Umqondo usabalele impela wokuthi amadoda awazi ukuthi angenza kanjani ukuthi abesifazane bathokozele ucansi nokuthi yibona abazicabangela bona abane-orgasm futhi abesifazane basala benesifiso. Kujwayelekile ukucabanga ukuthi abesifazane bayinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe ngoba banezinkinobho noma okhiye abaningi ezansi lapho futhi kunzima ukwazi ukuthi bangathinta kuphi. Emadodeni kuwumsebenzi olula. Ngakho-ke ungalokothi ucasuke ngokucabanga ukuthi abesifazane bakwenza kangcono, bavele babe lula. Ukuvala lelo gebe elidala ukungahambi kahle phakathi kwabobulili bobabili, nansi incwadi yokufundisa ye indlela yokushaya indlwabu kowesifazane.
Sizokuchazela konke, igxathu negxathu ukuze ufunde kahle amaqhinga okwenza owesifazane afinyelele i-orgasm kalula.
Ukuthinta umuntu wesifazane kuwumsebenzi onzima?
Akubona bonke abesifazane abafanayo noma abafanayo. Lokhu kufanele kubhekwe lapho kucatshangwa ukuthi konke okushiwo lapha kuyasiza kulowo nalowo wesifazane okwazi ukulala naye. Hhayi kancane. Ngoba lokho owesifazane oyedwa angaba yisibusiso senjabulo, omunye angakuthola kuyinyundela.
Yize kukholakala ukuthi abesifazane banezinkinobho eziningi ezincane, banayo eyodwa kuphela okuthi, ngokuyithinta, ungenza uvuthondaba lowesifazane. Imayelana ne-clitoris. Kwesinye isikhathi kuba nzima ukucabanga ukuthi yini owesifazane ayithandayo ngaleso sikhathi, kepha kumane nje kuyindaba yokuzijwayeza ukwazi ukuthi uzonikela kuphi futhi ukusebenzise kaninginingi uze uthuthukise inqubo yakho.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi i-anatomy yabesifazane Kuyinto entekenteke impela nokuthi kulezo zindawo kunemiphetho eminingi yezinzwa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuthinta okuncane kungadala injabulo nobuhlungu. I-clitoris itholakala ngaphakathi esithweni sangasese futhi ukusuka lapho kuye kulezozikhathi eziningi ngesikhathi sokungena izingalo ezifanayo zingakhuthazeka. Kuyisitho esizinikele kuphela enjabulweni nasezilinganisweni eziphakathi kuka-8 no-10 cm.
Ungayithinta kanjani i-clitoris
Esikwaziyo njenge-clitoris kuphela ubukhazikhazi be-clitoris sengathi bekungumthondo. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi yonke imomozi iyazwela ekuphulweni nasekuthephekeni, yize yenelisa ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane uma indawo ithanjisiwe. Ukuze lokhu kwenzeke, iziqalo ezibalulekile zibalulekile. Lapho sifudumeza isimo, i-lubrication iqala ukuphuma futhi kube lula ukuthi yenzeke futhi isisize ukuthi sinikeze injabulo enkulu. Kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kugcotshwa kuthatha isikhashana ukuphuma. Kuya ngokuvuka kowesifazane kanye nofuzo lwakhe.
Ngokushesha nje lapho ufaka khona, faka umunwe wakho kancane emnyango wesitho sangasese sowesifazane, cwilisa ku-lubrication bese uqala ukuthinta i-clitoris. Uma owesifazane engathambisi kahle noma ungafuni ukumlinda azithambise, ungasebenzisa ijeli lokuthambisa noma amathe akho.
Awukwazi ukuya ngqo ezingxenyeni ze-clitoris uze uqaphele ukuthi i-labia majora ikhuphukile ngosayizi. Uma wenza lokhu, kungacasula uma owesifazane engavuswanga ngokuphelele.
Ukunyakaza okudala kakhulu ukubeka inkomba neminwe ephakathi phezulu kwe-clitoris nokwenza ukunyakaza ngendlela yemibuthano. Ungazama futhi ukuhambisa iminwe yakho kusuka kolunye uhlangothi uye kolunye bese uhambisa iminwe yakho phezulu naphansi ukuze udale ukungqubuzana nokuthi owesifazane uyakuthanda.
