Kumakhwenkwe amaninzi kulucelomngeni olukhulu ukurhoxa indlela yokuba nentombi. Inokuba yinto ezelwe ngamanye amava obomi, nangona kunjalo, yinyaniso leyo inokubanzima kumadoda amaninzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo awukwazi ukufumana intombazana kuba mhlawumbi awuzami kakhulu, kodwa siyakuqinisekisa ukuba apha siyakunceda ukuba wazi ukuba kutheni ungayifumani.
Wonke umntu onenjongo kufuneka yinqwenelele ngokuthembekileyo nangethemba lonke. Ukuze ukwazi ukwenza le feat, kufuneka ufunde ukuba kufuneka wonwabe umzuzu ngamnye kwaye ukwazi ukushiya imithambo-luvo yakho ukufezekisa olo kuzithemba.
Kufuneka usebenze ngaphakathi emntwini
Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba akukho zinto zininzi ezinokufezekiswa ngaphandle komgudu. Ukuba awuzivumeli ukuba ubonwe, Zombini ngokwasemzimbeni nakumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nethuba elincinane lokudibana nabafazi.
Sukuncama ukuba ngumntu ongakhuselekanga, kuya kufuneka uqinise ubuntu bakho ukuze ubonise amandla akho apheleleyo. Maninzi amasuntswana anento yokwenza nezinto ezimbalwa azifezileyo, phakathi kwazo ezo zokufumana ibhinqa elimeyisa ngokwenene.
Indoda enobuntu obuncinci inyanzelekile Yomeleza into ebaluleke njengokuzithemba kwakho. Ukusuka apha ukuya phambili, into esisiseko njenge umlingiswa wakho kunye nesibheno sesini. Unokuba yindoda entle kakhulu, kodwa ukuba awunayo loo ntlantsi, awuzukubambisa abafazi.
Ngawaphi amanyathelo ekufuneka uwalandele ukuze ube nentombi
Kukho oko khangela iindawo zokudibana nabantu entsha ofuna ukuyivulela abanye. Akusoloko kufuneka ibe ziindawo apho kuthathwa iziselo, zinokuba zizikolo, iiklabhu, amaziko ezemidlalo ... ukuba liziko lakho lokuzonwabisa, unokuhlala umeme loo ntombazana ukuba inxaxheba kumsitho okanye into enento yokwenza nendawo.
Ukuba ngaba awunazo izixhobo ukuhlangabezana abafazi, ungasoloko cela umhlobo wakho ukuba akwazise. Unokujonga kwakhona umngxuma okanye isicwangciso sokukwazi ukujonga loo ntombazana kwaye unike uncedo lwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo into ethandekayo inokuqala apha.
Soloko ufumana okona kulungileyo kuwe Kwaye ngokwemvelo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba nguwe. Ukuba uzenza ngathi ufuna injongo kwaye awunyanisekanga, kuya kubonisa kwaye ubuxoki obuncinane bunokuphosa umva into esele yenziwe ngokusesikweni.
Kukho oko sondela kubafazi ngokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo, isimo sengqondo wenza konke kwaye uya kusoloko abafazi abanomdla kuwe. Into abasetyhini abangayithandiyo kukuba indoda isondela ngenjongo yokudlala ngothando kwaye ebusweni bempendulo engalunganga iba yinto epholileyo, ikratshi, i-pedantic kwaye ingenamdla kwezinye iinkalo.
Kufuneka uncume, uzive ukhululekile kwaye uthobeke. Yonke into iqala kuye, ngoko Qiniseka. Ukuba ukwindawo apho ubona ukuba abafazi banokuvuma, kufuneka ufumane umntu okunika i-vibes emihle. Ukuba awuyazi indlela yokuzazisa okanye yokuqalisa incoko, sinamanqaku abalaseleyo "Indlela yokuthandana nentombazana" o "Indlela yokungena intombazana".
Awudingi ukuya kwiinjongo kwaye ugxile kwintombazana enye kuphela. Unokuphuma iintsuku ezininzi okanye ubusuku kwaye yandisa uthungelwano lwakho lwabafowunelwa, ukusuka apha uya kuba nexesha lokudibana naloo mantombazana amakhulu kancinci kancinci kwaye fumanisa ngeenjongo zabo. Kwiintanethi zakho zentlalo unokwenza okufanayo. Ukuba ukhe wadibana namantombazana aliqela kufuneka ulinganise ukuba ngubani onokuba nakho ukuze ukwazi ukummema ukuba azokusela ngenye imini.
Fumana ukuqokelela amabinzana okanye amaqhinga ukukwazi ukuziqhelanisa namantombazana odibana nawo. Siqinisekile ukuba amantombazana amaninzi odibana nawo kwaye uqhuba incoko, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuthetha ngaphandle kobunzima, ngakumbi ukuba intombazana yamaphupha akho ibonakala.
Yenza amabinzana alungiswe kakuhle kwaye abenze bancume, kunye neenqanawa zokuqhekeza umkhenkce kunye namabinzana okudlala ngothando. Amantombazana amaninzi abathethi kakhulu kwaye ukuba ulungiselela iincoko ezininzi onokuthi ube nazo uqala into enomdla.
Khokela iincoko kwaye uziqeqeshe ukuze ungabi sisimumu. Unokubuza ukuba belunjani usuku lwakhe okanye ukuba kukho into enomdla eyenzekileyo kuye mva nje. Kodwa nawe kufuneka funda ukumamelaBakwathanda ukuxelela amabali abo kunye namadoda anomdla kakhulu kwinto abayithethayo.
Ukuba ukwazile ukwenza idinga kufuneka uvavanye ukuhambelana nalo mntu. Ukuba unonxibelelwano olwaneleyo oluya kuba sele luyisitshixo sokungena kwinto enokubakho fumana ukwenza ngokusesikweni kancinci kancinci, kwaye ngaphandle kokungxama. Kusekho into eninzi yokuhlalutya kunye nokuhlola kwaye kufuneka unikezele ixesha kuloo nto. Emva kwexesha elithile kufuneka ufumane ixesha elifanelekileyo lokumcela ukuba abe yintombi yakho.