Amanethiwekhi omphakathi ayinzuzo enkulu kakhulu yokukwazi ukuxhumana noma ukudlala ngothando nothile. Uma udinga bhebha umuntu wesifazane ku WhatsApp kufanele wazi ukuthi kukhona amaqhinga amancane ongawasebenzisa ezingxoxweni zakho. Siyazi ukuthi kungenzeka kakhulu ukuxhumana ngezikhathi ezithile usebenzisa lolu hlelo lokusebenza futhi ungasebenzisi isici sokushaya ucingo lwakho.
Ukuze uyisebenzise ngendlela efanele sizokunikeza izinketho ezingcono kakhulu nqoba umuntu. Ukwenza ngale ndlela kuyindaba sebenzisa ngokuzola kakhulu, ngaphandle kokulindela ukuthi izingxoxo ziqhubeke kakhulu futhi ngaphandle kokulindela ukuthi omunye umuntu abe semgqeni ngokuqhubekayo.
Igoli lakho
Inhloso yakho yilokho okumele kucace kulokho ozokuvumela noma ngaphandle kwemingcele. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ozobhalela umuntu ngokwemvelo futhi lokho uzosebenzisana nezithakazelo zabo kanye nemizwa yabo.
Ukuqala kwengxoxo kungase kubaluleke. U-'sawubona' olula ungaba namahloni futhi uhambe ulindele ukuthi bazosiphendula ini, kodwa njalo ungakha intshisekelo. Ucabangani ngawe unjani?Kuhambe kanjani? noma 'Bengikukhumbula'. Ingase ibonise isithakazelo, kodwa siyaqiniseka ukuthi uyayithanda.
Uma ungahlangani naye mathupha ungakwazi sebenzisa amahlaya, Isebenza njalo. Ungasho isithombe noma okuthile okuhlobene nokubonile. Sebenzisa imibuzo engaphenduleki, njenge umcabango ubamba isithakazelo lomunye umuntu. Ungakhuluma ngomculo, mayelana nezindawo ozivakashele noma usho imishwana okufanele uyikhumbule. Ungakwazi ngisho nokuyibeka kumastatus akho, ukuze idale nentshisekelo futhi ifune ukuzisebenzisa wena mathupha.
Bonisa intshisekelo, kodwa ungayiniki amandla amaningi
Kulungile ukukhombisa intshisekelo yakho futhi uqale ukwakha uhlobo lokusebenzisana naleyo ntombazane. Kwabesifazane bathanda ubuqotho nokunaka, kodwa ngaphandle kokweqisa. Angithandi ukubona umfana ulahleke njalo ekukhulumeni futhi uthophe intombazane, noma uyivumele ihlale ku-inthanethi usuku lonke ilinde ingxoxo.
Zama ukumenza akubone lokho izingxoxo azibalulekile kakhulu, kodwa ukuhlangana nani ubuso nobuso. Intshisekelo yakho kufanele ibe khona, kufanele unikeze inkampani yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ubakhumbuze lokho ukhona engikudingayo. Imininingwane enhle ukukhumbula lapho ephuma emsebenzini noma eqeda usuku lwakhe lwekilasi, ngaleso sikhathi ungabuza ukuthi uhambe kanjani.
Sebenzisa izithonjana
Kuhle ukusebenzisa izithonjana ukuze ukwazi ukucacisa ukuthi kuzwakala kanjani ngaphandle kwamagama. Sithanda ngempela ukubona ukuthi imizwa yomuntu esixhumana naye ifana kanjani. Kodwa njengesincomo akukuhle ukuzisebenzisa njalo, kungase kubonakale okomntwana.
Nakekela isipelingi sakho kanye nendlela obhala ngayo
Isipelingi yinto engcono kakhulu okufanele uyiqaphele lapho ubhala. Kuzoba ithuluzi lakho elingcono kakhulu lapho ukhuluma, kusukela nakekela uhlelo lolimi kuyiqiniso elibalulekile kwabesifazane abaningi. Futhi ungasebenzisi ulimi oluyinselele lokho kungenza owesifazane angakhululeki. Babonga kakhulu imiyalezo ecophelelayo nehlelekileAkudingekile ukuba babonakale becasula noma bezidla.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungaweqisi. Akekho othanda ukufunda kakhulu futhi abheke izigaba ezinde kakhulu. Kufanele iqonde futhi ibe mfushaneVumela ingxoxo igeleze ngokwemvelo futhi kalula. Uma imibhalo ibhalwa isikhathi eside kakhulu, kungase kubonakale njengomuntu ophelelwe yithemba, ngaphandle kokuphila komphakathi ngakho-ke unikeza umuzwa wobunzima. Ungabheka ukuthi indlela yakhe yokukhuluma injani nokuthi uthanda ikhwalithi ephezulu noma ubukhulu bemibhalo. Uma enemba kakhulu futhi ethanda imisho emifushane, kufanele uphendule ngesibonelo sakhe.
Dlala okungaqondakali
Kuyisu elihle futhi liyavela yakha ihhuku nomunye umuntu. Kuthatha isikhathi ukuphendula imiyalezo yakhe futhi umvumele akulahle ukuthi unjani kancane kancane. Impilo yakho yezenhlalo, umsebenzi wakho, izinto ozilibazisayo ... konke lokhu kungatholakala ngosuku lokuqala, uma efuna ngempela ukuhlangana nawe. Kodwa okwamanje menze akuxhume uzama nikeza lokho kuthinta kwemfihlakalo.
Ungalindela eminye imibuzo, wazi ukuthi ungalinda kanjani ungaphenduli ngokushesha futhi njalo ukudala ukungaqiniseki. Yinto ebambayo futhi ezofuna impendulo kukho konke okuvezayo. Ngakho uzoba nawe emqondweni ngoba umphosele inselelo yokuthi ungumuntu ongaqondakali.
Sebenzisa amagama abo ezingxoxweni, ungasebenzisi izinciphiso noma uzethembe ekunikezeni iziteketiso. Bonisa ukuzethemba kukho konke okushoyo futhi futhi unentshisekelo, nakuba ngokwengxenye. Njengoba sesike saphawula, yindaba ube nengxoxo engathathi hlangothi, ungabonakali sengathi uphelelwe ithemba. Ukudlala ngothando kuhle, amanothi amahlaya, imishwana yesikhuthazo nokubeka kancane ezothando. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngaphambi kokubathumela kufanele ukwenze isibuyekezo salokho okubhalile, Ukuze ungawenzi amaphutha.