Umxholo wokulukuhla Inokuba bubugcisa kubo bonke abantu abangenangxaki yokudala olo hlobo. Nangona kunjalo, asekhona amadoda athi bafika kolu khubekiso lukhulu, ekubeni ubugcisa bokulukuhla umfazi buye baba yinto engafikelelekiyo.
Ukukwazi ukulukuhla kunxulunyaniswe nomdla ukutsala umdla womntu, ukubanakho ukoyisa loo mzuzu kwaye ufuna ukuba ahlangane nawe ukuze udlale ngothando. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ezinye zeenkcukacha kufuneka wazi into esiphakamisa ukuba ngalo mzuzu Umtsalane omkhulu kubo bobabini.
Nxiba ngokwendalo nangobuhle
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ngaphambi kokwenza loo ntetho, ukuba sele kukho uthotho lweembonakalo, kuya kufuneka uwulindele loo mzuzu kwaye umbone ukuba le nto ayibonayo ichanekile. Inkangeleko yakho kunye nesinxibo sakhoOku kuya kuba yenye yezinto eziza kutsala umdla wakho.
Khetha iimpahla ezingathathi hlangothi, ezincomayo ezikwenza ubonakale umhle, nokuba uya ngokungakhathali. Khumbula ukuba iimpahla ozikhethayo zezona zikwenza uzive ulungile kwaye zihambelana nobuntu bakho kuba abantu basetyhini banake loo nto kakhulu.
Hlamba ngaphambi kokuba uphume Ukoyisa, unelungiselelo elihle leenwele kwaye ukuba uneendevu kufuneka ubenazo uzilungise kakuhle. Isiqhumiso esinobuntu kwaye eyindoda nayo yoyisa kakhulu. Ngazo zonke ezi nkcukacha zincinci uya kukwenza uzive uzithembe ngakumbi ukuba uza kuba ngokwakho.
Qala ukukhangela imiqondiso yakho
Ukuba uqaphele loo mfazi, sele uqalile jonga indlela eziphatha ngayo nezenza ngayo. Le ntombazana, ukuba ibubonile ubukho bakho, iya kuba nakho ukubonisa enye into ngothotho lweempawu.
Ukuba umfazi ujonge kuwe, jonga kude emva koko uphinde ukujonge kwakhonaNgokuqinisekileyo ukujongile. Ukuba uyancuma kwaye uhambisa amehlo akhe kabukhali ukujonga kuwe, ngokuqinisekileyo ziimpawu ezilungileyo kakhulu. Mhlawumbi kwakhona, ngaphakathi kwezo kujongeka mhlawumbi yehlisa intloko yakho ujonge ecaleni, okanye uhleka uvalo. Ikwaluphawu lokuba kunokubakho unxibelelwano.
Sebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba wakho
Ukuba ufuna ubukho bakho buchazwe njengobumnene ngokunjalo, kufuneka yenza unxibelelwano oluhle nolukhuselekileyo lomzimba. Musa ukuyithoba intloko, gcina umzimba wakho umi nkqo emagxeni ngasemva kwaye intloko iphakame. Ukuba usela into, sukuyibamba phambi kwesifuba sakho kwaye zama ukuguqula umzimba wakho uye kuye.
Ngexesha lokunxibelelana
Ukuba ukhethe ukuzibonakalisa kulaa mfazi, kuya kufuneka yenza imeko yokuhlangana ukuhlala nokuthetha nawe umzuzwana. Ungaqala ngo Unjani? KUNYE Akwakhi izivakalisi ezingenathemba. Kuya kufuneka ufumane indlela yokwaphula ukungunda kwaye ufumane ubugcisa bokutsala loo mfazi. Ukuqala Isimo sakho sengqondo kufuneka sibe nobubele kunye nendalo.
Indawo yakho kufuneka ibe nomtsalane kwaye ithenda, oko kubonisa umdla wakho, kodwa ngobumnandi. Musa ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakho, okanye ube krwada, okanye ungabi nathemba. Umfazi uya konwaba ngakumbi xa bejonga indoda yokwenene ezele ukuhlekisa. Ayisiyo malunga nokuxelela iziqhulo rhoqo, kodwa ukufumana yonke into eyakhayo ebomini intsingiselo ehlekisayo.
Ukuba nguye ogqiba ukuthetha mamela ngenyameko, uyavuma kwaye uzithathela lula zonke iingcinga zakhe. Bonisa umdla wakho kwaye udibanise iingxoxo zabo namagama anokuncedisa incoko yabo. Ngaphezu kwako konke, gxininisa indlela evakalelwa ngayo kwaye unomdla kwindlela yokumnceda.
Ukuba uza kufudukela kwenye indawo kwaye uza kuhamba naye, kuyamcenga kakhulu ukuba uyabuva ubukho bakho ukuqaphela ukubanjwa kwezandla zakho. Ungamthatha ngesandla umkhokelele kwikona okanye ubeke isandla sakho emqolo okanye esinqeni, ukuze eve ubamba.
Amanqaku aphambili anceda kwincoko
Ukuma kwakho xa kufikwa ekubeni ubekho yeyona nto iphambili. Kufuneka ubonise ukuzithemba kwaye uzame ukukhululeka. Ukwenza oku, gcina ukuma kakuhle, ngesifuba sakho kuphakanyisiwe, amagxa akho abuye umva, kodwa ngaphandle kwengxinano.
Enye into ebangela ubuchule bakho ukuba ibe nini Indoda ithetha ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye ivumela iimvakalelo zayo ukuba zikhule. Amadoda angabonisa ukuba sesichengeni kwabo, kodwa le nto itsala abantu basetyhini kakhulu, babona amadoda enqweneleka ngakumbi ngokwesondo.
Gqibela makabe nguye ophambiliUkuba ufuna ukuthetha, makamnike kwaye mamela ngenyameko. Awungekhe ube ngumlinganiswa ophambili kule ncoko kwaye uthethe ngokugqithileyo, kananjalo awunakuzixabisa njengomntu ongazukuhlangabezana nolindelo oluthile. Ukunyaniseka kunye nentembelo zihamba kunye ukwazi ukoyisa umntu.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi malunga nobugcisa bokulukuhla ungasifunda "Ungamrhwebesha njani umntu obhinqileyo","Ithetha ukuthini xa umntu obhinqileyo ekuxelela izinto zakhe"Okanye"Kuthetha ukuthini xa umntu obhinqileyo ejonge emehlweni akho".