Ukuba ukwixesha eliphambili lokuphucula, kuya kufuneka utyale ixesha lakho ekufundeni enye yeencwadi zokuzithemba esizicebisayo. ukukufumanisa buqu. Ziincwadi ezibhalwe ngokwembono yombhali ofuna ukunceda ukuvusa bonke abantu abayidingayo. Ziyatyebisa kunye nokukhula komntu.
Awungekhe uphuthe ukuzifundela ukuzinceda ukuphucula indawo yethu yokujonga kwaye sifikelele ekuvukeni. Ziipasi zobomi ezibandakanya umsebenzi, ubomi bentlalo, usapho kunye nothando, apho le mibhalo iya kubhala indlela yokujongana nakuphi na ukungaqiniseki ukusuka kwibhalansi yobomi kunye nokucamngca kobuqu.
Iincwadi zokuzixabisa zokuphucula umntu
Izipho zokungafezeki
Incwadi elayishwe ziimvakalelo kunye ngamabinzana azele yinyani kwaye kulungile kakhulu. Ababaninzi abaxhasa ithiyori yakhe kuba ayingqinwanga ngokwesayensi, kodwa isinika loo nto Inkuthazo yangaphakathi, imilinganiselo emininzi ekufuneka yenziwe kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into yokwamkelwa komntu.
Imephu yokufumana impumelelo
Ibhalwe nguJohn C. Maxwell osenza sibone indlela ekufuneka siluxabise ngayo uhambo lobomi bethu ukususela ekucengeni ukuya ekupheleni. Iya kusityhilela indlela esinokuphumelela ngayo, kodwa hayi ngobutyebi namandla, kodwa kulonwabo lwethu kunye ukuxhotyiswa. Indlela yakho kunye nesimbo sokuyihambisa iya kuba igcwele iinkcukacha ezihlekisayo kunye ne-positivism eninzi.
Ubukrelekrele boMvakalelo 2.0
Sonke simele zenzele eyethu ingqiqo ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ifanele ifundiswe xa sikhula ukususela ebuntwaneni. Yindlela yokwazi ubukrelekrele bethu kwaye sibenze bukhule phambili impumelelo yomntu. Le ncwadi iya kukunceda uphucule iintlobo ezine zezakhono ezisisiseko: indlela yokulawula ubudlelwane, ulwazi lwentlalontle, ukuzazi kunye nokuzilawula. Ababhali bezi ncwadi baya kukunika elona cebiso lilungileyo indlela yokuphucula i-quotient yeemvakalelo.
Unyango
Incwadi ebhalwe ngu Oliver Burkeman iphi ukugxeka okuncinci kwingcinga okulungileyo okubonakaliswa kuluntu kwaye kuthathwe ngokugqithiseleyo. Ihlala inetha kuthi kwaye amabinzana 'akhuthazayo' afika ukuphakamisa imeko yeemvakalelo, ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka ngakumbi kunamabinzana alula. Uqinisekile ukuba umthetho wokutsalana awusebenzi, kodwa uvelisa ukungonwabi ngakumbi kwabo bafuna ukuzinikela ngendlela engaphaya. Ukuzinceda kwakho kuya kuveliswa kukukholelwa ukuba uphuculwe, kunye nomxholo wefilosofi kunye neenyaniso ezixhaswa kwaye zingqinwe yisayensi.
Iindawo zakho ezimbi
Sisikhokelo se ukulwa oonobangela bokungonwabi, kubo bonke abo bantu baziva becinezelekile, ukuba akukho nto ibanelisayo kwakhona. Ngaphezu koko, ijolise kwabo baziva bengakhuselekanga, begcwele ii-complex kunye Yiyo loo nto bevalelwa kwaye bangaze bafezekiseke. Kodwa ukufunda le ncwadi kufuneka uzibophelele ekuthwaleni uxanduva ngendaleko yakho kunye Zigqithise ngempumelelo enkulu, uya kuyiqonda ngaphandle kobunzima kuba ibhalwe ngendlela efundeka kakhulu.
Zithande ngokungathi ubomi bakho buxhomekeke kuyo
Umbhali wayo uguqulela kwincwadi yakhe ukuba wafunda njani ukuzibona ngaphakathi kwaye woyise imiceli mngeni emikhulu yobomi. Iingxelo zayo zenzelwe ukuba ziqondwe ngoluhlu olubanzi lweenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo kunye noluntu, kubandakanywa abaphathi abaphezulu kunye nabasebenzi abakwizikhundla ezibalulekileyo. Uchaza indlela ahlanganisa ngayo uthotho lweengcinga kunye nezimo zengqondo eziye zamkhokelela ekuphuculeni kwakhe kwaye afezekise iinjongo zakhe. Kufuneka nje uqondise indlela yakho ukuze uzibophelele ekuzithandeni kwaye oko kuya kutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Ngoku lithuba lakho lokonwaba
Enye incwadi yokuzinceda ebhalwe nguCurro Cañete kwaye ixatyiswe kakhulu ngabafundi bayo. Kwabaninzi kubhaliwe kwizazela zabo nangaphakathi ukuze bakwazi ukunceda bonke abo bantu bonwabe. Ukwenza oku, uye wazoba imaphu ebalaseleyo ukuze iphathwe ngokulula kwaye ikubonise indlela yokufikelela kwindlela yakho ukuphepha imiqobo emininzi. Kumbhali wayo, ulonwabo alupheleli nje ekumiselweni, kodwa indlela umntu ekufuneka ayilandele ukuze uzithembe.
Ungazoyisa njani ngamaxesha obunzima
Mhlawumbi le yincwadi uninzi lwethu oluyidingayo, kuba nokuba yingxaki yezoqoqosho okanye yeemvakalelo, amaphepha ayo Banokukunceda ukhuphe loo mandla ehlala kwabaninzi bethu. USaulo Hidalgo ufumene eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini, kwaye ayikuko ukufumana loo mandla okoyisa amaxesha amabi, kodwa kukufumana uthando lwakho kunye nokunyusa ukuzithemba kwakho. ngokuqina okukhulu.
Ezi zezinye zeencwadi ezithi Banokukunceda womeleze umphefumlo wakho kwaye uziqonde ngakumbi izithintelo eziza ngaphambi kobomi. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo asinako ukuwaqokelela onke, nangona ukuba uthatha isitokhwe kuwo onke, rhoqo Baya kukuthumela kwabanye. Ukuba awuyazi into omawuyikhethe, ungalibali ukuba iincwadi zikhetha abantu, kufuneka ukhethe eyona ihambelana nawe.