Kukho amadoda amaninzi namhlanje, okanye abakwishumi elivisayo abathi ngaxa lithile ebomini babo bathathe isigqibo sokukhulisa iindevu, kwaye kuyinyani ukuba kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lobuso, iindevu zingcono okanye zimbi, ke siza kukuxelela ngendlela omele ukuzoba ngayo iindevu zakho ukuze ibonakale intle kuwe ngalo lonke ixesha, nokuba uyayivumela ikhule ngobuhle, isimbo okanye ukugquma isikhafu.
Ke ngoko, phawula ukuba xa unobuso obutyebileyo bubonisa isilevu esiphindwe kabini, intshebe kule meko kufuneka igqibelele, ukuze ifihle oko indawo yesilevu esezantsi uyithanda kancinci kangakanani, ukuze ubucoce ubuso bakho ngakumbi.
Ngendlela efanayo, yithi ngokuchaseneyo unobuso obusisikwere, asikucebisi ukuba unxibe iindevu ezipheleleyo, kuba iya kuphawula ezi zinto ngakumbi, iindevu zolu hlobo lwamadoda kufuneka uhlobo lweqhina elideKuba ukusukela ekugxileni kwindawo yomlomo kunye nasemadevini, iyacokisa amanqaku, iwandise.
Kwelinye icala, khankanya ukuba ubuso obujikelezileyo bube nentshebe yokutshixa emfutshane, enemigca ethe tye edibanisa ukubola kweebhokhwe kunye nebhokhwe, ukuba unobuso obumbhoxo obuzayo buyakukholisa ngakumbi ngakumbi uhlobo lweendevu ezifana nebhokhwe, kwindawo yesilevu, ukuyinyamekela yonke imihla kunye nokuyisika xa kufanelekile, ukufikelela kwinkangeleko entle kodwa engacwangciswanga.
Kwangokunjalo, kuya kufuneka niyazi ukuba xa ningamadoda anezihlunu ezidumileyo, sicebisa ukuba nikhulise iindevu kunye nentshebe encinci kwindawo yesilevu, nishiye neendevu zingqingili inxalenye yesidlele kunye nentamo ukuze ubuso obunxantathu obunamathambo eedlabb athobeke ngokuthambileyo.
Ke, nokuba injani na imo yobuso bakho, ungathandabuzi ukuba iyiyo unakekele iindevu zakho, ekubeni ilungiselelwe naliphi na ixesha losuku.
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