IKrisimesi ilapha kwaye uluhlu lwezipho sele lulungiselelwe. Ngomzuzu wokugqibela zininzi izinto ekufuneka zenziwe, kunye nezinto ezininzi ekufuneka zenziwe. Kodwa, indlela yokuziphatha phambi kwesipho? Kuthekani ukuba yinto esingayithandiyo?
Omnye umbuzo owongeziweyo ngowokuba Umgaqo olandelwayo ufuna ukuvula isipho phambi komnikeli wesipho.
En los amazwe asentshonaUmgaqo olandelwa kakhulu kukuvula izipho kumntu ozenzayo, kunye nombulelo. Ukuba izipho azinakuvulwa ekuqaleni, zinokushiywa ixesha elininzi ethekweni.
Kulo iindawo ezisempuma, izipho zihlala zingavulwa phambi kwabo bazinikayo. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, kuba iyaqondakala into yokuba iimvakalelo akufuneki ziboniswe esidlangalaleni, nokuba yeyiphi na imeko.
Psychology yesipho
Ngokufanelekileyo, izipho kufuneka zinxulunyaniswe nomntu ozifumanayo, kubuntu bakhe, njl. Ayifani into yokuzibophelela kunesipho esenziwe kumntu esimxabisileyo.
Ungenza ntoni xa ungasithandi isipho?
- Guqula okanye uyibuyisele. Zombini ezi zinto zinokwenziwa ngelixa uhlala unobuntu kwaye uchubekile. Ngenxa yoku, kunyanzelekile ukuba lowo unikileyo anike ingqalelo eyoneleyo yokufaka itikiti kwiphakeji.
- Yinike omnye umntu. Ingabonakala ingaqhelekanga, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iyenziwa kwaye inokuthi iphume kakuhle. Icebo lokuphumelela: eso sipho kunye nesipho asihlangani okanye ziwele iindlela zabo ebomini. Ngaphandle koko, unokufumana ubutshaba bobabini.
- Nikela ngayo. Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, kwimeko yesinxibo, uhlaza Ii-NGOs kunye neenkonzo zikamasipala ezibonelela ngokunokwenzeka ngokunikela ngeempahla kunye nezinye iimpahla.
- Thengisa kwakhona. Ukhetho lokuthengisa luhlala lusetyenziswa, ukuba ukhetha imali kunesipho. Kwaye xa kungekho thuba lokutshintshisa into ngento enokuba luncedo kuwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umniki wesipho angafumani.
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