Kufika isikhathi empilweni lapho uqala ukuzibuza ukuthi ingabe uhamba nomuntu ofanele yini. Lokho wukuthi, uyazibuza ukuthi ngabe uhamba nentombazane yakho ekahle, lowo ohlose ukuchitha naye impilo yakho yonke.
Ngaleso sikhathi kufanele ushiye ukubukeka ngemuva bese ucabanga nge- izimfanelo le ntombazane okufanele ibe nazo ukuze kube yizo.
Ezinye zalezi zimfanelo zingaba
Kwenze kube ngowesifazane
Intombazane yesifazane iyohlala yazi ukuthi iziphatha kanjani emphakathini, kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezimo.
Ukuthi ngiyakwazisa
Lapho sicabanga ube nomuntu oyedwa impilo yakho yonke, kufanele sizizwe sithandwa futhi saziswa lapho simthanda.
Uma intombazane ojola nayo ayihloniphi ukuthi ungubani futhi ifuna ukuguqula indlela oyiyo, khona-ke akufanelekile ukucabanga ngekusasa. Khumbula ukuthi ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, bobabili abantu bayazazisa futhi bayathandana ngalokho abayikho.
Kwenze uzimele
Kubalulekile ukuthi intombazane yakho ekahle owesifazane ozimele, ongaba yedwa futhi abhekane nobunzima bempilo ngaphandle kokudinga umuntu eceleni kwakho.
Ungamsiza futhi lapho ebhekene nobunzima. Ukhiye ngukuthi Akudingeki ukuthi bakudinge ukuze ube lapho, kepha basakhetha inkampani yakho.
Yiba nemigomo empilweni
Intombazane yakho ekahle kufanele ibe umuntu osebenzayo, onezinkinga, onezinhloso zakhe empilweni. Ukukhula nokuziphendukela kwemvelo kuhlale kubalulekile.
Thembela kuwe
Es Kubalulekile ukuthi ebudlelwaneni kube khona ukuqonda, ukwethembana nothando. Ngalesi sizathu, intombazane yakho ekahle kuzodingeka ikuthembe, izinqumo zakho, imibono yakho, indlela yakho yokubona izinto.
Okwenyama
Kule nkinga, kukhona ukuthanda okuningi njengoba kunabantu. Ukuheha kubalulekile ebudlelwaneni, futhi ngokomzimba, yize kungenjalo konke, kunesabelo saso senani.
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