Xa umfazi ejonge kuwe

Xa umfazi ejonge kuwe

Ukudibana kwamehlo luhlobo lonxibelelwano olukhoyo phakathi kwabantu, kwaye inokuba yingcebiso yomtsalane. Xa umntu obhinqileyo ekujongile, uyaqonda ukuba ikho enye into, nangona ungazi ukuba ikhona na ngenxa yokoyikwa, ukunconywa okanye ukumangaliswa.

Kwiimeko ezininzi kufuneka sisebenze uvakalelo lwethu lwesithandathu ukanti kufuneka sisebenzise ukucinga kwethu ukuze sikwazi ukuqiniseka ukuba kunokuthetha ukongamela okanye isoyikiso. Nangona kunjalo, sinamehlo ethu njengesixhobo esikhulu sokuxhobisa ukuze bonke abantu bakwazi ukunxibelelana ngaphandle kokusebenzisa intetho yomlomo, yinto ephambili kwiimeko ezisondeleyo.

Xa umntu ejonge kuwe

Ngokuqinisekileyo uye waziva indlela umntu akujonge ngayo ngaphandle kokuyibona ngamehlo akho. Uphando lupapashwe kwiphephancwadi Biology yangoku iqinisekisile ukuba bonke abantu bazimisele ukuqikelela xa umntu esijongile ngaphandle kokumjonga.

Singaqondanga kwaye ngokujonga ngeliso lenyama, sinokubona xa umntu ebeka umzimba wakhe kuthi aze ajike ajike nentloko enye kwicala elinye. Kule meko siziva ngathi xa umntu ujonge ngamehlo akhe.

Kwenzeka ntoni xa sisiva ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ujonge kuthi? Ngokuqinisekileyo sijonga ngasemva kwaye le ntshukumo inokubangela ukuba omnye umntu aqhubeke ejonge. Jonga ukuba ubuso bakhe bunjani kwaye ujonge ixesha elingakanani. Ukuba imizuzwana embalwa ugcina amehlo akhe kuwe kwaye ubuso bakhe bunzulu kwaye buyimfihlakalo, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo loo ntombazana inemincili ngawe kwaye iyathandwa ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa musa ukukhohliswa, kukho abantu basetyhini abangummangaliso kangangokuba bagcina imfihlo zabo kwaye bazama ukukuvavanya ngaphambi kokwenza itsheki.

Xa umfazi ejonge kuwe

Inzala yinxalenye yokujonga ngononophelo, kodwa ayinakuhlala ithetha ukuba nomtsalane ngokwesini. Abantu banokujonga ngokusondeleyo kuba baziva ukuncoma nokufuna ukwazi. Oko kuthi kuthi abo baziva bephawulwe kunokubonakala kuxinzelelo kwaye kuyacaphukisa. Iinkcukacha zokujonga zinokuba ngumceli mngeni, njengoko besenza ukufunda ngokuqhubekayo kwethu. Eyona nto ingokwemvelo iya kuba kukusuka kuloo ndawo ukuba awonwabanga okanye unyamezele loo mzuzu ngaphandle kokukunika ukubaluleka ngakumbi.

Jonga indlela aziphethe ngayo ngelixa ejonge ngamehlo

Abasetyhini abajonganga mntu, kanye ngoluhlobo, luphawu lokuba kukho umdla omkhulu. Qaphela iinkcukacha zokuziphatha kwabo, kukho iinkcukacha ezingabonakaliyo njengokubukeka okukhuthazayo kunye nokujonga. Ukuba loo ntombazana iza kuwe kwaye uziphethe kakubi kwaye uneentloniNgokuqinisekileyo kukho umdla. Ewe unomdla kwimeko yakho yeemvakalelo, unemvakalelo kwaye akawasusi amehlo akhe kuwe, ziinkcukacha ezilula ezibonisa ukuba uyakuthanda.

Ukuba ukwincoko yeqela kukwakho neempawu zomdla omkhulu. Nokuba ukunye nabahlobo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukujonga, udlala ngothando, uchukumisa iinwele zakhe rhoqo kwaye uzama ukujonga ukuba ujonga ngasemva.

Xa umfazi ejonge kuwe

Ngokuqinisekileyo ngaphakathi komdla ujonge ukudibana, ibonisa ubuso obunothando kwaye ifuna ukwenza uncumo. Ayaneli kubonisa kuphela umtsalane kuwe ngezi nkcukacha, kodwa ikwanika nezincomo. Kodwa ukuba intombazana ineentloni kancinci, isenokungayibonakalisi le miqondiso kwaye kuya kufuneka ujonge abanye.

Laa mfazi ubambelele kuwe, kodwa ukuba usondele kuye kwaye jonga imilebe yakho rhoqo Yinto ebonisa ukuba ujonge ukukuphuza. Umlomo wakho ubonakala uyinkanuko kuye kwaye ngokungazi ucinga ukuba ukwanga kwakho kunokuba njani.

Ukuba umzuzu usondele ngakumbi kwaye uya kulala, jonga xa usabelana ngesondo Ukuba ukujongile engakhange ajonge kude Luphawu olucace gca ukuba uyathandana. Xa umfazi ebambe amehlo akhe ixesha elide, ziyimpawu ezicacileyo abantu abazithembileyoBaneempawu zokunyaniseka.

Kwenzeka ntoni xa uphepha ukujonga?

Xa umfazi ejonge kuwe

Sineenkcukacha ukuba umntu xa ejonga ngononophelo kwaye abambe amehlo akhe luphawu lokuba ngumntu Qiniseka ngaye kwaye ndinomdla omkhulu kuwe. Nangona kunjalo, kukho abantu abangazithembanga kwaye benza okwahlukileyo. Abanakunceda ukukujonga ngokuqhubekekayo, kodwa abayeki ukujonga ixesha elide xa bedibana nabakho.

Ayilophawu lokungathandi, kodwa kunoko banomdla kwaye boyikeUkungazithembi kunye noloyiko, esele siluchazile, kukusabela kolu hlobo lwabantu. Umfazi ophepha ukujonga kungenxa yokuba ikwafihla into yobuqu kwaye kuya kufuneka ufumane.

Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba umfazi ogcina ujonga rhoqo luphawu lomdla, nangaphezulu kokuba nje umntu ofundileyo kwaye wamkelekile. Kodwa kwelinye icala sinokufumana abasetyhini abanengxaki unxunguphalo lokujonga iliso Ngale ndlela, iintloni zabo zibanika kude kwaye baya kuthintela ukujongwa kwimeko apho banokugwetywa khona.


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