Qiniseka ukuthi indawo ihlala ithanjisiwe ngaso sonke isikhathi, noma izoyeka ukukuthanda ukukucasula. Okufanelekile ukugcina ukuxhumana kwamehlo nomlingani ukuze nizwane kangcono futhi niphakamise i-libido yenu. Bheka ukuze ubone ukuthi ngabe okwenzayo kuyamthanda yini ukuthi ushintsha kanjani ukuma kwakhe, enze imisindo, noma akhululeke ngokuphelele. Uma owesifazane eshubile, noma yini oyenzayo, ngeke ayithande.
Futhi yilokho abesifazane abaningi baba novalo ngesikhathi socansi. Lokhu kungenzeka ngoba abazi ukuthi bazoyithokozisa yini le ndoda, ngoba bazizwa kabi ngomzimba wabo, banamahloni, njll. Kunezizathu eziyinkulungwane nesisodwa ezenza ukuthi abesifazane bakhathazeke ngesikhathi socansi futhi basabe. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, ngeke bakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm kahle. Uma uhlangana nowesifazane oshubile, kungcono ukuthi umphulule umlenze, isisu noma umange ngenkathi ushaya indlwabu.
Ungayishaya kanjani indlwabu kowesifazane ngendlela eyiyo
Ngeminwe yakho ungadlula phezu kwe-labia majora ne-minora ukudala injabulo eyengeziwe. Ungahlukanisa inkomba neminwe emaphakathi ukuhamba ngaphakathi phezulu noma phansi futhi njalo ukwenze ngokucophelela. Izindebe zimnandi kakhulu futhi kufanele ucindezele kancane bese uslayida.
Khohlwa konke okubonayo kumavidiyo we-porn. Awudingi ukuthepha i-clitoris noma ukuhambisa izandla zakho ngapha nangapha sengathi sidlala isiginci. Ijubane esinyakazisa ngalo izandla zethu lingathandeka, kepha ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amandla. Njengoba sisheshisa ijubane esithinta ngalo ingquza yakhe sizobe sandisa amandla esikwenza ngawo ngaphandle kokufuna.
Kwabesifazane, ukwenza lokhu kungelinye lamaphupho amabi kakhulu njengoba singeke sithande ukususwa ngamandla nangamandla. I-G-spot iyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqala ukunikeza injabulo kowesifazane. Lapho owesifazane esevele evuke kakhulu, ungafaka iminwe yakho esithweni sakhe sangasese kodwa ungangeni ngokuphelele. Kuyajabulisa ngokusho kwabesifazane abaningi. Ngakho-ke, bathi "ithiphu nje."
Ungaqala ngokufaka umunwe owodwa kuphela futhi, uma ubona isitho sowesifazane sangasese sikhulu kakhulu, ungafaka omunye. Thinta ngqo ukhombe G. Ukuze uyithole, kulula njengokunamathisela iminwe yakho phezulu, futhi uzolizwa ithambo le-pelvic. Yilapho okumele uthinte sengathi ufuna ukuthinta inkaba. Ungenza ukunyakaza uye kolunye uhlangothi njengokungathi ubukha ibhodwe lesauce ethile.
Ungafaka futhi ingcindezi ethile endaweni, kepha ungakhohlwa ukukwenza ngokucophelela. Iqiniso lokufaka nokukhipha ipipi alilethi injabulo enkulu kwabesifazane (futhi nakwabanye alibaniki lutho). Ngakho-ke, Hlala ugxile ekuvuseleleni okuhlangene. Lapho ubona ukuthi uvuswe kakhulu, khuphula izinga lokushaya indlwabu uzobona ukuthi uqala ukububula noma ukuhambisa isinqe phansi. Yilapho uzofinyelela khona i-orgasm.
Ngiyethemba la mathiphu akusiza wazi ukuthi ungashaya kanjani indlwabu kowesifazane.