Amaholide emibhangqwana. Isikhathi sokujabulela, ukwabelana, ukuthanda. Izikhathi zokujulisa i-idyll, ezothando, uthando.
Ukuya eholidini lemibhangqwana yi isikhathi sokubalekela esimisweni, thola izindawo ezintsha, nambitha okunye ukunambitheka, thola umhlaba. Futhi thola umuntu omthandayo. Kepha futhi kungasebenza ukwehlukanisa okuningi.
Okwenzelwe abanye isithombe sepharadesi emhlabeni, kwabanye kungaba yisihogo esifanayo. Ezansi kwakho konke kukhona isimo sobudlelwano. Akufani ukuba nokungavumelani okuthile, ukuze ube nebanga ngempela.
Izibalo zivame ukukhombisa ukuphakama kwesibalo sezehlukaniso okuza ekwindla. Kwabanye ochwepheshe, lokhu kubangelwa iqiniso lokuthi ubudlelwano obeludonsa izinkinga kusukela entwasahlobo futhi buzama ukuzixazulula ngokuchitha amaholide ndawonye, imvamisa kufinyelela umphumela ohlukile.
Ukuchitha ihlobo, uziqhelelanisa nokuphila kwansuku zonke, wabelane ngezikhathi ezi-effervescent nobusuku obungasile, imvamisa isebenza njengebhalisamu. Kepha inqobo nje uma kungekho I-firm izoqhubeka iye phambili kumalungu amabili obudlelwano, "inkohliso" yenhlalakahle iyaphela njengoba iqembu liphela.
Yini eqala kabi iphela kabi?
Imibhangqwana eminingi eya eholidini nayo izinkinga phakathi kwabo, babuya nezinkinga ezinkulu kakhulu.
Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, kwenzeka okuphambene nalokho: imibhangqwana eqinile, ezinikele emshadweni wayo, ekupheleni kwezinsuku zokuphumula nokuphumula, zibukeka kuvuselelwe futhi nangaphezulu othandweni.
Kepha yonke imithetho inokwehluka kwayo. Njengoba nje kukhona ukuqhekeka, nangamaholide kunganikezwa umfutho emibhangqwaneni, unqobe izinkinga ezithile.
Uma uphakamise kuleli hlobo unamaholide afana nalawo indlela yokugcina yokuphelelwa yithemba ukusindisa ubuhlobo bakho, ungapheli amandla ngaphambi kokuya empini. Hlela kahle, khetha indawo egcwele ezothando bese uzigcwalisa ngokukhohlisa.
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