Kubafana abaningi kuyinselele enkulu ukuhlehla kanjani ukuba nentombi. Kungaba into ezalwa ngokuhlangenwe nakho okunye kokuphila, nokho, kuyiqiniso ukuthi kungaba nzima emadodeni amaningi. Impela awukwazi ukuthola intombazane ngoba mhlawumbe awuzami kakhulu, kodwa siyakuqinisekisa ukuthi lapha sikusiza ukuthi wazi ukuthi kungani ungayitholi.
Wonke umuntu onomgomo kufanele yifise ngokwethembeka nangethemba lonke. Ukuze ukwazi ukwenza lokhu, kufanele ufunde ukuthi kufanele ujabulele isikhathi ngasinye futhi ukwazi ukushiya izinzwa zakho ukuze uzuze lokho kuqiniseka.
Kufanele usebenze ngaphakathi kumuntu
Kufanele wazi ukuthi azikho izinto eziningi ezingafezwa ngaphandle komzamo. Uma ungazivumeli ukuthi ubonwe, Kokubili ngokomzimba nasezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ngokuqinisekile uzoba nethuba elincane lokuhlangatshezwa ngabesifazane.
Ungalahli ithemba ngokuba ngumuntu ongavikelekile, kuyodingeka uqinise ubuntu bakho ukuze ubonise amakhono akho aphelele. Maningi ama-nuances ahlobene nezimpumelelo ezimbalwa, phakathi kwazo ezokuthola owesifazane ozomnqoba ngempela.
Indoda enobuntu obuncane kufanele qinisa into ebaluleke njengokuzethemba kwakho. Kusukela lapha, into eyisisekelo njengokuthi uhlamvu lwakho kanye nesikhalo socansi. Ungase uyindoda ebukekayo, kodwa uma ungenayo leyo nhlansi, ngeke ubabambele abesifazane.
Yiziphi izinyathelo okufanele uzilandele ukuze ube nentombi
Kukhona lokho bheka izindawo zokuhlangana nabantu entsha ofuna ukuyivulela abanye. Akudingekile ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi kube izindawo lapho kuthathwa khona iziphuzo, zingaba futhi izikole, amakilabhu, izikhungo zezemidlalo ... uma kuyisikhungo sakho sokungcebeleka, ungahlala umeme leyo ntombazane ukuthi iqhaza emcimbini noma okuthile okuhlobene nendawo.
Uma ungenawo amathuluzi okuhlangana nabesifazane, ungakwazi njalo cela umngane ukuthi akwethule. Ungabheka futhi imbobo noma isu ukuze ukwazi ukubona leyo ntombazane futhi unikeze usizo lwakho, ngokuqinisekile kukhona okuthandekayo kungaqala lapha.
Hlala uthola okungcono kakhulu kuwe Futhi ngokwemvelo ngangokunokwenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba nguwe. Uma uzenza sengathi ufuna inhloso kanti awuqotho, kuzovela futhi amanga amancane angajikijela into ebivele yenziwe ngokusemthethweni.
Kukhona lokho sondelana nabesifazane ngokuzethemba okuphelele, isimo sengqondo sikwenza konke futhi uzohlala unabesifazane abanentshisekelo kuwe. Abesifazane abangakuthandi ukuthi owesilisa usondela ngenhloso yokushela futhi lapho ebhekene nempendulo engemihle bavele bapholile, bazikhukhumeze, bahambe futhi bangabi nandaba kwezinye izici.
Kufanele umomotheke, uzizwe ukhululekile futhi uzithobe. Konke kuqala ngawe, ngakho Iba nesi qiniseko. Uma usendaweni lapho ubona khona ukuthi abantu besifazane bayakwazi ukwamukela, kufanele uthole umuntu okunikeza amavibe amahle. Uma ungazi ukuthi ungazethula kanjani noma uqale kanjani ingxoxo, sinezihloko ezinhle kakhulu "Ungadlala kanjani nentombazane" o "Ingena kanjani intombazane".
Awudingi ukuya egoli futhi ugxile entombazaneni eyodwa kuphela. Ungaphuma izinsuku ezimbalwa noma ubusuku futhi nweba inethiwekhi yakho yoxhumana nabo, kusukela lapha uzoba nesikhathi sokuhlangana nalawo mantombazane amancane kancane kancane futhi thola ngezinhloso zabo. Ezingosini zakho zokuxhumana ungenza okufanayo. Uma uke wahlangana namantombazane amaningana kufanele ulinganise ukuthi ubani ongase ukwazi ukummemela esiphuzweni ngelinye ilanga.
Thola ukuqoqa imishwana ethile noma amaqhinga ukuze ukwazi ukuzilolonga namantombazane ohlangana nawo. Siyaqiniseka ukuthi uma amantombazane amaningi ohlangana nawo futhi owenza inkhulumomphendvulwano, kuzoba lula ngawe ukukhuluma ngaphandle kobunzima, ikakhulukazi uma intombazane yamaphupho akho ivela.
Iba nemisho elungiselelwe esebenza kahle futhi ibenze bamamatheke, ngisho namabhilidi aphihliza iqhwa nemishwana yokudlala ngothando. Amantombazane amaningi awakhulumi kakhulu futhi uma ulungiselela izingxoxo eziningi ongase ube nazo kakade uqala okuthile okuthakaselayo.
Hola izingxoxo futhi uziqeqeshe ukuze angabi yisimungulu. Ungabuza ukuthi belunjani usuku lwakhe noma kukhona okuthakazelisayo okwenzeke kuye muva nje. Kodwa nawe kufanele funda ukulalelaBathanda nokutshela izindaba zabo kanye namadoda akuthakaselayo kakhulu abakushoyo.
Uma ukwazile ukuba ne-aphoyintimenti kufanele uyihlole ukuhambisana nalowo muntu. Uma unokuxhumana okwanele lokho kuzoba ukhiye wokungena kokuthile okungaba thola ukwenza ngokusemthethweni kancane kancane, futhi ngaphandle kokushesha. Kusekuningi okumele uhlaziye futhi uhlole futhi kufanele unikele isikhathi kulokho. Ngemuva kwesizini kufanele uthole isikhathi esifanele sokumcela ukuthi abe intombi yakho.