Umbhangqwana awusekelwe kuphela ekubeni sothandweni nokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye. Ukwesekwa phakathi kwabantu bobabili kubalulekile. Kodwa-ke, kunabantu abaningi abangazi ukuthi bangabajabulisa kanjani abalingani babo lapho bebi. Lokhu kusekelwa kuyadingeka ukuze uzizwe kahle futhi uthole amandla okubhekana nezinkinga ezivelayo. Ngakho-ke, kule ndatshana sizokutshela indlela yokujabulisa umlingani wakho.
Uma ungazi ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umlingani wakho, lokhu okuthunyelwe kwakho.
Izinkinga zokuphila ezijwayelekile
Khumbula ukuthi, yize impilo njengombhangqwana inzima, eyethu impilo nayo ingaba nzima. Kunezinkinga zomsebenzi, izinkinga zomnotho noma ezezimali, izindaba ezingezinhle, izingxabano zomndeni noma zomngani, isiminyaminya, ukuwohloka kwefoni ephathekayo, amadivayisi wezobuchwepheshe anenani eliphezulu, njll. Konke kunamathuba angenamkhawulo angenza umlingani wethu abe nosuku olubi. Kulezi zimo isimo esibi, isithukuthezi ngisho nohlobo lokukhathala okwedlulele okungokwengqondo kakhulu kunokuthambekela komzimba kuvame ukuvela.
Yilapho-ke lapho kufanele sibekezele futhi sifunde ukuthi singamjabulisa kanjani umlingani wakho. Akekho umuntu ophephile ezinkingeni zokuphila ezisithinta ngendlela engafanele. Inhloso ukubhekana nazo ngendlela eyakhayo, yize kunezikhathi lapho inkinga isinqobayo. Uma umlingani wakho eseceleni kwakho ngolunye lwalezo zinsuku oluba nzima, kungenziwa kujabulise ngokwengeziwe uma ufunda ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani. Sizonikeza ezinye zezeluleko eziyinhloko zokufunda ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umlingani wakho.
Amathiphu wokufunda ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umlingani wakho
Mhlawumbe izeluleko ezisabalele kakhulu nezisebenziseka kahle ukulalela umlingani wakho. Ungayilalela buthule noma ukhuthaze ngemishwana emifushane. Okubalulekile ukuthi ungamcindezeli lowo muntu ukuthi asho izinkinga zakhe, ngoba kunabathile abangasabeli kahle. Ukukhuluma ngezinto ezisenza siphatheke kabi kungaba enye yezindlela zokwelashwa ezinhle kakhulu zokubhekana nezinkinga futhi sizikhulule emacaleni amabi. Into enhle kakhulu ukuhlala eduze komlingani wakho umcele ukuthi azichaze kwasekuqaleni ekhombisa intshisekelo.
Kulezi zimo, ukuya ocansini kungaba yikhambi elihle. Uma wazi eminye yemibono yakhe, ungammangaza ngokuthatha isinyathelo kuqala. Ngemuva kokusizwa okuhle kocansi, ukudla kungaba yindlela ephumelela kakhulu yokubhekana nesikhathi esibi. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukudla kungaphandle noma kusekhaya. Ungajabulisa umlingani wakho ngokudla okuthandayo. Uma isisu sigcwele, inhliziyo iyajabula. Uma ukudla kulungiswa ngezandla zakho, kungcono kakhulu.
