Izimpilo zabantu ababili zigcwele izikhathi ezimnandi nezinye hhayi kangako. Uma kukhona uthando nesifiso sangempela sokuqhubekela phambili, kufanele kwenziwe umzamo wokuvimbela isikhathi esibi ukuba sibe ukuphela.
Kumele sikucabange lokho Izinkinga zombhangqwana ngokuvamile azinakugwenywa. Umbuzo oyisisekelo ukwazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nazo.
Nini kuvela izinkinga ezimbalwa, into yokuqala ukuzibona. Noma kungabonakala kubuhlungu, kodwa kuyadingeka impela. Lesi senzo sidinga ibhalansi: Akukona ukuthatha izikhundla zokumangalela uma kungaphezulu, futhi akugcini ngokuzihawukela ngokweqile.
Ngemuva kokucacisa i- amaphuzu abuthakathaka, isinyathelo esilandelayo ukwakha uhlelo lokuziqinisa. La ukukhungatheka nokusula emsebenzini Lawa ngamagama amabili okumele angene esikhundleni sokuzibophezela nokuzimisela ukushintsha izinto.
Ebhekene nezinkinga ebudlelwaneni, uthando, ukuxhumana, inhlonipho nokubekezela
"Uthando lunqoba konke". Lesi simiso sivame ukuthathwa njengeqiniso eliphelele, noma kunjalo uthando kuphela alusebenzi izimangaliso. Kunezinye izinto okufanele zibe khona ebudlelwaneni ukuze zikwazi ukuqhubeka nokuphila ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
La ukuxhumana okuqotho kanye nenkhulumomphendvulwano yizici eziyinhloko. Ngeke kusize ukugcina izinto ngenxa yokwesaba ukulimaza elinye iqembu noma esinye isizathu. Kufanele sixhumane futhi sitshele okusikhathazayo, ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphakathi kohlaka lwenhlonipho.
Izingxabano eziningi zenzeka ngoba omunye walaba ababili ukhathazwa izici ezithile zenye, kepha okwamanje ukusisho ngomlomo, isenzo sibonakala siqonde kakhulu kumuntu kunasesenzweni, esigcina sikhiqize imbobo entsha bese sisusa isixazululo.
Uma i Ithunzi lokwehlukana liyasondela, imvamisa kunezikhundla ezimbili ezingqubuzanayo: lowo ofuna ukuqeda inyunyana nalowo ongafuni.
Noma yikuphi impikiswano yabantu ingaba nesisombululo. Into efanelekile ukuzimisela ukuyithola.
Imithombo Yesithombe: QTopLife / Theory of Mind