Abesifazane bajabule ngemfashini yamabhulukwe akhanyayo phakathi kwamadoda, manje sebemake okufanayo njengoba senze impilo yethu yonke. Kepha kudingeke ukuthi basicasule sonke, ngenkathi benza impilo ikhululeke kakhudlwana kuwe.
Le ntwasahlobo / ihlobo 2009 abaklami bagcwalisa izitolo zabo ngamabhulukwe anezinwele nezincwe. Lezi zici zenza ingubo ivule imilenze. Ibhulukwe eligcwele isikhwama esivumela ukuthi ube nokukhuphuka okuphansi kakhulu bese ukuliguqula libe linye lamafayela we- kumele kumnandi kakhulu ngaphandle kwekhabethe.
Ngokwami, angibhejeli, futhi angiwuvikeli lo mkhuba ngoba angamadizayini aklanyelwe amadoda angalandeli noma angakhathaleli ukuthi agqokani, achitha isizini yonke ngamabhulukwe amabili noma amathathu angaphelelwa yisikhathi, anokuqonda ngangokunokwenzeka neziqongqo ezimbalwa. La mabhulukwe awancomi ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene, kepha okuyisisekelo ukuthi kunikeza umuzwa wokuthi mkhulu, nobubanzi nobude.
Ungabathola cishe kuzo zonke izitolo zezingubo, sekuyimfashini futhi okubalulekile ukuthengisa. Ngithemba nje ukuthi ubeka ikhanda lakho lapho uthenga. Ungasebenzisi imali entweni engakufaneli, noma ngabe ithambeka kanjani. Ukugqoka kahle kuqukethe ukwazi ukuthi yini ekufanelayo nokuthi kufanele ugqoke kanjani isikhathi ngasinye.
Nge: Namuhla Imfashini
Uqinisile, amabhulukwe anemicibisholo abukeka esabekayo eminyakeni engama-20 edlule futhi manje futhi, hhayi kowesifazane noma owesilisa, yebo, funa kangcono okuthile okuthi uma kukufanele.