Kubonakala ngathi indlela yethu yokudlala ngothando iye yancinci kakhulu, nangaphezulu ukuba sifuna ukuyenza ngendlela ebonakalayo. Ngoku uthatha ukudlala ngothando nentombazana kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, kuba kubonakala kulula kakhulu kwaye kukhuselekile ukuyenza ngobuqu. Kodwa kude nenyani yeyona nto ilungileyo, kuba ayisiyiyo indlela abafazi abathanda ngayo. Babonisa ngamakhwenkwe umdla omncinci kwimiyalezo kwaye abadibanisi naziphi na iinkcukacha ezintle kwincoko yakho.
Ukuba indlela yakho kukuyenza ubuso nobuso, siyakholelwa ukuba lelona thuba lilungileyo. Kuya kufuneka wandise iihorizons zakho kwaye wazi apho unokujonga khona loo ntombazana intle kwaye mhlawumbi vula ukufuna ukudibana nawe. Ezona ndawo zintle ziindawo zikawonke-wonke, emsebenzini, esitratweni okanye kwindawo yokutyela, iiklabhu zasebusuku, imivalo ... kuba abantu abaphuma kwezi ndawo sele benethemba lokufumana ubuso obutsha nokubona olunye uhlobo lwendalo.
Ngaphambi kokudlala ngothando, zama ukuqonda indlela evakalelwa ngayo loo ntombazana
Ukuzama ukuthatha okanye ukulukuhla umfazi kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima kwamanye amadoda. Okuncinci kakhulu kunokwenyani kunokuba lula kakhulu kunokuba sicinga, Kuya kufuneka wenze eso sibindi kwaye wazi indlela le ntombazana ongayaziyo izakwenza ngayo.
Abasetyhini abathandi amadoda athanda ukuphakamisa amabele abo okanye abazama ukudala incoko ekhukhumeleyo. Kananjalo abakuthandi ukuncoma kwabantu bakudala abafuna kuphela izizathu zokunciphisa indlela. Le ndlela namhlanje ayisebenzi kwaphela.
Into abayithandayo yile ukuba bakhohliswe ngendlela engathathi cala, ungababonisi ukuba bafuna ubudlelwane obunzulu kunye obuhlala buhleliKodwa abafuni namadoda ajonge nje ukuba abelane ngesondo ngobo busuku. Iya kuchazwa ukuba injongo yakho yinto eqhelekileyo, Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba aqhubeke ngakumbi, kuya kufuneka wenze incoko ebandakanyekayo, evakalelwa kukuba unovakalelo kwaye uziva evile. Icandelo leemvakalelo lenza isifotho esikhulu kunxibelelwano lokuqala.
Amanyathelo alula ngendlela onokudlala ngayo nentombazana
Kuya kufuneka ufumane ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzazisa kuloo ntombazana. Sondela uze ubonise imbeko, bengenasimilo kwaye bengathethi kakubi. Ngaphezu kwako konke, zama ukuhlonipha incoko, ungazami ukuthetha amagama akrwada, okanye ugwebe nantoni na ngomzimba wakhe, nokuba umhle kangakanani.
Okokuqala funa amandla akho kunye nokuzithemba, ngale ndlela kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuwe ukuba ube nencoko ngaphandle kokoyika nantoni na. Ukuba ubonakalisa onke la mandla okhuseleko kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba yenzeke isiphumo sokuzithemba.
- Into ebalulekileyo kukugcina umgca wakho yiba nguwe kwaye ungaguquleli ubuntu bakho. Abasetyhini banomdla kakhulu kwaye baya kuqaphela kwangoko xa udlala indima yesibini okanye uzenzisa. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukuthandana ayisiyonto yakho kodwa uzama, sukuncama. Amantombazana afana nesibindi kwaye apho ubonisa loo nxalenye ekungenisa ngaphakathi.
- Gcina ukuma komzimba okuchanekileyo. Iingalo kufuneka zikhululeke kwaye amagxalaba abuye umva, ngaphandle kokuzama ukuwela iingalo kunye nemilenze. Ngale ndlela, wamkela indlela yokuma.
- Soloko uzama ukugcina uncumo ebusweni bakho kwaye sukuzama ukujonga imizimba yabo njengoko inokuphuma inganyaniseki. Abasetyhini bayathanda ukubonisa imizimba yabo, kodwa eyona nto bayithanda kakhulu kukuba bayazama yazi ngaphakathi kwayo.
- Ukuba unencoko yondla umzimba wakho kuyeSebenzisa izivamvo zakho ezintlanu ukuze ubambe ngokupheleleyo yonke into ayithethayo. Kufuneka ugcine ukuma kwengqwalaselo kunye nomdla, kodwa ungakhangeli ukhazimle, ungazi ukuba wenzeni. Eli candelo linzima ngakumbi, kuba ukuba unovalo kakhulu kuya kuba nzima ukugcina incoko ekhululekile, kodwa sukuzama ukuthintitha okanye ukuthintitha.
- Jonga yonke imiqondiso ukuba uyakubonisa. Ukuba uyancuma kwaye ugcina unxibelelwano lwamehlo, kungenxa yokuba unomdla wokudibana nawe. Ukuba unencoko kwaye ujonge kakhulu, luphawu oluhle. Ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba uyambona ephazamiseka okanye ejonge kude Kungenxa yokuba ayibonisi naluphi na uhlobo lomtsalane.
Kwinqanaba apho kuya kufuneka uphelise incoko, unga yivalelise ngembeko kwaye ngendlela elungileyo ungacela inombolo yakhe yefowuni okanye iprofayile yakhe kwi zokunxibelelana. Ungatsho ukuba usale kakuhle kwaye ube nexesha elimnandi, kodwa Kuya kufuneka wenze ezinye izicwangciso. Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana inombolo yomnxeba, nditsho kakuhle uthi 'ube nosuku oluhle'. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba uyakwenza oko, linda iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuze unxibelelane.