Akulula ukujabulisa owesifazane oyedwa, ikakhulukazi njengoba izindlela ezingasebenzela owesifazane oyedwa zingase zingasebenzi komunye. Ngenxa yokuthi abayiqondi indlela abesifazane abacabanga ngayo ngocansi nomehluko ekuvusweni kwabesilisa ngokocansi, kuvame ukwenziwa amaphutha amaningi. Amadoda amaningi awazi indlela yokujabulisa umuntu wesifazane futhi bagcina benza amaphutha afanayo.
Ngakho-ke, sizokufundisa konke odinga ukukwazi ukuze ube ngcono embhedeni futhi ufunde ukuthi ungamujabulisa kanjani umuntu wesifazane.
Ulwazi olujwayelekile
Abesifazane abafani nabesilisa maqondana nezocansi, yize nabo bezocansi, ngemizuzwana emibili ngeke basuke ku-0 baye ku-100. Ngabo kufanele uchithe isikhathi esithile ukuze ubafudumeze. Kufanele udale uhlobo lokungezwani kwezocansi phakathi kwakho naye. Siqukethe umcako nesihlabathi, okusho ukuthi, igxathu elincane eliya phambili futhi igxathu elincane emuva: mange ngentshiseko bese wehlisa ijubane kancane, Ngalesi sidonsa sempi uzomenza alinde isikhathi sokulala.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma isikhathi silungile, kufanele uhlele ukulungisa imvelo ukuyenza ibe yothando futhi ibe mnandi, udlale umculo othambile, usebenzise izibani ezifiphele futhi unakekele isithombe sakho, gqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezinhle namakha, futhi unakekele umoya wakho. Uma uke wadla isidlo sakusihlwa phambilini, kuhle ukuletha ushingamu noma okuthile okungathuthukisa umoya wakho uma kungenzeka ungabi nalo ithuba lokuxubha amazinyo akho.
Amaqhinga okufunda indlela yokujabulisa owesifazane
- I-caress ibalulekile: ukumthinta, ukubeka izandla phansi emhlane, ukuxubha umzimba wakhe ngezindebe zakho, njll. ... Umqondo omuhle ukuqala ngokubhucunga umzimba.
- Ambuke ezinhlamvini zamehlo: Isibonelo, lapho bemdlalisa noma bedlala ngezinwele zakhe, abesifazane bathola ukuthintana kwamehlo kujabulisa kakhulu.
- Ukuhleba endlebeni: Ukuhleba kuthokozisa kakhulu abantu besifazane, khetha amagama afanele futhi ungangeni enhlamba.
- Shukumisa i-clitoris yakhe: Uma ufuna abe ne-orgasm engasoze ayilibale, kufanele umphulule i-clitoris, umanzise iminwe yakho kuqala, ungacindezeli, uzigoqe kamnandi ngezandla zakho bese udweba imibuthano emincane. Ngemuva kwalokho ungaqhubeka nokusebenzisa ulimi lwakho, ulandela ifilosofi efanayo, okungukuthi, ungasebenzisi ulimi lwakho kanzima futhi udwebe imibuthano emincane.
- Thatha isikhathi sakho: Lapho ufaka, okungenani ekuqaleni, kwenze ngejubane elibushelelezi. Akukhathalekile uma ekucela ukuthi usheshe, phumula nje, uzozizwa enamandla futhi ejabule ngokwengeziwe.
- Jabulela: Uma ebona ukuthi uyakujabulela, angajabula ukuzwa amazwi amnandi avela kuwe, uma nawe ubheka emehlweni akhe, uzomvumela aye ezulwini.
- Ukuqiniseka: unganqikazi kakhulu. Zama into ocabanga ukuthi angayithanda. Zama kuqala. Uma ubona impendulo enhle, ungazama okuningi. Isibonelo, ingono iyindawo ethokozisa kakhulu abesifazane, kepha abanye abantu bayathanda ukuphathwa ngesisa kanti abanye banomdlandla omkhulu. Zama ukuphulula izingono zakhe kuqala. Uma impendulo yinhle, ungazama ukuthanda kakhulu.
