Izindaba ziyaqhubeka nokusikhipha. Nsuku zonke kukhona amacala amasha abesifazane abashaywayo, kwesinye isikhathi nokufa. Yize kungudaba oluya ngokuya lwenqatshwa, kepha abesifazane abaningi bayathula, kumbuthano onzima abangakwazi ukuphuma kuwo.
Kusungulwe imigomo yokusiza abesifazane abashaywayo. Kepha kusekhona ukuphathwa kabi ku amadolobha amancane, ezindaweni zasemakhaya, lapho isiko, amahloni, ubandlululo kanye nomphakathi ofanayo kwenza kube nzima kubantu besifazane abashaywayo ukubika isimo sabo.
Injani inqubo yokuhlukumeza?
Imvamisa ukuhlukunyezwa akubanga nakho konke ukushuba kwasekuqaleni, kepha kukhula kancane kancane. Yini eqala nge ukuthukwa, ukuhlazeka okuncane, ukuzihlukanisa ngokuqhubekayo kunoma yimuphi umndeni noma inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu, liyanda inani lezigcawu, isikhathi ngasinye ngolaka olukhulu.
Esigabeni sesibili ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba kuvela, engaqala ngefosholo noma "ngempama exolisayo", bese iqhubeka ngokushaywa okuningi, ukuhlazeka okuya ngokuya kuba nzima, njll.
Isimo sabesifazane siyehluka kakhulu. Ezimweni eziningi, zithethelele ngezinga elikhulu noma elincane ukuziphatha komlingani wakho. Ukukhathazeka komama ngokungazihlukanisi izingane zabo noyise nakho kuyinsakavukela.
Ukusiza owesifazane oshaywayo
Uma sihlangana nanoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane ohlukunyezwayo, into yokuqala okufanele siyikhokhe eyethu uhlu lwe-listend. Imvamisa amagama abo, ukushukuma komzimba kanye nokuziphatha kwabo endabeni kunikeza umbono wokudideka. Njengoba silalele kumele ukucacisa indaba yowesifazane ohlukunyezwayo, nokuzama ukunciphisa inkinga enkulu (ukuhlukunyezwa), kusuka kokunye ukucatshangelwa.
Isikhalazo
Yonke indawo lapho sizwa khona abantu bethi kufanele ubike. Kepha akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi, phakathi kwezinye izinto ngoba kungenzeka lokho owesifazane ohlukunyezwayo kufanele aqhubeke nokuhlala nomlingani wakhe, okungukuthi, ubani othola impatho embi. Umuzwa neqiniso ukuthi, kude nokunciphisa ukuhlukunyezwa ngodlame, kungakhuphuka kakhulu.
Yize isikhalazo sibaluleke kakhulu, ukwesekwa kuyasebenza kowesifazane ohlukunyezwayo, enkampanini, ekuvikelweni, nasekugwemeni isizungu sakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kumele anqume, ngaphandle kwengcindezi, izinyathelo okufanele azithathe.
Imithombo yesithombe: Imizuzu engama-20 / I-Lifeder