Ungamjabulisa kanjani umlingani wakho lapho ehluliwe
Mtshele ngokusobala ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ungumuntu okhetheke kakhulu kuwe nokuthi umthanda kangakanani. Noma kungazixazululi izinkinga zakho, ngokungangabazeki uzozizwa ungcono kakhulu ngokwazi ukuthi unokwesekwa ohlangothini lwakho. Kwesinye isikhathi, lapho othile emanzi enkingeni noma esimweni esithile, awunaso isithombe esiphelele sesimo. Ungahlaziya umongo wakho konke okwenzekayo bese uchaza kahle kakhulu ukuthi yini ubuhle nobubi. Ngokwesibonelo, kunabantu abaningi abathi imishwana ethi "konke kuhamba kabi", "angisizi ngalutho" noma "Anginayo indlela yokuphuma". Yilapho ungamenza abone ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle nokuthi uzolulama. Ukuthi nginawe lapha eduze kwami kusho ukuthi phakathi kwabo bobabili, bangasithola isixazululo okwamanje.
Uma sikhuluma ngokubeka inkinga kumongo, asikhulumi ngokunciphisa inkinga noma ukuyichitha. Amanye amagama asetshenzisiwe njengokuthi "wenza ihaba" noma "akumele kube njengoba usho" kungaholela engxoxweni ethile, lapho uzama ukulungisa izinto. Eqinisweni, kwesinye isikhathi singahle sibe nengxenye enkulu kakhulu yenkinga esingabandakanyeki nakancane kuyo. Masenze isibonelo salokhu: umlingani wethu ube nosuku olubi emsebenzini futhi ecindezelekile. Mhlawumbe, uma ungenakho ukubekezela okuningi, ake sigcine ngokukhokhela usuku lwakho olubi. Yize kungalungile, lesi simo senzeka kaningi kakhulu.
Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi umuntu ngamunye ubona isimo ngendlela ehlukile futhi asinikeze ukubaluleka okuthile esingase singasiniki sona. Ukungasho konke lokho, kepha ukugxila emizweni yakhe nokumeseka ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukuthandana njengekhambi elihle kakhulu
Lapho umuntu emubi, uthando yikhambi elihle kakhulu lezikhathi ezimbi. Ukuqabula, ukuganga, ukubamba, ukwangana, njll. Ziyindlela enhle yokusiza umuntu ukuba abhekane nezimo ezingezinhle. Ukhiye walokhu futhi ukungawufinyanisi. Okusho ukuthi, kufanele uhloniphe izikhathi zakhe nesitayela sakhe ukuze angacindezelwa. Unganikela ngokuphuma uyophuza ikhofi noma uthathe uhambo lokuhambahamba. Kungaba futhi yindlela enhle yokubhekana nesikhathi esibi. Ukuba nabanye abantu nokuphefumula umoya omusha kungakwenza ubone izinto ngokwengeziwe futhi kuthuthukise imizwa yakho. Noma ngubani uzizwa engcono uma engenaso isizungu.
Ungamkhuthaza ukuthi asebenzise ndawonye. Ukuvivinya umzimba kukhiqiza ukukhishwa kwama-endorphin athuthukisa imizwa yakho. Noma kuzoba njalo ukuzivocavoca umzimba isigamu sehora kungaba nomthelela omkhulu emoyeni wakho.
Enye indlela ukuphuma endaweni ethile noma ukubukela i-movie ehlekisayo. Bangabuye bahlele ukuphuma okuhlukile ngempelasonto. Okuhlukile kwalokhu kuphuma kungammangaza ngokuhlwa abuke ibhayisikobho ayithandayo yobuntwana noma yobusha. Lokhu kungathakazelisa impela njengoba kungavusa imizwa ecabangelayo esiza ukwenza okwamanje kujabulise ngokwengeziwe.
Kunabantu abakhetha ukuba bodwa ukuze babhekane nalesi simo esingesihle. Yize kunengqondo ukuthi ufuna ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze ukwazi ukukhuthaza umlingani wakho, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuqonda ukuthi ufuna ukuba yedwa futhi umnikeze isikhathi. Uma kuyilokho akudinga ngempela, kungcono umnike yena. Akufanele neze umcindezele ukuba enze okuthile, ngaphandle kwalokho ungenza izinto zibe zimbi kakhulu.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngalolu lwazi ungafunda izeluleko zokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umlingani wakho.