- Shintsha ukuma kwakho: Zama ukuma okuhlukile, wena naye ungakhetha ukulawula isikhathi.
Amaphutha lapho kuvusa umuntu wesifazane
Njengoba sishilo ekuqaleni kwendatshana, kunamaphutha amaningi ajwayelekile enziwa uma kuziwa ekujuleni kowesifazane. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini:
- Ukungasebenzisi isikhathi esanele kuma-preliminaries.
- Ukunganaki inhlanzeko yomuntu siqu nezingubo zangaphansi. Kunuke kahle futhi kubalulekile ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezifanele. Vele, akukho lutho lokugqoka amasokisi embhedeni, lokho kuzonciphisa ukugula kwanoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane.
- Ungaphazanyiswa: Ukubheka ifoni ngenkathi usesenzweni noma ukuphazanyiswa yinoma yini enye kuzophazamisa umzuzu.
- Lungisa ikhondomu: Gwema ukuvula ibhokisi bese uhlukanisa ikhondomu kolunye. Uma usuyilungisile ikhondomu, yikhiphe ebhokisini uyihlukanise, khona-ke le mizuzwana embalwa yisikhathi esibalulekile ongasonga.
- Awukho umoya othokozisayo: umculo omuhle nokukhanya okuthambile kuzokwenza izinto zithokozise ngokwengeziwe.
- Ukuqabula kakhulu: Kufanele uqabule ngobumnene futhi kancane, kungcono ukubeka konke ukugxila kwakho ekunikezeni ukuqabula okuhle okumbalwa kunokunikeza okuningi futhi kube lukhuni kakhulu.
- I-clitoris ayifani nenkinobho yomlingo: Akudingekile ukuthi kugxilwe kule ndawo kuphela, kepha kunezinye izindawo zabesifazane ezidinga ukunakekelwa okwengeziwe. Ungayisebenzisi kabi.
Amanye amathiphu
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokujabulisa abesifazane ukwazi ukuthi yini ebajabulisayo. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane banamathuba amaningi okuvuswa yizikhuthazo zokuzwa nezokuthinta. Ngokuya ngalokhu, owesifazane ushukunyiswa yizindaba zetulo, okuqukethwe ngokomzwelo nemininingwane yemidlalo yezithombe zocansi, okumenza azizwe ukuthi uyena ophikisana nefantasy yakhe. Uma sifaka ezinye izinto kulokhu, ezifana nephunga, ukunambitheka nemiphumela emihle yokubuka, impumelelo iyaqinisekiswa.
Uma kukhulunywa ngamathiphu noma amaqhinga okujabulisa umuntu wesifazane, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuxhumana, kungaba ngqo (ukukhuluma) noma ukunaka izimpendulo zakhe ezintweni ezahlukahlukene nokuqonda lokho akuthandayo. Kumele sazi ukuthi uvuswa nini owesifazane futhi siwenze kahle umsebenzi. Uma use-aphoyintimenti, ungahle uzwe ukusabela okuthile komzimba yize kungabonakali kalula. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele uqaphele kakhulu ukubabamba. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini lezo zimpawu:
- Ukuswakama kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane nge-lubricating fluid.
- Ubukhazikhazi be-clitoris buyakhukhumala.
- Ukubomvu kwesikhumba (ukuxubha ngokocansi).
- Ukwakhiwa kwezingono.
- Khuphuka kancane ngosayizi wamabele.
- Hyperventilation, kukhuphuke izinga lokuphefumula.
- okubandakanya ukuhamba kwenhliziyo.
- Ukujuluka okwengeziwe
Izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwabo, ukusabela kwabo, kanye nokuphawula kwabo kungabonakala. Ngokubalwa kwazo zonke lezi zinkomba singazi ukuthi ngabe owesifazane ukhululekile noma akakhululekile.
Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, kunamaphuzu ambalwa abalulekile okufanele uwagcine engqondweni ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungavula kanjani owesifazane ngendlela efanele. Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi singadluliselwa phambili kubo bonke abesifazane ozohlangana nabo. Ngakho-ke, gxila kulokho okusebenza njengenkomba kumuntu ngamunye.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngalolu lwazi ungafunda ukuthi owesifazane uzovula kanjani.