Zininzi iimpawu okanye iingcebiso ezisebenzayo njengophawu lokwazi ukuba indoda iyakuthanda. Nangona kunjalo, nkqu nakulo lonke ulwazi olusishukumisayo asinakho ukubona ukuba kusebenza njani asinakuhamba gwenxa.
Kukho amadoda angaziyo ukubonisa iimvakalelo zawo okanye ngokwenene Abaqinisekanga ukuba baya kwicala elilungileyo, ke amathandabuzo avela ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba ubudlelwane buqala okanye kukho ubuhlobo nje. Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu okanye mhlawumbi uzive unomdla, Nazi ezinye iingcebiso.
Wazi njani ukuba indoda iyakuthanda?
Ukungathandabuzeki okanye ukungaqiniseki kubakho ngokulinganayo kwabasetyhini nakumadoda atsala amanye amadoda. Ngaphandle kweempawu kwaye kubonakala kakhulu kwiimeko ezininzi, kuhlala kukho ezo zingqubana zincinci okanye iingxaki ukufumanisa ukuba uyakuthanda na okanye akathandi.
Isikhundla somzimba wakhe simnika kude
Yinto esiyibiza ngokuba lulwimi lomzimba Kwaye ukuba siyayazi indlela enza ngayo, indlela ashukuma ngayo okanye isikhundla asithathayo umzimba wakhe, sinokuphantse siziqonde iinjongo zakhe. Kwisifundo samadoda nabasetyhini, kwaboniswa ukuba abantu basetyhini xa sinomdla komnye umntu sidale izimbo zomzimba ezingama-52, kwaye indoda yintshukumo ezili-10 kuphela.
Xa umzimba wendoda ungqiyame kakhulu emntwini onomdla kuwo, ngumqondiso lowo. Yintoni egqithisile, jonga ukuma kweenyawo zabo, loo magxa akho kunye nesinqe ukuba zikhomba kuloo mntu ke ewe.
Iimpawu ezingakumbi kuxa umntu ihlala ihleli imilenze ithe saa ububanzi nezandla esinqeni. Hayi soze ajike loo mntu kwaye uya kujonga kubo kakhulu. Uya kwenza kwakhona ngokusondela kwaye Uyakukhathalela ngokukodwa oko kuthethwayo. Nokuba uqaphele ukuba nini ufuna ukuhlala rhoqo y chukumisa iinwele zakhe amaxesha ngamaxesha, nazo ziyimiqondiso.
Ngokudibana kwamehlo
Ngokuqinisekileyo yindoda enomdla uyakuhlala ejonga kakhulu. Kodwa sukumphambanisa nomntu oneentloni kuba kwiimeko ezininzi akakwazi kujonga kuba uneentloni xa ethe wabhaqwa ebukele. Ungafumanisa Inqanaba lakho lenzala lenza oku kuqaphela- Mjonge emehlweni imizuzwana embalwa ulinde ukubona ukuba usabela njani. Xa ejonga, thatha ujonge kude umzuzwana kwaye umjonge kwakhona emehlweni.
Ukuba uqhubeka ujonga, kungenxa yokuba umdla mkhulu. Ukuba ujonga imilebe yakho, iyafana nemvakalelo yokuthanda. Kodwa ukuba ujonga kude ngokukhawuleza kuya kubakho umdla omkhulu. Kwaye ukuba uyamtyhalela kude kwaye ajonge kuwe kwakhona kukho umnqweno. Ukuba akubangakho nxu lumano lwenkwenkwe kwaye inkwenkwe ijonge macala onke, sithetha ngento engenamdla.
Xa kukho ukudibana komzimba
Eli nqaku libaluleke kakhulu kwaye uninzi lwemiba luya kuvela apha. Ukuba anindawonye kwaye ngequbuliso niyasondela, iyakuhlala ifumana indlela yokugcina unxibelelwano lomzimba, nokuba unomncinci omncinci esandleni, uthinta isinqe sakho okanye uzise isandla sakhe kwingalo yakho. Kukho ezinye iinkcukacha ezincinci ezinje beka isandla sakhe phezu kwesakho kunye nokuzithethelela komzuzwana wokuhleka okanye nini imibuliso yakho kunye nemikhosi elungileyo kakhulu, ukwangana okukhulu.
Ukuba yinkwenkwe enentloni kunjalo ngekhe abenobuganga bokwenza nayiphi na le miqondiso. Kule meko, inokuba nguwe oya kuthatha inyathelo lokufumanisa ukuba usabela njani. Ukuba wothukile kwaye akafuni kuthatha inxaxheba, musa ukothuka, iya kuba ngenxa yeentloni zakhe. Nangona kunjalo, jonga ezi nkcukacha zilandelayo kunye nezi sele zikhankanyiwe.
Ezinye iinkcukacha zibalulekile
Njengoko sijongile lonke ingqalelo yakho iya kugxila kumntu omthandayo. Awuyi kuba nako ukuphepha susa uncumo olusisigxina ebusweni bakho, nokuba amehlo adibana ngokukhawuleza uza kuncuma.
Njengomgaqo akunakunceda kodwa ujonge imilebe yaloo mntu, ngekhe ukwazi ukujonga amehlo kodwa umlomo. Luphawu olucace gca, nangona lukhona abantu ukuba abakwazi ukujonga emehlweni kwaye baphambukisele amehlo abo kwamanye amanqaku obuso.
Ngexesha lencoko qho uya kuba nomdla wokwazi ukuba uziva njani, Ukusukela ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni unjani, kuyakuba kwinkonzo yakho ukufumana ukuba ingakunceda njani. Ngaphandle koko iya kukugcwalisa ngezincomo ezininzi kwaye izakufuna ukufumana amanqaku amaninzi afana nawe. Eli candelo liyanelisa kakhulu kuba ukuba unomdla wokwenene unokuba nolwalamano olukhulu.
Ukuba awukacaci ngazo zonke ezo nkcukacha kwaye uyayithanda le ndoda, ungasoloko uzama ukuthatha inyathelo ngokwakho. Ukuba awubeki emngciphekweni, umvuzo usenokungabikho, kwaye kungcono ukuzisola ngokwenza into ebekufanelekile okanye hayi, kunokuba uzisole ngokungayenzi. Ukuze ukwazi ukufunda ngakumbi ngendlela onokudlala ngayo ungabona ngeso lengqondo “indlela onomdla ngayo online"Okanye"iingcebiso ezilungileyo zokungena kwintombazana".