Manje sesingafaka igama elithi metrosexual ngaphakathi kwesilulumagama sethu saseSpain. Imelwe njengesichasiso futhi ichazwa njengendoda, imvamisa eyingqingili, ngubani ukhathalela ngokweqile ukubukeka kwabo futhi uchitha isikhathi esiningi nemali ekunakekelweni ngokomzimba. Futhi ukuthi lolu hlobo lomuntu lunjalo ngaphandle kokuningi, intshisekelo yakhe ingaba ngokweqile ukuze abe nokunakekelwa okuphelele komuntu siqu.
Futhi yileli gama Isivele iqokiwe emuva ngo-1994 lapho intatheli yaseBrithani uMark Simpson eqamba igama elithi "metrosexual" ukuzama ukuchaza ngandlela thile wonke lawo madoda angabathengi abakhulu bokugcoba namakha okuzinakekela kwabo. Lokho kwenze ukuthi yonke imikhiqizo yezimonyo inyukele phezulu ukuzama ukunikela ngemikhiqizo yabo emihle kakhulu kuzo zonke lezo zidingo eseziqale ukubaluleka emadodeni.
I-Metrosexual ayifani nobungqingili
Cha. Kepha sizobeka lemiqondo emibili ngoba ingahambisana. Ubungqingili sebusungule isiyalo okufanele sizinakekele ngokweqile, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukunakekelwa kwabo kuholele emcabangweni wokuthi i-metrosexual iba ubungqingili.
I-metrosexual ngumuntu othanda okwasemadolobheni, Uhlala azi ngezindlela zakamuva zemfashini, uchitha imali eningi ukugqoka kahle, ukugqoka ama-jean womklami, ukunakekela umzimba wakhe, ukuya ejimini nokudla imikhiqizo eminingi yezimonyo ebusweni bakhe. Unentshisekelo enkulu ekwakhiweni kwangaphakathi, ukupheka ngisho neyoga.
Bangakwazi ngisho nokufaka i-wax futhi bathole ukuzenzela. Kodwa-ke, isimo sakhe asibiki ukuthi vele kumele abe yisitabane, kodwa yebo bangaba uhlobo lokuzijwayeza abalufunayo.
Isimo esikhohlisayo salolu hlobo lwendoda akumele sibonise uhlangothi lwabesifazane ngenxa yokukhathalela ngokweqile, kodwa ngenye indlela, Uhlala njalo efuna ukuzithanda kakhulu futhi abanye bamthande kakhulu, kepha ngaphandle kokungabunaki ubudoda bakhe.
Ama-Metrosexuals asengamadoda angempela
Asisenabo abesilisa bakudala. Kunamadoda asevele enakekela isimo ukuze aqhubekele phambili, angabathandi bemisebenzi yasendlini, anakekele izingane zawo, apheke futhi aze angabi nakancane ukuveza imizwa yawo. Ngaphandle kwakho konke lokho abayeki ukuya endaweni yokucima ukoma futhi baphethe ubhiya wabo, babuke ezemidlalo futhi bahlele amaphathi nabangane nomndeni.
Bahlala ngokuvumelana ngaphandle kokudebeselela ubudoda babo naleyo ncwajana "yabesifazane" encane. Abesilisa abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-40 ubudala bavele baqala ngalokhu kukhathazeka ngeqiniso lokuthi babonakala benomzimba ongcono futhi abesilisa abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengama-40 babekelwe lolu hlobo lokunakekelwa ukuze bathuthukise nomzimba wabo kanye nezizathu zezempilo.
Bangamadoda abazihlukanisa ngezigaba zabo ngoba badinga ukulandela isitayela esisemfashinini, bathanda ukudla futhi bakwenzela ukwakha nokuvikela isithombe sabo.
Isitayela sendoda sidaliwe
Akwaziwa ngokuqinisekile ukuthi yini ebangele lo mkhuba. Ngokuvamile, lezi zinhlobo zamadoda ziyazinakekela futhi zikwenza ngezizathu ezimbili: Babenza bazizwe kahle ngabo futhi bakha lobo buhle bokunqoba bonke labo besifazane abadumile.
Kososayensi abaningi bezenhlalo nezazi zesayensi yabantu bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuthambekela ngeke kube nemiphumela eminingi, ngoba kungaba isu elakhiwe yimikhiqizo emikhulu ukudonsela ukunakekela kubantu besilisa.
Kumele ubone osaziwayo abaningi abalandela lokhu okuthandayo, Imikhiqizo emikhulu impela incintisana ukugqoka izesekeli nezingubo eziningi. SinoDavid Beckham odumile njengesithonjana sendoda ehlangana nobulili obufanayo, kepha ilandelwa yilabo abanjengo mshayisibhakela u-Oscar de la Hoya, noma njengoJared Loreto noJohnny Depp abasebenzisa izimonyo futhi bapende izinzipho zabo.
Uguquka kanjani lo mkhuba?
Amadoda amaningi ngokwengeziwe anquma ukuzinakekela futhi enze ukunakekelwa kwabo kube sesidlangalaleni. Kusenabaningi abafihla ukukwenza ukuqhubeka nesimo sabo sobuso obuphezulu, kepha izibalo ziveza okuhlukile.
Cishe ama-45% wamadoda awanelisekile ngokubukeka kwawo kanti abanye abangama-65% abajabule ngesisu sabo. Ukuqothulwa kwamathumbu esiswini sekuqale ukuthandwa, futhi ukuthintwa ebusweni nokugcotshwa kwezindebe nakho sekuyinto ethandwayo.
Isihloko sokuhlinzwa kwezimonyo yisinyathelo sokugcina esithathwa ngamadoda ukuthuthukisa ukubukeka kwawo. Okokuqala zama ukugqoka ngemfashini bese ulungisa izinwele zakho kahle. Ngemuva kwalokho, bahlela indlela yokuwukhulisa umzimba wabo ngezemidlalo, benza ngisho nokuthinta kabusha okuncane kwezimonyo, kepha njengenye indlela yokugcina, bafuna isinyathelo ngokulungiswa kokuhlinzwa.
Igama elithi metrosexual Njengamanje iphikisana naleli gama usukelwine. Lolu hlobo lomuntu lulandela amaphethini afanayo ne-metrosexual, enakekela isithombe sakhe ngokujulile kodwa ngaphandle kokuwela ebuchosheni. Ngendlela efanayo kwenzeka nge nxangilethu okusho abesilisa abanakekelayo, noma umehluko omkhulu ukuvela kokubukeka okungcolile okuvela, imvamisa begqoke amajini kanye namahembe ayizicaba, anoboya obuningi bobuso.