Abantu abaningi babheka ukudlala umdlalo wangaphambili njengokuchitha isikhathi, kepha abantu abakwenzayo bayazi ukuthi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuba bobabili babe nomcabango ongcono. Kuleli nothi, sichaza ukuthi singawenza kanjani amane i-foreplay ehamba phambili kwezocansi.
Ukugona ngezingubo ezincane phakathi, okungcono kunokuhamba ze ngokuphelele, kuyindlela enhle yokuqeda iqhwa. Ukulala embhedeni noma ukuma phambi kwawo, akunandaba indawo noma isikhundla inqobo nje uma izidumbu zithinta futhi izandla zombili ziphulula isikhumba somunye kuzo zonke izinkomba esingazicabanga. Ngasikhathi sinye, veza ngamazwi ukuthi usho ukuthini kuwe.
Ungalokothi ubukele phansi amandla enkanuko ka- ukubhucungwa okuhle kwangaphambi kokubeletha. Gijimisa izandla zakho lonke ubude bemilenze yakhe, uqale okhalweni udlule emathangeni nasemaqakaleni. Lapho ufika ezinyaweni, hlikihla izithende zakho nawo wonke amaphuzu abucayi wedwa. Ngemuva kwalokho ungagxila kwiminwe yakhe, uyelule ngawodwana.
Njengokuya ocansini uqobo, ukungena esimeni esijabulisa nina nobabili ngesikhathi sangaphambili kungenza umehluko. Isimo se-'X ' siqukethe ehlezi ebhekene nomunye imilenze yakho ngaphandle. Ngemuva kwalokho laba bantu ababili kufanele basondele ukuze azule, nemilenze yakhe isezinqeni zakho. Izingalo zombili kufanele zigcinwe ziqonde futhi emuva, kububanzi bamahlombe. Ngokubambisana, imizimba izokwakha i-X. Bese, uncike ezandleni zakho, hambisa isinqe sakho phezulu naphansi ukuze wenze amandla athokozisayo.
Qabula umlingani wakho ngothando Kuyisidingo esiyisisekelo sanoma iyiphi i-foreplay futhi kuyindlela enhle yokudlulela ekungeneni okufanele, ngoba imvamisa abesilisa nabesifazane bathola injabulo enkulu ngokuqabula okude lapho kudlalwa khona ulimi kuxubene nokwelula kokuthi umlomo uvaliwe futhi kukhona ukuthintana kwamehlo.