjani umshado yilawa alandelayo:
- Ingqikithi yomcimbi
- Izikhalazo zezivakashi
- Isikhathi sezithombe
- Ukuhlobisa kwetafula
- Isimo esihle
- Ukukhanyisa okuhle
Ngezimbali, kufanele ubheke ukuthi iziphi ezigcinwe kahle futhi ezibukisa kakhulu, kepha ngasikhathi sinye ezingabizi. Akufanele ukhohlwe ukuthi luhlobo lokuhlobisa olungapheli. Asifuni nje kuphela ukuthi silungiselela kanjani umshado, kodwa futhi nokuba nezinkumbulo ezinhle. Esinye sezigaba lapho kufanele utshale khona imali kumthwebuli zithombe nomthwebuli wevidiyo ophethe ukuthatha isikhathi esihle kakhulu sesixhumanisi sakho ukuze zikhunjulwe njalo.
Ungawulungisa kanjani umshado: imininingwane
Ngemuva kwakho konke, imininingwane eyenza umehluko. Umculo ungenye yezinto ezikhetheke kakhulu zomshado. Kwakumele uhlangothi lomuntu siqu nokunambitheka. Kufanele ukhethe umculo emcimbini, edilini nasemdansweni.
Esinye sezinyathelo zakhe eziyisisekelo ukukhetha indawo yesudi yomakoti neyomkhwenyana. Sizonikeza amanye amathiphu wokukhetha isudi yomshado nengubo yomshado:
- Vumela ukuqondiswa ukuthanda kwakho. Usuku olukhethekile, ungacacisi ukuthi imibono yabanye ize kuqala kunalokho okuthandayo.
- Iba nguwe
- Musa ukuletha abangane abaningi kakhulu ekugqokeni noma kokufanele isudi.
- Khetha umbala wokusika nowezinwele bese uvumelana nokho okuthopha kakhulu.
- Ungabi novalo ngesitsha sangaphambi komshado
- Khetha induduzo ngekhwalithi.
- Gcina engqondweni umqondo wokwenza ingubo noma isudi ukuze ilinganiswe
- Yizame, ihamba kahle ngokulinganayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi lolu usuku lonke ngokufaka isudi, ngakho-ke ukweleta isigaxa.
- Jabulela le nqubo yonke. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ufuna usuku olujabulisayo ongalukhumbula impilo yakho yonke. Musa ukulengiswa kuyo yonke imininingwane.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngalolu lwazi ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nokuthi ungalungisa kanjani umshado nokuthi yini okufanele uyicabangele.