Umngane onezinzuzo Yigama eselivele livela kusichazamazwi solimi lwesiSpanishi. Incazelo yawo yaziwa ikakhulukazi uma kubhekwa izikhathi esiphila kuzo kanye kusho ukuba nobudlelwano nomngane, kodwa ukugcina ukuzibophezela okuncane kakhulu kunokweshela.
Incazelo enikezwe lolu hlobo lobudlelwano yilokho ungaba umngane wami futhi unelungelo lokuthinta. "Sihlangene, sibe nesikhathi esimnandi, sijabule futhi mhlawumbe siyolala, kodwa kunjalo futhi akukho okunye" Lesi isiphakamiso sobudlelwano obunobungani.
Incazelo yabangane
I-Amigovios ingelinye lamagama esinawo ifa kwamanye amagama american. Singakhumbula ezinye ezifana ne-papichulo, izoso, i-poncho noma udoti. Uma leli gama likhona, kungenxa yokuthi lo mqondo ukhona ngempela unjalo.
Ingabe indlela entsha noma indlela yokwakha ubudlelwano, lapho kuvame kakhulu ukuyibona phakathi kwentsha. Ekuqaleni kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ebuhlotsheni obunobungane nalapho kunesifiso sobulili, namanje abazi ukuthi bangakha kanjani iphethini elikhonkolo lalokho abakuchaza njengobuhlobo, futhi ngale ndlela. ngelinye ilanga bandawonye kanti abanye abaningi abakho.
«I-Amigovio: ubuhlobo obungakahleleki, obungenakusasa futhi ngaphandle kokulindela.«
Ukulinganiselwa kwabo kumbalwa, bafuna nje ujabulele imanje ngenkululeko ephelele futhi bathole abantu abasha emhlabeni okufanele bathole. Iningi lalaba bantu alikwazi ukuthatha ubuhlobo obungathi sina, kodwa abaningi abakwazi ukucabanga ukuba abangani ngenxa ye ukuzinikela okuncane okuqhubekayo.
Kungaba yingozi uma omunye wabo engakwazi weqa umugqa wobungani futhi angawela othandweni. Kulokhu kufanele thatha isibopho sakho kokubili ukuzwa okufanayo Futhi ungawephuli lowo mgoqo. Lolu hlobo lobudlelwano alufaneleki neze kubantu abafuna ukulawula yonke into, abakhohlisayo futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke abanomona.
Yimaphi amalungelo akhona kubangani
Kunezimfanelo ezimbalwa abangani abahlose ukuzifeza. Futhi akusona isivumelwano okufanele basigcwalise noma basayine encwadini, kodwa esisodwa sazo Amaphuzu agqama kakhulu ukuzinikela. Ukuheha kukhona, okusobala, bayathandana ngokomzimba, bayajabulisana futhi baya ocansini ngezikhathi ezithile noma njalo.
Ingabe kukhona ukusondelana? Ungase yebo futhi ungakwazi. Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, lapho ubudlelwano bukhululekile, leso sici singase singabathakazelisi, yilowo nalowo uya "kumqulu wakhe", kodwa uma bebonana uhleko nobumnandi akupheli.
Kodwa ukusondelana kungaba khona Hhayi-ke, kulabo singabantu. Le mfanelo ingazwakala phakathi neminyaka. Insizwa eneminyaka engu-20 isivele isiqala ukusondelana kakhulu nanoma yimuphi wabangane bayo futhi uma sengeza uthando kulokhu, kuzoba izingxube ezimbili eziqhumayo. Uma sikhuluma ngobudlelwano nokuzibophezela njalo uthando kanye nombono wokwabelana ukuphila kubonakala nomuntu onezinhlelo zekusasa.
Uma uqala ukugcina lolu hlobo lobudlelwano "bomngane", abantu ababugcinayo bayohlala benabo kulula kakhulu ukudala lolu hlobo lwesixhumanisi. Umbono wakhe ngempilo kuzoba ukuzijabulisa, ukuhlangana nabanye abantu abaningi, ukuvakasha nokwenza izinhlelo ezijabulisayo.
Ingabe lesi simo singagcinwa isikhathi eside?
Akubona bonke abantu Ingabe bangaba nalolu hlobo lobudlelwano?. Ungaba nabangani, kodwa ukudlulisela lowo muzwa ocansini kusho ukuthi ezinye izici zingadlulwa. Kunabantu abathatheka kakhulu noma abanomona abangakwazi ukugcina le nkululeko,
Mhlawumbe omunye wabo angaqala thuthukisa ubungane nocansi, kodwa kungaba nzima uma umqondo wokwenza amaphrojekthi noma ukuzwa ezinye izinhlobo zezidingo wenza lokho kungabi namphumela.
Ingabe kufanele kusungulwe izivumelwano? ekuqaleni kwalolu hlobo lobudlelwano? Ubungane budalwa ngokwemvelo ngakho-ke ukuphila kwabo nokuxega kwabo kwenza umuntu asole ukuthi isimo sabo kufanele sigcinwe ngaleyo ndlela. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kuzoba khona abangani abafuna ukwenza izinto zicace kwasekuqaleni ukuze kungabikho ukungezwani.
Kusukela ekuqaleni uma kusungulwa uchungechunge lwemithetho ukuze kugcinwe lolu hlobo lobudlelwano, noma kuxoxiswana ngalo ngoba kungenzeki ukubusekela, khona-ke. kukhona uhlobo oluthile lokuvumelana okususa lesi simo.
Ngokuphathelene nemvelo yokugcina lobu budlelwano ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungacabanga ukuthi iphuka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kukhona abantu bayo yonke into, ngakho leli phuzu alikwazi ukugcizelelwa ngokuqiniseka okuphelele.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, oyedwa walaba ababili akakwazi ukukubekezelela lokho beka ubudlelwano bakho nenkululeko ephelele, njengoba ngesinye isikhathi uzodinga ukumangalela omunye imininingwane ethile. Kwenzeka ukuthi izimangalo zingenziwa, isibonelo, lokho umuntu akwenzayo lapho bengekho ndawonye. Futhi kuyaqondakala lokho kukhona okunamathiselwe kanye nokuzibophezela. Uma ungasafuni ukuqhubeka nalokhu, akumele kube nenkinga ekuqedeni lolu hlobo lomdlalo.