Ucabangani ngamaphuzu avelele emadodeni? Ungathanda ukuzama lokhu ngokuzayo noma ungomunye walabo abangasoze bathinta umbala wezinwele?
Odayi nokugqama kwamadoda yisihloko esiqhubeka nokukhiqiza ukwahlukana kwemibono. Futhi ukuthi ukukhathazeka okukhulayo ngokubukeka kwabo engxenyeni yamadoda kuyinto umphakathi (noma okungenani ingxenye enhle yayo) osevele uyicabange kahle.
Isitayela esinempikiswano
Amaphuzu avelele abesilisa ukubheja izinwele okunempikiswano, ngakho-ke kufanele ugcine engqondweni ukuthi ngeke athandwe yiwo wonke umuntu (kodwa yini?). Ngenxa yalokho, ngaphambi kokuziphonsa emhlabeni wezinto ezinhle kakhulu zesilisa udinga umthamo omuhle wokuzethemba futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, qiniseka ukuthi yilokho okufunayo esithombeni sakho.
Kepha yini amadoda angenza amaphuzu avelele? Wonke umuntu. Kumele ucabangele nje ukuthi okuvelele kuvame ukusebenza kangcono ezinsizweni, okungasho ukuthi amadoda athile angaphezu kwama-40 awawavikeli futhi noma angcono kunamadoda amancane. Ngokwemvelo, umbala okhethelwe amaphuzu avelele ukhiye uma kukhulunywa ngeminyaka yobudala. Ukuqonda kufanele kube yinto esemqoka ngemuva kwama-40, ngenkathi abantu abasha bekwazi ukubheja ngaphezulu (kepha kuphela uma kuhlangana kahle nesitayela sabo). Uma ugqoka ngendlela yakudala, akunandaba ukuthi umncane, upinki, okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka akuyona inketho yezinwele ezihamba phambili.
Ngabe amadoda angathola amaphuzu avelele? Vele, futhi muva nje sinezibonelo eziningi phakathi kosaziwayo, kepha kufanele kuqashelwe lokho lapho kuvezwa isibindi ngokwengeziwe, kukhulu ukuqapha okufanele kusetshenziswe lapho kwethulwa noma cha ukushintsha ukubukeka kwakho. Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi zizolingana nesitayela sakho. Kepha futhi kufanele ucabangele nezinye izinto, njengekhodi yokugqoka yasehhovisi lakho. Abaculi akudingeki bacabange ngakho, kodwa iningi labantu liyacabanga.
Kufanele futhi ulinganise isikhathi okufanele usinikele ekugcinweni kwaso. Imvamisa, izinwele ziyoma futhi ziqhekeke ngokwengeziwe, engangeza amaminithi ambalwa enkambisweni yakho yasekuseni. Ngakho-ke, uma ungomunye walabo abangafuni ukuchitha umzuzwana isikhathi eside kunokudingakalayo ukulungiselela ukuphuma ekuseni, okuvelele kungenzeka ukuthi akuwona umqondo omuhle kuwe.
Yini ongayilindela kokuvelele kwabesilisa
Uma ngemuva kwakho konke lokhu okungenhla, usazimisele ngokwenza amaphuzu avelele, lapho-ke sizocwaninga ngokujulile esihlokweni ukukusiza uthole inguqulo enhle kakhulu.
Ngokuyinhloko, amaphuzu avelele akhonza ukuya lapho ukugunda izinwele okulula kungakwazi khona. Basiza ukwenza ukubukeka kuguquke kakhulu. Ukungena ezindabeni ezithile zezinwele, kufanele uqaphele lokho ukugqanyiswa kwamadoda futhi kungeza ukuthungwa, ukujula nokubukeka okushisayo kokugunda izinwele kwakho.
Imibono yezinwele
Bheka i-athikili: Izinwele zezinwele zanamuhla. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wenza amaphuzu avelele noma cha, lapho uzothola imibono eminingi yokugunda izinwele kwakho okulandelayo.
Inqubo ivame ukuthatha cishe ihora ngisho nangaphezulu, ngakho hlomani ngokubekezela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, futhi-ke, umphumela wokugqamile ulahlekile njengoba izinwele zikhula, ngakho-ke kuzodingeka uye endaweni yokugunda izinwele ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze ziphinde zenziwe kabusha. Njalo emavikini amathathu, amane, amahlanu, ayisithupha ... isikhathi singahluka kakhulu ngokuya ngezinwele zakho.
Ngokuqondene nentengo, zilungiselele ukukhokha noma yini phakathi kwama-euro ayishumi nanhlanu kuya kwangama-15. Ayikho intengo ejwayelekile, kepha ingahluka kakhulu kuye ngebheyili ekhethiwe, kanye nezimpawu zezinwele zakho nohlobo lwedayi elisetshenzisiwe.
Ingabe amaphuzu avelele angaqondisisa?
Ngokwemvelo, ukucashile ikakhulukazi uma kuqhathaniswa noshintsho oluphelele lombala. Ngenxa yalokho, zingathakazelisa uma ufuna ukuzama umbala omusha wezinwele kepha ukudaya zonke izinwele zakho kubonakala kuwukweqisa okweqile. Amaphuzu avelele akuvumela ukuthi ushintshe umbala wezinwele zakho ngendlela ehlakaniphile.
Ungakugcizelela kanjani ukuqonda kokuvelele? Uma ufuna ukuthola umphumela onobuhlakani nemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka, qiniseka ukuthi okuvelele kwakho akukhanyi kakhulu kunombala wakho wezinwele wamanje. Elinye icebo elibalulekile maqondana nalokhu ngukugwema udayi ogqame kakhulu ngazo zonke izindlela. Esikhundleni salokho, hamba imibala yematte. Amaphuzu avelele kakhulu yilawo angabonakali.
Izwi lokugcina
Okuvelele kwabesilisa akuvamisile ukushiya noma ngubani engenandaba. Uyabathanda noma uyabazonda. Kunoma ikuphi, ukushintsha umbala wezinwele zakho kuyisinqumo esihlonishwa ngokuphelele futhi (lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu) okuhambelana nawe kuphela. Ngakho-ke Uma ngemuva kokufunda konke okuhle nokubi, usaqiniseka ngokugcwele futhi ukholwa ukuthi uzothandwa kakhulu yibo, qhubeka.