Yini yini abesifazane abayithanda kakhulu ngabesilisa?Yini okuheha kakhulu? Lo mbuzo ubuzwe kulo lonke umlando ngamadoda amaningi angashadile abona ukuthi abanye baphumelela kanjani, futhi ayesesimweni esingesihle.
Kepha izifundo ezintsha zithola izinto ezithile ezimangazayo. Ukuhlaziya okuheha kakhulu owesifazane endodeni, siyabona ukuthi bakhangwa abesilisa abahle, kepha lokho khetha umlingani onomusa, ongazinikeli nophanayo, ukuze nithandane.
Imiphumela yazo zonke lezi zifundo iyasinika ubufakazi obusha bokubaluleka kokuzidela kokuncamelayo lapho ukhetha umlingani.
Okuheha kakhulu abesifazane kwabesilisa
- Su uhlamvu loqobo, ubuntu bakho obuchaziwe. Lawo madoda angazenzisi, kodwa azibonakalise njengoba enjalo, lawo afinyelela kakhulu abesifazane, futhi anganqoba izinhliziyo zawo.
- Amadoda anesimo esihle sengqondo. Abantu abanethemba, abane-prism enhle kukho konke abakubukayo, bahlala benesikhalazo esikhulu. Ithemba, ngaphezu kokuba namandla amaningi okuphindaphindeka, liyathathelana.
- La uhlu lwe-listend. Indoda eyazi ngempela ukulalela owesifazane inamathuba amaningi okukwazi ukumenza athandane. Akulaleli ukuheha, owesifazane uzokuqonda kalula. Imayelana nokushintshana ngezinto, ukufaka isandla, ukuba nesineke sokulalela nokuzwelana.
- Ukukhanya kumuntu nakho kuyenga. Kepha akuchazwa njengamandla, imali noma isikali senhlalo, kepha ngokukhanya kwaso. Umuntu ojabule ngokuphila kwakhe, olinganiselayo nangokuvumelana kukhiqiza lokho kukhanya. Lezi zinhlobo zamadoda zinakho konke okuya ekuyengweni.
- Ukuhlekisa okuhle kubalulekile. Hhayi ukubhuqa okuqhubekayo noma ihlaya elilula, kepha i-joie de vivre kanye nekhono lokudlulisa amahlaya amahle.
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