Uma sithanda othile, sihlala sizama khumbula lezo zikhathi ukuze ukwazi ukuhlaziya kabanzi uma lowo muntu ezwa ukukhangwa. Impela sicwile kuleyo aura yothando futhi asikwazi ukuhlaziya ngokuxazulula uma lowo muntu enentshisekelo ngemininingwane eyengeziwe. Sizohlaziya konke tricks ngokwengqondo ukwazi ukuthi umuntu uyakuthanda, ngenjongo yokuthi ungazibamba ngekhanda futhi uzisebenzise emhlanganweni olandelayo.
Kufanele unake yonke imininingwane. hlaziya ukunyakaza, ukuvezwa kwamehlo akhe nendlela akhuluma ngayo. Nakuba kungase kungabonakali kanjalo, ngayinye yale mininingwane ifihla indlela ecashile yokwazi ukuthi lowo muntu uyakhangwa yini noma cha. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi konke esizokuhlaziya kungamaqhinga angokwengqondo yazi ngokunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu uma kufanele sithathe igxathu eliya phambili ezinhlosweni zethu. Yonke into esiyibuyekezayo ivumeleke ngokulinganayo, kokubili kwabesilisa nabesifazane.
Imininingwane yezengqondo ukuze wazi uma othile ekuthanda
Indoda ekhangwa owesifazane, kufanele abonakale emnene futhi enomusa. Uzobheka emehlweni akho kakhulu futhi uyohlale emamatheka. Kufanele wenze omunye umuntu azizwe ekhetheke kakhulu, uzonakekela futhi uzame ukusiza lapho kunesidingo.
Owesifazane ufihla izinhloso zakhe ngaphezulu futhi kungase kube nzima kakhulu ukuzihlaziya. Hlaziya uma ekubuka kakhulu emehlweni, uma ekuthinta kahle, uba novalo futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uyamamatheka ngesasasa elikhulu.
lapho emamatheka kakhulu
Asibandakanyi ukumamatheka okulula nokujwayelekile, okuphambene nalokho. Ingabe lokho kumomotheka okuhle, okuqotho, ngokushayela okukhulu nesifiso sokwabiwa. Ngokuvamile, kokubili amadoda nabesifazane, sithambekele kakhulu ekumamathekeni njalo nangomdlandla omkhulu lapho okuthile kusithakazelisa. kufanele uthole uma ibonisa amazinyo amaningi angaphambili, njengoba kuyindlela yokudlala ngothando nokuveza ukuthi kunenjabulo enkulu.
abuke umlomo wakhe
Kufanele uhlole ukuthi umlomo wakho yini khiqiza amathe amaningi kunokujwayelekile ngoba kuwuphawu lokukhangwa. Ukwenza lokhu, ungabona ukuthi izindebe zakhe ziba manzi noma uma ezicindezela njalo. Mbhekisise kahle bese embuka emehlweni ukuthi naye bheka izindebe zakho. Uma kunjalo, kufana nokufuna ukukuqabula nokuzizwa ukhangwa ngokocansi.
Bheka ukuthi uyakulingisa yini ukushukuma komzimba wakho
Enye indlela yokwazi ukuthi unesithakazelo yini endleleni onguye nobuntu bakho, iwukubheka uma engxoxweni lingisa izenzo zakho Zama ukuthinta izinwele zakho, ingalo, ukuhlikihla izandla zakho, njll. uma ngokushesha uziboleka ukumlingisa, kungenxa yokuthi unesithakazelo esikhulu. Futhi, bheka uma isifuba siyavuvukala nesisu siyashwabana, lesi simo sengqondo sibonisa ukuthi ingxenye engenhla iyanda futhi ukhalo luyancipha, lubonakale lukhanga kakhulu ukukunqoba.
uvalo phambi kwakho
Kukhona abantu ababekezelela isimo esihle kakhulu, kepha kuhlale kukhona i-iota encane eveza ukwethuka okuthile. Uma sibheka le mininingwane, kungenxa yokuthi omunye umuntu Unobuthakathaka bakhe obuncane…ukuthanda kakhulu. Ezinye zezimpawu ukujuluka, ukuhleka kakhulu, ukuthuthumela noma ukungingiza.
Ukutsheka komzimba wakho
Uma usendaweni ethule kungase kube lula ukubona ngeso lengqondo lesi simo. Zitholele uma inomzimba nezinyawo zibheke kuwe. Futhi, uma eseduze noma efuna ukukhuluma nawe umzimba wakho uzokhula. Lesi yisenzo esenza kucace intshisekelo yakho nalapho ufuna khona ukunakwa.
Amantombazane Baxhumana kakhulu nokuma komzimba wakho. Awubheke kahle imilenze yakhe. Uma eqa imilenze yakhe phambi kwakho, kungenxa yokuthi akanandaba nawe, uma ngokuphambene nalokho, ewela futhi ehamba kude nawe, kungenxa yokuthi unesithakazelo.
Uma owesifazane ethinta umzimba wakhe
Uyafuna ukwazi uma owesifazane ekuyenga? Naka ukunyakaza kwabo futhi yiziphi izitho zomzimba ezithintwayo. Izandla ziyolokhu ziphakanyiswa izinwele,ukuyithinta nokuyiphulula. Izokwenza okufanayo uma ithintwa intamo ngenkathi ekhuluma nawe, noma uma eziphulula ingalo yakhe. Ngalezi zenzo ezithambile wenza yonke into icace, ufuna ukudonsa ukunaka kwakho.
Uthanda izinto ezifanayo nawe
Kuyindaba ethize evimbelayo, nakuba kungase kube inkomba yokuthi zama ukuthanda okufanayo nawe. Ngokuvamile, engxoxweni phakathi kwabantu ababili abathandanayo, bazama ukuthola amaphuzu nemininingwane ehambisana nokuthandwa okufanayo nokuzilibazisa. Uma zifana, yonke into iyamangalisa futhi lokho kwenza ubuhlobo buqale onyaweni olufanele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sithola isithakazelo esikhulu komunye umuntu nangempela Sikhangwa yikho konke okuthandayo.
Ukubuza imibuzo eminingi yomuntu siqu.
Lapho kunesithakazelo esikhulu, imihlangano iba njalo nangesikhathi esimisiwe ngeke kusweleke imibuzo. Lowo muntu uzoba nelukuluku lokukwazi Unjani, izinto zokuzilibazisa noma wenzani?. Kungase kube nokulandelana okungaphezi kwemibuzo egcwele ilukuluku elinempilo, ukuze ukwazi ukwazi okuthandwa nguwe ngemininingwane eyengeziwe. Ngeke futhi kube nokuntuleka kwemibuzo yomuntu siqu, ngokuthanda kwakho kanye nemikhakha yezenhlalo.