Yintoni ukuhenda?

Yintoni ukuhenda?

Ubugcisa bokuhenda bebusoloko bukho kulo lonke uluntu. Isenzo sokuzama ukutsala omnye umntu ngenkangeleko yomzimba okanye nasiphi na esinye isixhobo sisekwe kumbono wokukwazi ukuboyisa. indawo yesondo.  Indlela yokukwazi ukukhanga umntu ingena kumbuzo wokuba yintoni ukuhenda kwaye kufuneka usebenze njani kuyo ukuze ukwazi ube ngumcengi olungileyo

Zininzi izijekulo okanye izinto eziyinxalenye yazo el ubugcisa bokuhenda. Ubume okanye isenzo sayo asichazwanga nje ukuba sivumelana nomntu wesini esahlukileyo, kodwa siyinxalenye yabantu abasingqongileyo, njengosapho, abantwana, abahlobo okanye oogxa bethu.

Yintoni ukuhenda?

ukuhenda Sisiphumo sokuhenda. Umntu wenza isenzo okanye ukuziphatha okuthile ukuze omnye okanye abantu abaninzi bazive betsalelekile. Sisenzo esinxulunyaniswa naso ukucenga, ngokwesondo, apho uzama ukoyisa umntu onobudlelwane obusondeleyo. Kwelinye icala, ukuhenda kunokutolikwa njengobuchule bokwazi ukunxibelelana ngeemvakalelo.

Ukuba sisebenzisa esi sicwangciso sijonge ingqalelo ngenjongo. Ingayi ukoyisa loo mntu kwaye uzuze uthando, ingqalelo okanye uncamathiselo. Izimbo zomzimba, inkangeleko kunye namagama amnandi ngamanqaku aphambili ukuze ube ngumntu ohendayo

Ngaba umntu unokuhenda? Ngokuqinisekileyo ewe. Ukukhohlisa kuza nobuntu bomntu ngamnye, kufuneka ufumanise ukuba athini amandla akho ukuze ukhuphe ngaphandle zonke ezi mpawu kwaye ukwazi ukwenza izixhobo zakho. Ukuhenda kuphakamisa ukuzithemba, uziva uthandwa kakhulu kwaye uxatyisiwe, kungakhathaliseki isikhundla osifezayo ebomini bakho: iqabane, umsebenzi, utata okanye umama, umhlobo okanye iqabane elinovelwano.

Yintoni ukuhenda?

Ubugcisa bokuhenda ngokwesondo

Unokubakhohlisa njani? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kukho iingcebiso ezininzi kunye namaqhinga avula ingxoxo kulo mbuzo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba umntu ohendayo Kufuneka ufumane amandla akho.: uncumo oluhle, ukujonga okungena ngaphakathi, ukuchukumisa iinwele zakho, ukuphulula ngokuthambileyo kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ukuba nembeko kunye nokuhenda ngamagama aphazamisayo, athambileyo, asondeleleneyo kwaye agcwele iimfihlakalo. Musa ukuyilibala loo nto ubugcisa bokwenza abantu bahleke Ikwayinxalenye njengesixhobo sokuhenda.

ngudlalani okanye seduze
Inqaku elidibeneyo:
Ukudlala ngothando okanye ukulukuhlwa

Kusoloko kukholelwa ukuba indoda yiyo ethabatha elo nyathelo lokuqala, elihendayo ibhinqa. Kodwa namhlanje siyayibona loo nto ukuhenda kuyahambelana, ukuba abafazi nabo banezona zixhobo zibalaseleyo kwaye banokuthatha elo nyathelo lokuqala.

Yintoni ukuhenda?

Iindlela zokuba ngumlukuhli olungileyo

Ubuchule obunokusetyenziswa Kuxhomekeke kubuntu bomntu. kunye nohlobo lwemeko oza kuzibonakalisa ngayo. Umntu ngamnye inembono eyahlukileyo yaye izinto abazithandayo zisenokungavisisani nezo zabanye abantu, ngoko simele sihlalutye iingongoma ezahlukahlukeneyo.

  • thatha ixesha lakho phambi kokuba wenze. Musa ukungxama okwangoku kwaye uhlalutye into onayo phambi kwakho. Ungasondela kwaye ungenzi injongo yakho icace, unokubonakala uneentloni, kodwa kwangaxeshanye uzithembile. Xa incoko iqalisiwe, zama ukuthetha kancinci kwaye uqalise ukuphulaphula ngakumbi.
  • Gxininisa kusukelo kodwa kwakhona ugxininise entloko yakho, musa ukuthabatheka ucinga kuphela ngesini. Akukabikho ukuthembana komnye umntu, ngoko kufuneka uyithathe lula. Zama ukuseka unxibelelwano oluhle kwaye wenze i-chemistry ivele, ngaphandle kokubonisa umdla okanye iimfuno.

Yintoni ukuhenda?

  • Yakha ukuzithemba nokhuseleko. Esi ayisosicwangciso, ingesona sixhobo sifanelekileyo sokusebenzisa ukuhenda, kodwa sisimo sengqondo esimele senziwa nzulu. Kuthetha ukuba umntu lowo makazixabise, ube nokhuseleko kwaye oko kuya kukunika amandla okukwazi ukulawula imeko.
  • Kukho oko sebenza ngamandla omntu Ukuba umntu uyonwabile kwaye uyazidla, uya kuba nolindelo olungcono lokufumana oko akufunayo. Xa umntu enxibelelana nomntu wakhe wangaphakathi, kulula kubo ukunxibelelana nabanye ngesisombululo esikhulu.
  • yenza yonke into zibonakala ziyinyani kwaye zinganyanzeliswa. Sebenzisa ubuchule bokuhenda kwiimeko ekunganyanzelekanga ukuba unyanzeliswe. Ngokomzekelo, musa ukunyanzela okanye uzame ukulukuhla umntu ongakwaziyo ukuhlala nawe. Loo mntu unokuba nolunye uhlobo lokuzibophezela kwaye ekugqibeleni akukho luhlobo lwesicwangciso luya kubangela.
  • Yenza esakho isitayile sokuhenda, Ukuba uyongezelela ngamanqaku okuzithemba kunye nokhuseleko kunye nawe, unokuba nayo yonke into ezandleni zakho. Ewe yenza eyakho ibhrendi kunye nesimbo siya kuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokoyisa into ozimisele ukuyenza. Ungalibali ukuba unokubandakanya amandla emfihlakaloYinto eyenza abafazi abaninzi baphambane. Indlela yokushiya into isiqingatha yenziwe okanye ngamandla okufumana okuninzi ikwenza ukuba ubambe loo mntu.

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