Impela kwesinye isikhathi uzohlela nomlingani wakho ku ukubaleka kwezothando. Kwesinye isikhathi sikucabanga lokhu kuphunyuka futhi sicabanga ukuthi yonke into kufanele iphelele. Kufanele ucabangele ezinye zezici ezibalulekile lapho uhlela ukuphunyuka nomaqondana wakho noma uhamba nomngani. Kufanele ube nomdlandla, umlingo, ugqozi, ubuhlakani kanye nenkinga. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukubheka ezinye zezinto ezizokwenza ukuthi lolu hlelo lungalibaleki.
Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungahlela kanjani ukubaleka kwakho kwezothando, kepha sichaza lapha.
Khetha indawo enhle
Lapho uhlela ukuphunyuka kwezothando, imvelo esizoyifeza kuyisici esiyinhloko. Kufanele ukhethe indawo enivumela ukuthi nibe nobumfihlo obukhulu nezinhlelo zokujabulisa nina nobabili. Yize into ebalulekile yokubaleka iyinkampani enhle, kubalulekile ukunquma ngesimo lapho uzizwa khona njengabaphikisi beqiniso ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ezinye izindawo ezihlongozwa ngabantu abaningi yilezo zindawo lapho ungakhululeka khona njengoba kuphakathi nendawo yemvelo ukugxila komunye nomunye. Umqondo uwukuthi Ungabi neziphazamiso eziningi kakhulu ezenza isikhathi ungachithi nomlingani wakho futhi ugxile kuye. Kungumqondo omuhle ukujabulela ukuthula, ukusondelana, kanye nokuphunyuka ngokuphelele ezinkingeni ezijwayelekile nezansuku zonke ndawonye. Le yindlela enikwazi ngayo ukukhiphana umthwalo ezinkingeni zansuku zonke. Indawo kufanele kube yinto esenza sithule futhi sizizwe sisondelene.
Isimo semvelo singaba umqondo omuhle, idolobha elinabantu abambalwa nendawo yasemakhaya.
Ukumangala kokweqa kwezothando
Enye yezinto ezibalulekile okufanele zinakekelwe ukuthi kuyinto emangazayo. Uma kuwuhlelo lwangempelasonto njengombhangqwana, into enhle kakhulu ukuthi omunye umuntu akalindelanga. Ngalokhu, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa usuku oluqondile futhi wazi ukuthi omunye umuntu ngeke enze noma yiziphi izinhlelo futhi, ngasikhathi sinye, angasoli lutho.
Uma usukubalekele kwezothando, ungalinda umzuzu omuhle wokulungiselela isipho esikhethekile. Lesi sipho sizofihlwa ngesiphetho sethu futhi silinde kuze kube ngumzuzu ofanele wokubeletha. Kulesi sipho noma ungaxuba ezinye izithombe onazo zihlangene ukuze uzithinte ngokwengeziwe. Ungangeza futhi incwadi enishintshisane ngayo futhi ucabange ukuthi izipho ezenziwe ngezandla zivame ukuba nokuthile okubaluleke kakhulu. Akufani kangako nokuthenga okuthile okufunwa omunye umuntu, kepha kuyinto ozenzele yona isikhathi esithile. Nalapha futhi ubuhlakani nokuzimisela kuthakazelelwa kakhulu.
Ekugcineni, ungaba futhi nesidlo sasebusuku sothando ngaphansi kwesibani samakhandlela esincane ukuze ungeze imfudumalo emhlanganweni. Le mininingwane futhi izokwenza umehluko kukho konke ukwehluka onakho kulowo mbhangqwana.
Ukubaleka kwezothando ukuphumula
Esinye isici esibalulekile sokubaleka kwezothando ukuthi kufanele kube yinto ephumuzayo. Kufanele unqamule kusuka osukwini olumatasa nosuku futhi kufanele ugxile komunye nomunye. Ungazinika ukubhucungwa okuzokusiza ukuqeda ukucindezeleka, uphumule futhi wehlise ukungezwani komzimba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhuphula inhlalakahle yomzimba nengokwengqondo. Yonke le mizwa iyanda uma yenziwe nomlingani wakho.
Ungazizwa ukhethekile ngokujabulela isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni. Lapho umbhede ungewona owakho futhi akudingeki ukuthi uhlanze ngemuva kwalokho, ungajabulela isidlo sasekuseni embhedeni ngaphandle kokuzisola. Kumele ucabange nje ukuqala usuku lweholide ngaphandle kokuba nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lomthwalo wemfanelo eduze komlingani wakho futhi nijabulele isidlo sasekuseni esimnandi obungafanele usilungiselele. Ukudla kwasekuseni kungenziwa ngokudla okuhlukahlukene ukukhuthaza ukuthi kube yinto ekhethekile. Ungayi esihlahleni esijwayelekile sesinkwa sasekuseni.
Indawo yokunqamula ngale ndlela imvamisa amahhotela anikezelwe imibhangqwana futhi imvamisa iyizindawo ezithandana kakhulu. Lawa mahhotela asetshenziselwa izithandani ezenza izinhlelo ezahlukahlukene ajwayele ukuba nemisebenzi eminingi yokwenza. Ezinye izibonelo yilezi amashubhu ashisayo noma i-jacuzzi egumbini. Lokho esikushilo ngaphambi kokudla kwasekuseni egumbini lakho kungaba umbono omuhle.
Lawo mahhotela ane-spa asetshenziselwa ukujabulela iseshini eshisayo, ukubhucungwa kwezithandani noma ezinye izindlela zokwelapha zobuso nezomzimba. Ngesidlo sokugcina sokuthandana newayini elimnandi, usuku luzophela. Imininingwane engakusiza, noma ngabe kuyinto ebiza kakhulu, Icela ukuphuma ekamelweni sekwephuzile hhayi ngo-12. Kungenzeka ukuthi amashidi akunamathele kuwe futhi ufuna ukujabulela nomlingani wakho isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokujaha.
Izindawo zokuvakasha
Ungakhetha phakathi kwezindawo ezahlukahlukene zezivakashi ngokuya ngokuthanda kwalabo abashadayo. Ungakhetha ukukhetha lezo zindawo lapho kukhona khona umsebenzi ojabulisa kakhudlwana. Ngokwesibonelo, Ungenza i-kayaking, i-bungee jumping, ukhuphuke, i-zip line, njll. Lezi zinhlelo zenzelwe leyo mibhangqwana enembongolo engahlaliseki. Ungajabulela ukubukwa okuhle ezindaweni ezinamabhishi nezintaba. Yilapho kufanele unikeze umcabango wakho.
Esinye isici esiyisisekelo okufanele sicatshangelwe yisikhathi sonyaka. Uma kunguKhisimusi, kungcono ukuthola indawo lapho kugujwa khona uKhisimusi ngesitayela. Kufanele ubheke imicimbi ethile ekhethekile ukuze ukwazi ukwenza imisebenzi eyingqayizivele engalibaleki. Yile misebenzi ezosisiza ukuthi sikhumbule ukubaleka kwethu kwezothando njengento engenakunqobeka.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izinhlelo kumele zikhetheke ngoba kungumcimbi ohlukile. Kuncane kakhulu okudingekayo ukuze wephule ikhanda lakho kakhulu kusukela iqiniso elilula lokwenza okuhlukile futhi elikhethekile nomlingani wakho selivele liyingxenye yokuphunyuka kwezothando futhi kuzoncika kithi ukuthi lolu hambo alunakulibaleka.
Ngiyethemba lolu lwazi luzokusiza ukuthi uhlele ukuphunyuka kwezothando.